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It's not that there's anything wrong with your family.
Actually, you take others too seriously, you ask too much of your parents, and you neglect yourself.
Not all people are very expressive, and there are things that parents know how to do right, but they also know how to express it to their children.
Try to communicate with them, it won't be as difficult as you think. (Communication is always the most effective way).
Believe in yourself. Just complain, don't solve. The pain will last longer.
One day, when you become a parent, you will understand something.
Yes, when you grow up, your parents sometimes don't know how to manage you (you can't still be like when you were a child). You should tell them that I'm grown up, and that there are things that you can handle better.
Tell them what they need to take care of and what they don't. Let them know that there is a range, there is a scale. (You're 21 years old, this statement may be more appropriate for those minors).
Actually, your situation is not special. (In fact, it's not uncommon).
As long as you let your parents see a hard-working and motivated son. Honoring them is secondary, when they see their years of nurturing and having borne fruit. It's what really makes them happy, and you'll be their pride. No one wants to do unflattering things all the time.
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Take a look at a psychiatrist! Or get a job and change the environment! That's going to be fine!
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To help those in need.
Helping others is the foundation of happiness.
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Go to a psychiatrist first, plus you must take the initiative in your psychology, I believe it will get better, and I hope it will be soon!
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People with depression are reluctant to go home and meet their parentsWhy: Not all people with depression are disgusted with their parents, and some patients with depression will be disgusted with their parents because they think it is caused by their parents. People with depression usually have one thing in common, and that is unhappy families; The family environment has a great impact on a person's character and qualities, and it can even have an impact on a lifetime.
The reason why depressed patients feel that they are worthless and constantly criticize themselves is mainly because their parents do not give correct guidance and comfort, resulting in no catharsis of emotions; Over time, pent-up emotions will certainly find other ways. If you grow up in a long-term high-pressure family, your emotional processing ability and way will be greatly affected; Families with depression can be traced back to unhealthy environments, or parents have problems with their education, which eventually leads to abnormal emotional processing in children. If you are diagnosed with depression, you should seek medical attention in time and be active**.
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Hello, I'm glad to answer for you: your current state, adjust your self-expectations, give up the perfectionist attitude to life, and reduce the pressure on yourself. At the same time, Shenque should pay attention to adjusting his attitude towards life, leave more space for himself and others, give himself and others the opportunity for self-improvement, and tolerate himself and others as soon as possible.
In addition, when you encounter conflicts in life, you must solve them and communicate with others, rather than suspicion, suspicion or even pinching each other. This will not solve the problem, but will increase the psychological burden and affect the work efficiency.
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Summary. There are many reasons why I don't want to go home, but I may not be able to express it, I have to wait until I can say it, and it is useless to ask.
Depressed, I don't want to go home to see my parents, I want to go back to my grandfather's house.
Depressed, I don't want to go home to see my parents, I want to go back to my grandfather's house.
What's going on? There are many reasons why I don't want to go home, but I may not be able to express it, I have to wait until I can say it, and it is useless to ask.
For example, from the shadow of the small, or the lifeless atmosphere of the family is also related.
A depressed person can't force him to go home if he doesn't want to go home, so he has to ask her if she wants to go to ** and live ** for a while. Guide slowly.
A person with depression should take care to relax his mind and not reason with him.
The cause should be found out from the environment or people with whom the patient is first exposed, and then the patient should be isolated from the environment or other people for a period of time, and then talk to her slowly and guide him on the path he should take. Remember, you can't force her.
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The mood is depressed for a long time, the sense of interest and action is particularly poor, the appetite is lost, and I don't like to communicate with people in the outside world. I don't like to go outside to play, or I don't like to go outside to play, or I don't like to go out to play, or I don't like to be interested in things I was interested in, and I often have a strong sense of self-blame in my heart. The heart is like a big stone blocked in **.
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