Is it wrong for girls to be too good?

No one can blame this, men have a strong self-esteem and don't like to rely on anyone to live. Your conditions are good and considerate, if your boyfriend loves you, but does not have that strength, he will choose to leave, which is the best for you. You say you don't care about anything, why do you still help him find a job?

You still care, and I really hope that he will also have good achievements, so that you will have less pressure. But having achievements does not mean that there are achievements, it takes time to wait. If a boy is not sure about his future, he will let it go.

Men have a man's personality, some people just don't want to face this fact, while loving someone, sometimes they often can't tolerate each other too much than themselves, which is also a weakness of men!

If you have fate, I hope you enlighten him, who said that men must be stronger than women? This point of view has been surpassed by many women in modern life, I am a man, and I have to admit this fact! But men must not torture themselves in this inferior way!

Including hurting the woman you love Young people, with a lot of time and opportunities, can't you hold your head up for the rest of your life? You have your own way of working, no matter whether the other party is better than you or what, this is helpful to yourself, on the contrary, you should not see this advantage as a pressure on yourself! I can't even bear this little pressure, how can I gain a foothold in society in the future?

In the future, when the friends in business and work are stronger than men in terms of property and ability, won't this man deal with these people? So, women, maybe it's an excuse for men, an escape! If it really can't be recovered, I advise you to give up, this kind of man is not suitable for you!

Once the fate is gone, you can choose from scratch, after all, you are not married yet, and you have the right to choose! I hope you'll think twice.

I'm also a boy I understand him a little bit I don't know who you're spending money on when you're together It should be that he's rushing to spend the money because this is where the boy shows his dignity You know maybe he has a little bit of inferiority compared to you A man should try to prove that he will protect you, and you help him find a job may make him feel useless Or maybe your environment and your friend make him feel inferior, but the main thing is that he has no confidence He is afraid that sooner or later he will lose you. So choose to leave first.

Love Him, give Him Time, Give Him Confidence, Let Him Prove.

The knot in his heart did not open, and he had low self-esteem.

I think you may inadvertently show a certain sense of superiority in words and deeds, making him feel inferior, feel unequal, feel that he is useless or has no status. Otherwise, if you really have love, He will not leave.

Not all of them are so brainless.

A man's self-esteem is more important than anything else, female donor, let it go.

If it were me, I'd break up too! In fact, you should find a person with similar conditions, in life, love always pays attention to the right person, don't say that there is something wrong and is very happy, that is a minority, we are one of the majority after all!

I don't know how to be blessed, so I want to try.

It is said that "wise men don't fall in love", many people are obviously in good condition, but why don't they like to fall in love so much? Actually, based on my observations, there are many reasons for this.

The first is being too picky. Some people are too picky and demanding of the object they like, even to the point of being harsh. As a result, their options become narrow, and it is difficult to find objects that meet their criteria.

Some people may pay too much attention to the other party's height, income, education and other conditions, and ignore other important aspects such as the other party's personality, hobbies, and personality. On the other hand, people who are too critical may also mask their insecurities by holding themselves too high standards due to their own inferiority complex. Therefore, it is suggested that people who are too critical should let go of the "standards" and "prejudices" in their hearts, learn more about different types of people, and give themselves and others some opportunities.

The second is poor social skills. In fact, not everyone with good conditions is a "social cow". Some people are in good condition, but they lack good social skills.

They are not good at socializing with people and are not good at expressing their emotions, which can make them have a lot of difficulties in love. These people may need to practice more social skills, be socially active, and try to make more friends. At the same time, learn to take the initiative to express your emotions and needs, so that you can build a healthier and honest relationship.

The third is that he has a strong sense of professionalism and puts a lot of time and energy into his work, and it is difficult to have time to manage a romantic relationship. For such people, it is still necessary to learn to balance work and life, not to spend all their time at work, but also to spend time managing romantic relationships, so that they can live a fulfilling and happy life. Because, at the end of the day, work is just a part of life.

When choosing a partner, choose those who can understand and support your career and work together to achieve the value of life.

Finally, because of psychological disorders. Today, there are more and more young people who may have psychological disorders, such as anxiety, depression, etc., which can affect their relationships and romantic relationships. I once knew a friend who chose to run away from marriage because of psychological anxiety, and ended up causing great harm to his family and partner.

For such people, it is best to seek professional psychological counseling and ** in time to help yourself overcome psychological obstacles and restore a healthy mental state. At the same time, you can also gradually overcome social barriers and establish healthy interpersonal and romantic relationships by participating in social activities and making friends.

In short, if we want to find a suitable partner, we need to try to break out of our comfort zone, be brave enough to reach out to more people, improve our social skills, and learn to let go of our high standards and give ourselves and others some opportunities. Falling in love is a process of mutual understanding, appreciation, and support for each other, and we hope that everyone can find their own happiness.

Everyone's values and pursuits are different, and it is normal for some people to value material conditions more, while others pay more attention to feelings and character. However, any relationship requires the efforts and dedication of both parties, and it cannot just be that one party is demanding and the other party has to compromise.

If you feel that her requirements are too high and beyond your reach, you can communicate with her to see if you can be cautious and compromised. If she also has requirements for your wide osmosis, you can also express your thoughts and opinions appropriately. If both of you are willing to give for each other's affection, I believe you can find a balance and build a healthy and stable relationship.

The most important thing is not to look only at the other person's family conditions and material conditions, and ignore her other strengths and strengths. Rural girls also have many advantages, such as diligence, simplicity, kindness, etc., which are very important qualities. Only by truly understanding and respecting the other person can a true relationship be established.

Because this kind of girl herself has a very high vision, and she is also very proud, she always feels that she is superior and superior, but she doesn't know that she is also very average.

This has nothing to do with whether the family conditions are good or not, every girl wants to find an excellent other half, so the requirements will be a little higher.

It is precisely because the conditions in my home are not good that I want to find a person with good conditions, so that I can change my current life.

Because my family is not good, I know the difficulties I face, so I hope that other people's families are better, so that I can be happier.

Because the risk of childbirth is too great, and your own conditions are not good, you will not be able to protect your life if you find someone with the same bad conditions. In case of difficult birth, it is a girl who bears it!

Because I have watched too many girl idol dramas, I don't know enough about my own definition, and I don't know what kind of conditions I have.

I think this kind of girl has made a mistake in her perception of herself, and she doesn't understand the reason, because they are demanding of others because they fantasize about being the protagonist of the TV series, but in fact, the real conditions are different from the TV series.

It is because of the poor conditions at home that they will have higher requirements for each other, so as to ensure the quality of life in the future and help the family.

Just because the girl's family conditions are not good, she asks the other party's family conditions to be good, at least the other party's family conditions are good to help her family.

1. The pursuit of resources is the instinct of women to choose a mate, because they have to raise offspring. Man loves beautiful things. Someone upstairs said it was good:

Unwilling to compromise with reality, not in love for the sake of falling in love. You will not be happy if you find someone who is so-called, in the eyes of others, worthy of yourself.

People live to make themselves comfortable, if you can't get the ideal type you expect, then be single, there is nothing badShe is aware of her own conditions, but she feels that she can still work hard and meet someone who can meet her expectations. It's normal, people have desires and greed, and when she really can't find it, she may accept her fate.

2. Because of the diversity of people and the difficulty of quantifying standards, it is impossible to determine what kind of men can see themselves. So the strategy adopted is a trial-and-error approach: set a high standard first and see if this type of man looks up to it.

If it doesn't work, drop it a little, and if it doesn't work, drop it a little more, until you are worthy, this is the highest level you can deserve, and you won't suffer the most if you get married. She didn't realize that she was in bad condition, that is, the so-called lack of self-knowledge, blindly pursuing dreamy love.

3. Affected by film and television works, women whose standards are too high and who have always refused to lower their standards are the ** of older leftover women. Because even the "feeling" is the comprehensive result of appearance, temperament, manners, education, family background, etc., it can also be traced back to male resources. The evaluation of one's own value is high, the evaluation of the IQ of others is low, and I want to take shortcuts and avoid detours, but I end up taking the wrong road, either I walk into a dead end, and then I turn around and take the wrong road, or I fall into a trap and can't get out, or I make a mistake and then go wrong on the road of no return.

As a person who has come before, material things are really the foundation of love. There is nothing wrong with marrying a person who has a material foundation to ensure his future life, it is a normal choice, but marrying a rich man is not necessarily a marriage without love, it is recommended to protect the material foundation first and also to ensure love to be truly happy. So there's nothing wrong with wanting to marry the rich second generation.

Because I am not good, I hope to find someone with good conditions, so that I can achieve my goal at once without struggling, or I may be poor and afraid and don't want to find a poor person, because this will make me even poorer.

This is human nature, I think everyone hopes that they can find a better object, but most people are just eager after all, because their own conditions are not good, but they don't want to make themselves better, so it is difficult to find a satisfactory object, because you want to find a better person to be your object, and he also hopes to find a better person to be his object.

Just like a very ordinary boy, he also hopes that he can find a white rich beauty, a very ordinary girl, and she also hopes that she can marry a rich and handsome man. We may not be beautiful, but we also have the right to pursue beauty. But in this process, we must know how to improve ourselves and make ourselves better.

Don't always have high hands and low eyes, especially some girls, who are not tall, not beautiful, and have a bad figure, but they hope that they can find a tall, handsome and sunny boy to be their boyfriend, and feel that other people who do not meet her requirements are not good, they are not perfect, but they pursue a perfect person.

In fact, I think this is probably related to their own fantasy, and most women only have the desire for love, but not the IQ of love. There are also some people who have watched too much romance, always hoping that they can meet the person in their fantasies, or they have watched too many Korean dramas.

No one is perfect, maybe he is just perfect in his own imagination, maybe he may actually be really good, but he doesn't want to change himself, and hopes to find a better person, this possibility may not be big, because many people find the object in the end, usually people who are similar to themselves in all aspects, because the two of you can match each other's eyes.