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This is a good question, and many people have this wish. To solve this problem, we should start from the following aspects:
1. Improve yourself. Virtue is the most respectable inner factor. When we look at a person, the most important thing is to look at the person's character, not to see how much money he has in his pocket, nor how powerful the person is.
A kind, virtuous, reasonable, hardworking, and housekeeper woman, even if she looks average, will be respected and loved. At the same time, a woman with virtue will become more and more beautiful, kinder and more lovely. The best way to improve oneself is to read more books of sages and learn from them, because sages have the highest moral character, the most complete wisdom, and the most sincere people, and are models and examples for all mankind to learn.
2. Care for others. Those who care about others will also care about themselves. Caring for and caring for others in everything is much better than just thinking about it from your own point of view.
Have this heart: no matter what others do to me, I will treat others with care and love.
3. Continue to work hard. Everyone has shortcomings, but recognizing them and correcting them is a long-term process. In terms of recognizing one's own shortcomings, if you compare them with the teachings of the sages, you will find that you are all faulty. In correcting shortcomings, we should learn from the actions of the sages.
As long as you persist in working hard, you will become knowledgeable, generous, considerate, virtuous, modest, and amiable. Your boyfriend will love you more, your relatives and friends will respect you more, your work will become smoother, and your happiness will become stronger.
I wish you all the best in your love and a harmonious family.
This, for your reference.
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There will be trouble, there can be petty fights, don't go too far
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First of all, you should cherish yourself.
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1. Take the initiative to change yourself for men.
It has been observed that many women will change themselves in their relationships. Women see this change as proof of love, but men don't.
When a woman becomes unrecognizable for the sake of affection, your attraction to a man will decrease day by day. When you become a completely different person, there is no attraction in the eyes of your man.
The reason why a man is with you is because he is in love with you for what you really are. The most real you he likes, but you buried his love with your own hands.
If you have been taking the initiative to change for a man, even if you love him deeply, he will only think that you are cheap.
Since men are not asking you to change yourself, you should be generous with yourself. Only by attracting men with the most true self can you really retain the hearts of men.
Women should remember that no matter how much you love a man, please don't change yourself easily. Being brave is the best protection for yourself.
2. Take the initiative to give up work for men.
Giving up work is a woman's own choice, but many women put the responsibility on the man, thinking that the man's love prompted them to give up.
When a woman does this, not only can she not protect her feelings well, but it will also make men think that you are cheap.
Taking the initiative to give up a job for a man is not a manifestation of loving a man, but an increase in the burden on men. Even if a man can take care of your life, he will look down on you because of it.
In the eyes of a man, a woman who has the ability and a job is truly valuable and worthy of his cherishment. You don't even have that value, and no amount of anything you do is in vain.
If you don't want to lose value in the initiative, don't give up on your job. Even if you find a very rich man, you have to rely on yourself to support yourself.
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Your boyfriend is really starting to ignore you, I don't love you much, I won't love you like before, it may be your willfulness, and the landlord's love is unlikely to be redeemed and accept the reality! If you really can't let go, go to him and ask him what you're doing wrong, that's not doing well, or suggesting that you let it go. Be a friend, and if you continue like this, he will become more and more disgusted and hate you, and he doesn't love you anymore.
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Break up, there is no longer any need to be together. It's better to have a memory than to live in the shadows for the rest of your life. There is no such thing as a fully career-oriented man, a real man will set aside even a little time to take care of you, and since he doesn't have this time, there is no need for you to be with such a person.
All kinds of excuses are rhetoric, to put it bluntly, "fate is over".
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Career is the foundation of emotional maintenance, without a career, what should I do if I have a material life? You also have to give him a piece of space, the relationship will bring a lot of pressure to both parties, and it is best to wait until at least one of them has a successful career, and then be together.
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I'm tired of you, how far and how far away, how far away, this boyfriend's voice.
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Obviously, the man is already annoyed.,It seems that a few people who fall in love in college can go to the end....
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