Why is it so hard for first love to make it to the end?

First love, for everyone, they are still very yearning. Everyone's best memory, but generally the first love can't go to the end. Because people nowadays will have their own thoughts, we are not like the grandparents in the era, as long as their parents agreed, they would get married, and generally they were first love.

Although the first love is beautiful, the first love may not last, because you are ignorant of love when you first love, you have just started to contact love, your desire for love is beautiful, and your material needs for love are also very small, and the love at that time is the purest. There are also first lovers who don't know what to do after dealing with the quarrel between them, some of them just listen to some of the so-called experienced suggestions, you don't want to think about the inner person and not falling in love with your object, how will he know how to deal with the relationship between the two of you, other people's opinions can be listened to, but don't copy it yourself, then you are not his virtual shell!

My first love was when I was 15 years old and now it's only been 5 years and I feel that I'm super far away from 15 years old, just like after decades, my first love he was a sports student, we met at the sports meeting, and then we chatted every day, and then he pursued me, and we were fine, I felt that this man could be worthy of my life! (It's ridiculous to think about it now) Hey, I talked to him for about a year, he was a year older than me, and he was a year older, he knew more than me, and he was also an inner kind of person who often received the love of little girls, to be honest, he was a little arrogant, he was really quite harmful This is undeniable, and then we quarreled because of other people's women, he didn't understand my opinion, so he broke up with me, I was very sad after the breakup, and I couldn't extricate myself for a long time.

We've been friends ever since. It's not a very good friend, but it's also, I will leave a small place for him in my heart, although the inner position is blocked by the heart, I know it's good, and I hope he is good, after all, I have loved him before, and I will also go to his wedding.

First love will be your best memory, but it may not be able to go to the end, cherish every relationship, no matter what the result of this relationship turns into in the end, don't be resentful, I believe that there are lovers who will eventually become married!

I can't just say "because", although I have been in a relationship, after all, every relationship is very different, so I can only give you a little bit of my own opinion from my experience. I met her in high school, she was my front and back desk, at the beginning my learning was still quite good in the class, the teacher also appreciated, close to the college entrance examination study tension, the head teacher to learn a good help learning is relatively difficult, we are nearby help.

Once, when I woke up from a nap and wanted to ask her if she had any geography questions, she just woke up when she turned her head, and her face was flushed, but she felt it, and I think I might never forget that moment in my life! Wait until college, Girls' Day, I'll call ** and say, do you have a wood to confess to a boy today?

If I hadn't confessed to you, it would have been a joke, but she took it seriously, and we would be together. When I learned a lot about her, I wanted to love her well. But maybe it's because of my character, I'm hot and cold to people, I'm unhappy and unwilling to confide, I'm just closed, over time, she said, I try to understand your character, I find it difficult to ignore my feelings of being cold, the insecurity you give me is too strong, I feel like we should be apart for a while.

As a result, we separated, and I didn't go to her, she let me know that I had a character flaw, so I ignored it, which was the best explanation I could give her. Back to your question, I think the personality and getting along with two people affect whether the first love can come together.

Why is it so hard for first love to make it to the end? Many of us will envy those who love from school uniforms to wedding dresses, and the first love has been with them from green onion to white head.

However, it's hard and hard. Most people's first love also started when they were students, when we were very young and would simply like only one person, and our liking was to be good to each other wholeheartedly. After being together, they will be like a passionate love and want to stick together all the time.

We would be very careful not to be known by our parents, not to be discovered by the school, and they would whisper in our ears "You have to study hard, don't play any puppy love", but we still liked each other so much, at that time we would say some little love words, make promises to each other, and firmly believe that we can go far with each other.

I remember saying at the time, "I don't believe in the first love, I can't go to the end, let's prove it to them together!" He was still touching my head, smiling and saying "yes".

Then we spend one winter and summer vacation after another, spend the intense college entrance examination, and usher in the "breakup season" that we don't want to hear, at this time, because the university is different, many people will choose to break up, and many people have chosen to break up because of their studies in the third year of high school, not everyone is so lucky, they can continue to stay in the same city and stay in the same university, even if they choose a long-distance relationship, but because the long-distance relationship is very hard, it is very difficult to maintain, and they will choose to break up, and I am too, when I was in college, Messaging him every day is "What's your next class?" "What do you have for dinner?" "What are you doing today?"

The topic was repeated every day, and then we stopped talking about it often, and then we didn't go on.

Many people can't escape time. Because of the long time and the many tribulations, it is difficult for the first love to go to the end.

From a girl's point of view, the first love girl seems to be gentle, but sometimes she will behave very tricky and eccentric, so that the man is at a loss, and sometimes she will show too much demand for the boy, making the boy feel tired and tired, and sometimes the boy will be asked to show romantic feelings, so that the man must be different. That is to say, the first love girl is too small, too emotional and coquettish, too fond of running away from home or rejecting the will and nerves of the boy, to test whether the boy is serious, sincere to her, and able to treat her as the queen of life. Therefore, the heart of a girl in her first love is like a needle in the sea, so that the boy can't see or touch it, but it can exhaust the boy to death.

It is generally difficult for first love to go to the end. This is because although two people are beautiful together, they have not learned to manage their feelings. Because these need to be constantly experienced and learned, in order to manage the relationship well.

Xiaobai's state will definitely fail. So this is also a very inevitable result.

The reason why it is difficult for first love to reach the end is because people actually have a romantic fantasy before falling in love, thinking what their love should be, and when he really starts to fall in love, he finds that it is different from what he thinks, and this sense of disappointment will make him want to end.

In fact, I think one of the most fundamental reasons is that when the first love is together, the hearts of the two people are not so firm, and they are not particularly optimistic about their love, and they easily say it and break up when they encounter some difficulties, so the two people will not come together.

Because of first love, most of them are when they are in school, and you can not think about some material things when you go to school, but if you start a family and start a business, it is something that belongs to two families, you have to think about it a lot, and it is difficult to go to the end.

It is difficult for first love to go to the end, because they are young and ignorant, and they have experienced fewer things, and after a long time, they understand each other and feel that they are not suitable to be together, so they break up.

First love, everyone doesn't know love. Because it is the first time, everyone is inexperienced, and some are very willful, so it is easy to cause the relationship between two people to break down.

On the one hand, it is because the two people have not thought about the future, and on the other hand, because the two people have lost trust.

Because they don't understand anything with their first love, they will only feel that oil, salt, chai, rice, sauce, vinegar and tea are what they want.

At that time, the basic conditions of boys were not enough, and there was no way to support the so-called love.

So the probability of separation is also quite large.

When we first fell in love, we didn't know how to love, thinking that it should be enough for the other party to love us, but we grew up and found that we just liked this person, but there was no resonance in the hearts of the two people.

After all, you have to start learning to love people, and you have to learn to love people, this process is very difficult, you will have a lot of friction, and if you don't pay attention to the feelings, you will wear them out again and again. The final outcome is likely to be, "We have become each other's likes, but we will never be able to return to the way we loved each other."

One of the main reasons is that when I started my first relationship, I was too young, my reason was not particularly mature, and I would encounter a lot of obstacles, so at this time, it would be easy to have the idea of giving up on the other party, so I would break up.

First love is difficult to go to the end, I think it is a universal law, I can't say all, I can only say most of it, because when I first love, the emotions are still very ignorant, and after gradually maturing, many concepts will change.

It is difficult for the first love to go to the end, because people are in love for the first time, and they are all groping in stumbling. Sometimes you love each other, but you don't know how to express it.

It is difficult for the first love to go to the end because each other is immature, and it has not yet reached a very stable time, and the relationship only believes in the beauty as always, and cannot tolerate a trace of setbacks.

As we get older, we also have to take into account the attitude of our parents and family, not all parents are open-minded, in addition to material factors, they will also take into account the region, family values, etc. It may be really difficult to get to the end of the first love, but it will be unforgettable.

In fact, first love is the first time in everyone's life, and it is the touchstone of their first love or relationship, so many people do not cherish it, or it is normal to have no experience and not make it to the end.

Many of this friend's first love is difficult to get to the end, because it is difficult for their relationship to maintain later, because life is not only emotional, but also has other factors.

I think it's probably because love is a compulsory course in life, and if you don't have a foundation, you will go directly to the exam room, and there is a high probability that you will fail and have to retake the exam.

The first love is purely a love that is in contact with emotional mutual attraction, he does not have so many ties in marriage, marriage is realistic, so it is difficult for first love to go to the end.

The reason why the first love can go to the end is that both of them are immature when they first love, and their relationship is crisp, and they do not have a specific practical point of view.

It is difficult for first love to go to the end, this is also because first love is full of longing, and first love also has a lot of good wishes that are difficult to realize in real life.

Because both of them are in love for the first time and lack experience in love, when they quarrel, they are separated, and they are really separated.

It is difficult for first love to go to the end, because it often requires persistence, and two people can consider the feelings of both parties with continuous hard work.

Because they are all in love for the first time and don't manage their feelings, they end up breaking up, and they will only love if they are hurt.

Because the first love doesn't understand anything, and many aspects of love don't understand anything, so there will be many contradictions and it is easy to break up.

Because at the time of first love, the feelings of the two people are relatively simple, and they think less about their future lives.

Because everyone was in love for the first time at that time, they may not be very sensible, and they don't have any way to manage their feelings.

It is difficult for first love to go to the end, this time because we were too young when we first fell in love, we don't know love.

First love is beautiful and fragile in the eyes of most people, because it is the first time you understand and like a person, and the feeling of heartbeat makes you feel particularly beautiful, but if you want this heartbeat to be maintained, it is affected by many factors, so the first love talks about the last very little, most of them are separated for one reason or another in the process of maintaining this heartbeat, and many of those who stick to the end are couples who are compatible from appearance to three views and can overcome the influence of other factors.

True love. Because I myself am a person who has not broken up with my first love for almost nine years, and I have also seen many couples around me who have talked about marriage from their first love, from my love feelings and their experience, I think there are probably three reasons for the first love to finally break up:

1. Just being attracted by the other person's appearance.

Many men and women who are in love for the first time look at each other's appearance, he is so handsome, she is so beautiful is the reason why two people fall in love, because of this reason, couples who are in love are easily attracted to other people of the opposite sex who are good-looking, and because of each other's appearance, it will be difficult for couples to stand each other after they are together. Shatter with one blow.

It starts with the look. There is too much difference between the second and third views.

Many couples just started to fall in love and didn't feel it, and after a long time, they found that the other party had all kinds of problems to make themselves unbearable, such as the consumption concept of silver balance cong money is very different, some spend money lavishly, some spend money to pick and search, some have a different attitude towards life, some like to get by, and some have high requirements for their own lives, which leads to couples quarreling all day long because of these little things, and the idea of breaking up after a long time comes out. Therefore, it is easy to stick to the first love, and it is because it is too difficult to find someone who is in line with their three views at the beginning, and many people find the right person after many times of love.

The three views do not agree. 3. The time and place are wrong.

Finally, the first love object not only meets their own aesthetics in appearance, but also matches their own aesthetics in three views, often many of them break up because in the process of falling in love, because the time and place of love are not right, such as a friend of mine in college, and her boyfriend talked in college for more than three years, and finally wanted to go back to his hometown because he graduated and looked for a job, but his hometown was not in the same place, and finally ended in a breakup.

It is said that graduation season is breakup season, which is also a bit reasonable. So how difficult it is for the first love to last until the end, those Jiafeng Sakura ducks who are still insisting on it like me