What should parents do if their children fall in love and elope with someone

Updated on society 2024-05-08
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think my parents didn't handle it well, otherwise they wouldn't have eloped. If you can get in touch, please persuade me to go home and talk about it. I believe that as long as parents do not object, no child wants to leave home, and sometimes loving someone does not think the same way as you as parents.

    If you let him be with someone you don't love, and you think it's for the good of your children, then it's wrong, because that means you have to live with someone you don't love or even hate for the rest of your life, if you want to change it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Forgive ignorant children, they will surely understand how difficult it is to be a parent.

    Tolerance is the best way to resolve conflicts, and at this point, see if you can contact your children and influence them with love.

    I wish all parents all over the world all the best, happiness and health.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. How old is your daughter? It's really not easy to be a parent, and you have to worry about your children when they get older. This is every parent, and they can't let go of their children.

    Give your child a ** and communicate. Talk about each other's thoughts. Running away from home doesn't solve the problem. You always have to face problems.

    What should a daughter do if she elopes with her boyfriend and becomes a parent?

    How old is your daughter? As a parent, it's really not easy to lose, and your child has to worry about it when he's older. This is every parent, and they can't let go of their children.

    Give the child a defeat and communicate. Talk about each other's thoughts. Running away from home doesn't solve the problem.

    I always have to face the problem.

    19 years old. It's not very old, it's only 19 years old! Really, some children now have the idea of calling themselves and have their own ideas. Don't be blind about right and wrong, and do things impulsively. Maybe it's because of being young and not thinking about the consequences.

    It's been more than ten days, and I haven't been contacted, ** I don't answer, and I don't reply to messages.

    Is there anything you can do to help me?

    The person who can be contacted contacts is in touch and asks about his boyfriend's family. Find the two children as soon as possible, and the family can rest assured. Or maybe my family is worried about it now.

    It's all said, my boyfriend's house has been found, and everyone is working outside

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, adults have the right to choose their partner.

    But first of all, we have the obligation to support our parents, how to do it is a little irresponsible, depending on the specific reasons why the parents do not agree, if the parents do not agree with the place is more reasonable, especially female friends should consider carefully.

    Generally speaking, parents are a solid support after being wronged, if there is a conflict with the father and daughter, in case of unhappiness after marriage, they can only eat coptis dumbly, and they can't say what they are suffering from.

    Therefore, it is not recommended to elope, discuss it with your parents, and keep your eyes open to see if it is really inappropriate or if your parents are too harsh.

    Adults have the right to choose and are also responsible for their own choices.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is definitely not good for your parents to elope if you don't agree with you, because if you don't have your parents to protect you and you don't have your parents' approval, most marriages are unhappy, and parents generally think about their children, so you still have to think twice, consult your parents more, and ask your parents for their opinions. Marriage is not child's play, so you must be cautious.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No. Parents do not agree to get along, there are other ways to solve it, and elopement will have serious consequences, especially for girls, and the price will be greater.

    The vast majority of parents are reasonable people who will not interfere in their children's marriage, and they are the ones who are most eager to see their children's happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, elopement is basically impossible to achieve in the modern society of the Internet, because there are all kinds of monitoring networks and various resources everywhere in modern society, and there are no opinions that you want to hear, as long as your parents are willing to look for them, you will always be able to find clues.

    Secondly, from the perspective of your parents, since you don't agree with getting along, it means that your parents don't think it is suitable for you, and you can't think about many things yourself, and your parents have thought about it very well for you, so it's not wrong for parents to listen to their parents' opinions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, you ask, you don't agree with our deal, can we elope? You can't elope with this question. You're really in good shape, and you're in love.

    People have to be good to the elderly. Look at your parents more. Over time, your parents will like her and will agree.

    Theoretically, yes, but from the facts, from the emotion, from the life and other aspects, it is still necessary to get the consent and blessing of the parents, and have the opportunity to communicate with the parents more.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's best not to, sometimes you will regret it, it's better to communicate with your parents, after all, even if you elope, you may not be happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since your parents don't agree with you getting along, you have to ask your parents about their reasons, and if they are for your good, you should break up instead of elopement, and the consequences of elopement are often more tragic.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Parents must be for the sake of their children, there may be some reason for disagreeing with your object, it may be that you are still young and underage, maybe the other party's character is not good, etc., or it may be that the thinking is more traditional and conservative, you have to communicate with the family to discuss and solve, you can't run away from home and elope, the outside world is not as beautiful as you imagined, and daily expenses are also a problem, good luck.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If your parents don't agree with you being together, because your parents don't agree with the reason and solve the problem, if your parents always disagree, you don't have to tell your parents first, the two of you get along secretly, and when it's over, you can tell your parents at the right time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your parents don't agree with you getting along, you can't elope, because the more you do this, the more disgusted your parents will be, and the less they will agree to you being together. However, a more modest approach should be taken. Find ways to make your parents happy.

    Let parents see each other's sincerity and strengths. See your determination too, so that parents will agree.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't elope, your parents will be very sad. You can't do this for the sake of your parents. You can tell your parents that you like him very much and want to be with him. I hope that parents can be fulfilled.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Parents don't agree, we get along, of course, we can elope, because the feelings belong to us, I believe that our parents will understand us.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course not, it will be very sad for your parents, and all you need to do is to convince them so that they can bless you. In fact, it is to tell them with actions that the other party loves you very much and can give you happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It can be, but you have to think clearly, real life is not like the TV series, you have to bear a lot of things, from all sides, think about it yourself, it's best to find a way to solve the problem, avoiding the problem is not a long-term solution.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No. In the world, people must first have a sense of responsibility and learn to take responsibility. The power of love is great, and everything must be solved with love!

    In the eyes of parents, their children are always the best, and the other half of the children should also be shining, so that they are worthy of their children. We need to understand the painstaking efforts of our parents! Since the two are in love, then the two of them together, face both parents together, let the parents feel your love, and the parents will eventually agree:

    Because the happiness of children is the real happiness of parents!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If your parents don't let you get along, there must be a reason for him, and that reason also tells you, why don't you get along? You should understand in your heart, remember a sentence, all parents in the world are the same, let their children be good, no parent does not want their children to be good, if one day, when you encounter difficulties or dangers, your parents will definitely be the first time, come to your side, when you solve problems, if you elope, will make your parents anxious, now you don't understand the mood of your parents, after you become a family, what your parents do for you today, then you will all understand, because you don't raise children, don't know your parents' kindness, As you grow older, you will grow up slowly, and understand the hard work of your parents, and when you are old, to the age of your parents, you will understand, and it will be too late at that time, why not when you are young? Listen to your parents' advice and teachings?

    Also remember to listen to your parents more, if you are particularly happy in the future, you will be grateful for everything that your parents have taught you today, there is a kind of love, no one can replace it, no one can match, only parents, cherish the time with your parents! Be filial to your parents!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, you can't elope, elopement is to hurt yourself, it makes sense that your parents don't agree, they are from the past, you have to listen to their advice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't elope, your parents don't agree, you have the truth of your parents, your parents are from the past, you have seen more of the world than you, he is from the good side of you, if you think that your parents think well, it's not like that, then you can make it clear to your parents, if it is indeed your parents, and then you still want to love yourself, you will encounter a lot of suffering in the future, you will regret it at that time, but we don't know the specific problem, you think about it yourself, anyway, elopement is not the best policy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's okay to elope. But the price is too heavy. This is not recommended. Adults are responsible for their actions. Talk to your parents. Impress them with your true feelings.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your parents don't agree, don't elope. Because you have to face your parents in the future, they are the hearts and minds of your parents, and if you are an only child, you can't, because the only child is all your parents, and you must communicate with your parents to figure out why you oppose and what you are worried about? Put the problem on the table, solve the problem, let the relatives who agree with you to do the work, or you can write a letter of guarantee, generally because you are worried about divorce and guilt in the future, and the starting point is for the good of your children.

    I recommend that it is best to take care of your parents easily.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If your parents don't agree, you get along with the object, you can't elope, if you elope, your parents can't find your parents will be very sad, you should consider your parents' feelings, do some work with your parents, if you really love each other, your parents will agree with you, if you elope, if you don't have a good time, you will feel that your parents are doing the right thing, don't be hot-headed for a while, you should stay with your parents to discuss.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Parents don't agree, we get along, can we elope? I think. No, I should say absolutely no.

    Parents won't hurt you. Since he doesn't agree, you get along. They have a point.

    Since you guys want to be together. should be with their parents. Communicate and discuss.

    That is, you and your friends. Together, your mother and your father are likely to see. You will not be happy in the future.

    That's why it's stopped. I suggest you want you to talk to your own parents. Lots of communication.

    Such. Maybe your parents will change their minds.

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