Friends after rejection So do I still have a chance?

Hey, how can you say hello, it's a little bit of self-deception, the smell of self-deception is in it. When chatting, you take the initiative to find her, and you ask her to answer, it is not that she often chats with you at all, but you often chat with her, and she does not show that she wants to chat with you, but responds to you passively and politely. After discovering that the situation is not right, saying that you have a boyfriend is a clear hint that you have stopped.

As for the sentence that will still be friends in the future, it is simply a polite word, nine out of ten girls will say this, and like a conditioned reflex, it may not have passed through the brain. You said that she can still come to you if she has something to do in the future, how can she refuse? Don't take the girl's politeness and politeness to both parties and leave some room for both parties not to say anything else as something else.

As for the opportunity, let's talk about it when she and her boyfriend are separated, some people upstairs say, let you behave better, fight for her, and have a boyfriend to show that she is a good girl, what kind of truth is this, do you think it's worth it for someone who will abandon her boyfriend for others? Love is not picking watermelons, and when you see a better one, you still have it in your hand. Even if you perform better and snatch her away, it shows that she has no concept of being responsible for love at all, will you feel safe with her?

If she can't catch up, it means that she is easy to change her mind and her will is not firm. So for the flower with the owner, it is not worth touching at all. A man who is intellectually mature and pursues only those things that are truly valuable.

Not at the moment. Make yourself good and work hard to improve yourself.

Be the one she loves.

She'll be nice to you in the future, but it doesn't mean you have a chance.

It's just that for a boy who likes her, most girls will feel guilty.

Wanted to be nice to him.

And these are often misunderstood by boys that they have a chance.

So. Brother: Making yourself good is the king.

You can wait slowly knowing that she finds you the best.

You can also go looking for the outside world is wonderful.

There are still great opportunities, but it is obviously not enough to just chat, chat can only play an auxiliary role, and it must be directly and face-to-face, frequent, and not overtly contacted.

It depends on your fate, for example, if she breaks up with her boyfriend, you have a chance. If you don't break up, then you might as well find another one.

Friends don't become lovers.

Die. A good friend will always be a good friend.

If I could change, I'd be with him now.

Hehe, wry smile.

I think you should have given up sooner. Don't wait for that opportunity.

Even if you don't look at the ancient examples, you can look at the examples of today.

There are many people who wait for a lifetime. I advise you not to wait.

No, she said this to show that she didn't like you, but she didn't want to break your heart.

Unless there's a bit of an accident and you're taking advantage of it.

Like something going on.

Agree with the upstairs. But I suggest you snatch her back o(o....With your true feelings.

If you can be friends, you can pretend to be a friend first, and then confess again later.

Falling in love is never a person's business, so when you confess and are rejected by the other party, this does not necessarily announce the end of the relationship, don't rush to draw a rest. So, how do you deal with this relationship?

1. Don't be in a hurry to break off the relationship.

In fact, some romances in life start with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't rush to break or give up the relationship.

After rejection, the first thing you have to do is to figure out the reason for the rejection, whether it is because your impatient personality has caused pressure on the other party, or because your relationship has not yet reached the point of formal love, and you can decide what to do next in your attack.

However, no matter what, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reason and don't give up easily. If this rejection is just because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship, then you might as well give each other more time together, and maybe next time you can keep the clouds open and see the sunrise.

2. Confession needs to be sincere, don't use jokes to hide your inner fear of failure.

Boys love face, so they are always worried that they will lose face if their confession is rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking in their hearts that if they fail, it can be said that they are just joking with each other.

However, you never thought that this kind of tongue-in-cheek confession would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling, and if the other party is a careful and cautious girl, then they will definitely reject you.

Therefore, when a boy confesses, it is better to be sincere and not too casual. If this still fails, then it comes down to the first point, don't be in a hurry to give up, after all, people will change, and if you don't feel anything at this stage, it doesn't mean that you will always be without feelings in the future.

3. Calmly and maturely face failure.

After being rejected, you seriously reflect on it, and understand the reasons for your failure, and find that the other party really just treats you as a friend, so you don't have to be sad or sad, and you don't need to "self-deprecating", because love can never be obtained by reluctance.

At this time, what you have to do is to face up to this relationship, summarize the reasons for failure, don't let negative emotions plague your life, take this failure as a kind of learning, and the next time you make a move, you can grasp the opportunity more confidently and find your own unique love.

I think it varies from person to person, if you are a very enthusiastic and cheerful person, and you have a strong desire to continue to be friends with the other party, and you can do not blame the previous little embarrassment, then I think you can be friends; Secondly, from the other party's point of view, she He rejected you, there may be feelings of guilt, at this time you can show your attitude and say: I have been clear about your thoughts, but also respect the decisions you made, the past will not be mentioned, we will still be good friends from now on, and we can usually share all the ...... of learning, life and funAnd so on, express such a concept of friendship with high emotional intelligence in a brisk tone.

Everything is possible, and there is still the possibility of developing into lovers when both of you are still single, after all, you may not have known each other for a long time and do not know each other very well, which may also be one of the reasons why she rejected you (purely personal speculation).

Next, let's talk about the aspects that are not recommended to be friends:

Relationships are something that is somewhat complicated. For example, if you have the desire to continue to be friends with the other person, if you still like her, is the feeling of being out of reach a kind of torture (masochism) for you?

The best thing is that you let go of your feelings for her and him, and for you, this relationship becomes the icing on the cake, and there is no freedom and freedom. Love itself is the icing on the cake, not a necessity like water and air, and understanding this is the most important thing.

If you put all this aside, you really need this friend, she has some kind of quality or shining point in him that attracts you, and it has nothing to do with Fengyue, just want to make a friend simply, then there is nothing wrong with it.

The road is long, and I have to search up and down to find the object I always think that the consistency of the three views is fundamental, of course, most people can not find the right person at once, and then the combination of the right and then the right one also needs to continue to run in to find the most comfortable way to get along, we must have the courage to continue to trial and error, to find the one that belongs to us".

Go back to the source, ask your heart, you can't deceive yourself, and the problem will be solved. Hopefully, my answer will give you a little bit of Risby*.

Regarding this issue, for those who confess failure, they are slapping themselves in the face, and each of us is unwilling to be friends anymore when we confess to the object of our hearts? If you succeed, you are a couple, and if you fail and become friends, you will lose the meaning of confession. After all, you were already friends before you confessed.

Those who continue to be friends after failing to confess must not be true love. If you are in love, how can you want to force the person who rejected you to continue to be friends with you with guilt. If you love deeply enough, how can you make your later relationship so awkward.

Continuing to be a stupid friend after a failed confession is the most uncomfortable. Again, if the confession fails, the other party is single, maybe your pursuit has just begun. But if the other person has a boyfriend, then please let go, bless, stay away, being a spare tire is always the worst.

Of course, if you have to be friends with each other after confessing failure, it's not impossible, after all, there are many people who think the same as you, and if both parties are willing to do so, they can be friends with each other, but they will keep a distance in the stuffiness, which is simply a little embarrassing. Of course, don't think about whether your relationship is still possible, at least don't interrupt too often, which can easily make the other person feel stressed.