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In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.
How many people will you be in someone else's life? No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?
Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, it is necessary to choose which one to believe in fate and let everything be.
Trouble, thanks!
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y I regret it because I suffered a loss. Also because regret is based on trying,
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Life cannot live in regret, and many decisions must have reasons and backgrounds at the time.
The less a person understands and sees less, they tend to be prone to self-aggrandizement.
If everything is incomprehensible, it is called fate.
A beautiful woman is not fatal, what is fatal is that she has nothing but beauty.
A truly cultured person is grateful for the service of others from the bottom of his heart, not because of condescending and superficial politeness.
Press freedom, for the best practitioners, must be insisted on and cherished, because a little violation of ethics will become the pretext for stifling press freedom by others.
Work has become something that is easy to master, and it will not fall, but it is also difficult to think about moving up again. I think it's time for me to settle down.
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The people you love the most are by your side, you don't cherish them, and when you want to give for them, you don't have the opportunity. There is a sentence I don't know if the landlord has heard that there is no "son wants to raise and the parent is not there" is to honor the parents when they are no longer alive, this thing you will regret will be guilty and will be really painful. The people you love the most are not only your parents, but also many other people, in life, anything can happen, cherish your every day, be good to the people you love, and you will not suffer in the future.
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What is the greatest pain in life?
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The biggest regret in life is...There's nothing more than wanting to do one thing...And to be able to do it well....But didn't do it....And many more....
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It's that people are dead, and the money hasn't run out.
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Find out the reason for the regret first. For example, you could have bought a house at that time but didn't buy it, and now you will regret it if you invest less and make less profits, and you will regret it if you didn't choose a college when you chose a college or a job. These regret pills are not sold by anyone, and they are not regrets that can be solved, so instead of regretting, it is better to live the present life.
Learn to analyze what you want. In order to avoid regrets, you have to learn to analyze and discern, you must know that you can't have both, you have to understand what aspect you have chosen, why you made such a decision, in case you regret it in the future, know that it was your choice in the first place, and do not regret it.
Avoid perfection. Those who are most likely to regret it, people who want to be perfect, they feel that they should be a Zhuge Liang, they can do anything, they can make a profit in everything, they can be the best, and in fact, there is no such person!
Learn to be content. Contentment is always happy, if you always look at the mountain high, then your regret is endless, because there are always some things you did not do, there are always some benefits you did not get, for example, the house price soared, you will regret not buying a few more sets at that time, these are the reasons why the interest psychology is too serious, so it is very important to calm down.
Don't compare. Some things are not comparable, for example, you can't choose which one you choose when you choose this school, you can't choose another one if you choose this job, you can't always imagine that the other one is better to torture yourself, in fact, that one is not necessarily good, it's just that you don't recognize the reality. What matters is your own efforts, not regrets.
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I regret it now, too, and I can't do anything about it.
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