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Parents' expectations for their children must be to want her to live a happy and stable life, if you have limited financial ability now, then often behave, be friendly to the woman, care about her parents, exchange sincerity for sincerity, and make them believe that you will make their daughter happy, even if you will be more constrained for a while, but you will treat her better than yourself. Time is your biggest bargaining chip and your last bargaining chip.

It depends on how much you bind your girlfriend, and if she listens to you more than her parents, that's the best. If you can't do it, you can pretend to be a potential stock to please the second elder and make them change their opinion of you. If you can't look at the character of their parents, they should pretend to be grandchildren.

If you are really the kind of old man who is snarky and expects his daughter to live, I suggest you give up. In today's society, people can't toss reality.

Poor family? How about you?

If you are good enough, good enough, and potential enough, what reason do their family members have to refuse!

Therefore, it is better to retreat and close the net, and make yourself strong first!

The best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and make them happy.

Parents in free love who do not agree to the marriage shall actively obtain the consent of the parents, but the parents cannot interfere with the marriage of their children, and the marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it, and if the marriage is entered into due to coercion, the coerced party may request the people's court to annul the marriage.

[Legal basis].Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, and it shall be forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it.

Article 1052.

Where marriage is entered into under duress, the coerced party may request the people's court to annul the marriage.

Where a request for annulment of marriage is made, it shall be submitted within one year from the date on which the coercive act is terminated.

Where a party whose personal liberty has been unlawfully restricted requests the annulment of marriage, it shall be submitted within one year from the date on which personal liberty is restored.

If the parents do not agree to the marriage, both parties shall actively obtain the consent of the parents, but the parents shall not interfere with the marriage of their children, and the marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and either party shall be prohibited from coercing the other party, and any organization or individual shall be prohibited from interfering, and if the marriage is due to coercion, the coerced party may request the people's court to annul the marriage.

1. The meaning of marital autonomy.

Implicit in the right to marital autonomy is:

1. Freedom of marriage, marriage shall be completely voluntary between man and woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it;

2. Freedom of divorce, if both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they can freely choose divorce by agreement or litigation.

2. What does the Civil Code say about the autonomy of marriage?

Provisions of the Civil Code on marital autonomy:

1. The freedom to marry, marriage shall be completely voluntary between the man and the woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party to force the other, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere with it;

2. Freedom of divorce, if both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they can freely choose divorce by agreement or litigation.

3. What are the disputes over marital autonomy?

Specific Provisions on Disputes over Marital Autonomy:

1. Freedom of marriage, marriage should be completely voluntary between man and woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere;

2. Freedom of divorce, if both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they can freely choose divorce by agreement or litigation.

Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and it is forbidden for either party to coerce the other party, and it is forbidden for any organization or individual to interfere.

The opinion of the parents is not important, and the parents are generally not the opponents of the children in this kind of matter.

If the parents are just because of financial considerations, then there is no need, the money is earned slowly, and there are only lazy people and no poor people in these years.

If there are other factors, then you have to consider them.

Parents are for your good, but women still have to marry love, I don't believe that any feelings can cultivate this thing, after all, it is your first love, if your boyfriend wants to be self-motivated, willing to work hard for a few years, I don't think there is any problem with working hard for you, if a man cares about you, he will definitely plan for your future, you are in his future planning, but if he doesn't think about the two of you at all, then forget it!

I think it's better to stick to your heart, you may have been shaken when you are entangled in your heart, and you are already thinking about breaking up with your boyfriend. If your boyfriend is very good to you and very motivated, I think it can make your parents see that he is good to you and can make you happy, if he is average to you and not so good, then with your family's conditions, you may have to suffer if you marry. After all, marriage is not your own business, it is the union of two families.

I think that now boys are very shrewd, and boys with entrepreneurial ideas should be ambitious, ambitious people, in the face of you becoming an obstacle to him at that time, do you think you trust his character? Instead of taking care of and supporting him when he is the hardest, but once you come out of Morisui to talk about things, you need him to spend some of his entrepreneurial energy and money to take care of you, and you won't break up?

I am also facing the same situation, I am the only daughter in the city, I have a year and a half to graduate with a master's degree, he just graduated this year in a provincial capital in the east as a doctor, the family because his family is a rural parent has no social security and employee medical insurance feel that our future life starting point is too low, the future life will be very difficult, the pension problem is a big burden, do not agree with us together, but I really can't bear this relationship, reluctant to him, I really don't know what to do....

Parents must have the reason for their parents' sedan annihilation, but they insist on it. It still depends on this boy, whether he is worth your life, whether he is responsible for being willful, self-motivated, and whether he puts you at the top of his heart. Now the society is very realistic, and you can't love blindly.

If the parents do not agree. Firm attitude. Then listen to your parents' thoughts first. If your parents are against the vertical posture, your reasons for being together are very good. Yu Kuan, then give up, after all, they are from the past. More experience than you.

Free love, the conditions of the husband's family are not good, and the parents do not agree, if you are particularly self-motivated, and you are ready to struggle and live with him, then you can persevere.

The experience of married people tells you that you have to continue to sell without shirts, and if the conditions are not good, it means that you will face family economic problems in the future, and your child will not be born with good and stupid conditions, which will increase the probability of quarrels.

If the relationship between the two people is good, then don't give up, find a chance to talk to your parents more, the most important thing for two people is to have feelings rather than materials, and your parents will understand when you are sleepy. Bark branches.

No, this is because your parents suffer a lot, and he also knows what kind of person is more suitable for you, so you should listen to your parents' opinions.

I think we should stick to it. Family conditions are important, but they are not the only criterion. The main thing is to see if the man can give you a good life.

In fact, you can also choose to stick to it, if your boyfriend himself is a potential stock, it can give you a good future.

Hello, I am Zhou Xiaopeng, the founder of Love Us College, a psychological counselor, focusing on solving emotional and psychological problems in marriage and love.

To answer this question, first of all, we need to distinguish whether the parents oppose the woman's economic conditions, or the reasons behind the economic situation, such as idleness, laziness, etc. The happiness of their children is the lifelong desire of most parents, so they want their children to live a worry-free life, and they can't bear to see their children living in poverty because of the marriage union.

If it's just because of financial conditions, do a good job of communicating and act on it. Good communication means to express your determination to your parents, clarify your attitude, and tell them that marrying someone is not about money, and marrying the right person is more important than temporary economic conditions. In the minds of many parents, you are the child who does not grow up.

They are afraid that you will be blinded by the impulse of the moment, and they are afraid that you will regret and blame your parents for not doing a good job back then. So, let them see that you have a rational attitude towards marriage and a careful determination to make choices, which is reassuring. Also, take action to show them that the partner you choose is determined to shelter you from the wind and rain and is able to provide for your family.

The so-called "don't bully the poor youth", parents who really love their daughters, after all, are a minority who hate the poor and love the rich, as long as your partner is responsible, kind, and willing to work hard, most parents are still willing to respect their children's choices.

However, if it is the latter, that is, the partner you choose is an idle and lazy person, I advise you to be cautious. Women themselves take on more risks and responsibilities in marriage, if the other party is a person who does not do his job properly, then I am afraid that your marriage will suffer a lot of hardships in the future. Distinguish between material conditions and human nature, and don't get carried away by "love".

Everyone has the right to choose freely, but at the same time, they are responsible for their own choices. Young girls, cherish your youth and don't waste your time on people who don't deserve your effort.

In addition, it should also be noted that there is no end to the economic conditions, and the years of struggle together are precious. Bread is as important as love, and a right person and a good marriage require you to choose carefully, take care of it, and be patient to achieve it. After all, your life is written by yourself after all.

To be honest, I think this situation is really common, because although our society is not particularly particular about the right people, there are still certain suitable conditions.

In this case, it is not so suitable, because there is too much gap. And how to solve this kind of problem? I think it's actually hard to think of some way to solve it.

There is nothing wrong with the man's parents paying attention to economic conditions, but you can't become rich immediately, so how to solve such an endless cycle?

The first one, let me try to say a solution, this is to let you see the sincerity of your relationship with his son, so that he also believes that your relationship can overcome everything, if he can let him have your relationship and see a lot of good things in you, maybe he can ignore this.

But I personally don't think this approach particularly works, because he thinks that there are better people in the world who can be worthy of my son, yes, even parents have that kind of confidence.

Either the second option is forced to choose and give up the relationship. You may think that it is obviously the relationship between two people, why should people who give up because their parents are not optimistic about their economic conditions like this, is it too hasty and irresponsible for the relationship? But I want to say it's all that Mary Sue fantasy thing, reality is always cruel, always overwhelming you, what can you do with a slap in the face of reality?

stood up, was punched again, and could only lie on the ground and be trampled on.

Maybe this is a factor that you are not suitable, although your relationship is good, but because such factors will always bury a big problem for various relationships in the future, so I think it is better not to continue this relationship, because such an obstacle is really difficult for us to solve.

But I still hope that if you can try, try to try it, after all, you have feelings, you are in love with her, and you will definitely feel unconvinced and unhappy because of this kind of release.

Seeing this question, the first thing I want to ask is how bad the woman's family economic conditions are, so that the man's parents can refuse. Is he in debt? Or is it just because his family is so normal?

Is it that it doesn't match you, but they all live like ordinary people?

If it's because of the latter today, I think it's very unreasonable. Shouldn't you choose a wife that you can afford? Isn't choosing a daughter-in-law that can match your family, a little worse than your family?

I think you can live longer in this way, if you find someone who is much better off than your family, do you think he will take good care of your parents? Unequal experience matching. The woman will not pay attention to you, and she will not respect her in-laws.

In addition, I think that people's hearts are long, you can let your girlfriend get along with your parents well, let your parents understand whether the person you know is really suitable for you, whether he loves you as much as you said, and then judge it well, and then parents have a good run-in with him for a while, don't jump to conclusions and deny each other when you haven't understood, which is very irresponsible. You can also talk to your parents about this.

Your happiness is in your own hands, and listening to your parents' opinions is one, and you can also reason with your parents and tell them the reasons why you like him, the reasons why you love him, the reasons why you get along, the right reasons. I believe that parents are also good for you, and parents also want you to live happily, eventually. It will also influence her, and it will also be recognized by them, and if your girlfriend is good enough, I believe that this will not be a problem.