How to communicate effectively with high school students

14 How to communicate effectively with your child.

I don't think it's reasonable to punish high school students like this.

We should focus on education and guidance, and adopt a peaceful and disrespectful communication style, so that students can receive better guidance and development, so that they can grow into talents with excellent character.

Therefore, we must pay attention to the method of communication with children, and guide them with the correct form of education, so that the effect will be better.

1.Learn to be more understanding and respectful of others.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know much, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication on daily topics.

2.Appropriate silence and understanding.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Talk more about positive topics that interest everyone.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Learn to listen humbly.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Learn to praise each other more.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

It is the teacher's duty to care for students, as a teacher should accept every student, whether he is smart, well-behaved or naughty, he is a real individual, he needs to be accepted, and only when the teacher accepts with his heart, students can take the class as a kind of enjoyment, and be willing to learn.

There is a student in the e-commerce class I teach, he has a very good mind, that is, poor discipline, there is nothing to say in class and the classmates around him, once he criticizes him, he is sincere, and promises to correct his shortcomings, but after a few days, it is still me.

In the face of such a student, I did not give up on him, but took the trouble to talk to him, telling him about the importance of learning, the need for perseverance, strong willpower and perseverance to develop good study habits.

The student was deeply touched and said, "Teacher, look at my performance!" "He's really changed now. Although he still has a lot of repetitions, he already knows how to control himself.

From here, I have come to realize that for poor students, don't push them out of your side to educate, but accept them with love, be good at discovering their strengths, and be reasonable, powerful, and measured. Students especially need our gentle smiles, gentle and kind words, and understanding eyes.