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You need to get in touch with some of your older friends to see how they deal with certain things...In this way, after a long time, I will mature unconsciously, I myself am an example, when I was twelve or thirteen years old, I played with three or four years older than me, and when I was twenty years old, people said that I was very mature, and others often praised me for dealing with certain things! Hehe, hope it helps.
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After more experience, it will naturally mature.
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The true maturity of a woman begins with these four losses.
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Don't deliberately learn how to mature, there are too many topics about maturity on the Internet, don't pay attention to it, there is too much plagiarism, you can't learn it, maturity depends on comprehension, perception, learning is not learned. I'm an old man to tell you what maturity is. Plus, I even know why you're asking?
When you are mature, you will find that everyone's understanding of maturity is different, and the perception is not the same, that is what we call the worldview, at that time, you will be "stereotyped" rather than "formed", don't force yourself anymore, it is not realistic to change yourself, personality is the essence!
When you're mature, I think the last thing you want to hear is "you're so mature";
When you are mature, "wrong and right" is not the most important, the most important thing is "be your own and let others say it";
When you are mature, you will find that love is a child's thing, you will understand what fate is, why this "point" cannot be forced, and then you will understand why a lock can only be opened by a suitable key;
When you are mature, you will see everything clearly, including your own parents and your friends, and understand that when a woman says "what does you mean by being immature", it is not that you are really immature, but just a euphemistic "reason".
When you mature, you will find that life is just about survival;
When you mature, you will find that you are the only one in the whole world, a soulless person, similar to the animal next to you, and you have to put on a so-called human skin;
When you are mature, you will find that you are very childish to ask like this, and you will inexplicably laugh at yourself for why I was so naïve and cute at that time.
By this time, you know how the old man's low and slightly mature voice came out, after experiencing the vicissitudes of the world, he can not be depressed, that is a man of God.
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Maturity is a kind of calmness that does not surprise everywhere, a confident atmosphere, an indifferent indifference with the world, and a thick one with ease.
Learn to be tolerant, tolerance is not only a symbol of maturity, tolerance is also a state.
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Learning to take care of people, to take responsibility, is more mature.
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When you don't think about what maturity is, you will be mature In fact, life is struggle and harvest, life is short, life should have a suitable goal, people always have to be a little spiritual, no matter what you do, you always have to make a difference. Life should be colorful. It should be:
Constant searching, constant pursuit, continuous struggle, although there is sweat on the way forward, there may be tears, but there will be happiness and enjoyment in success.
Time will make you mature. Self-confidence is important for a person, appropriate and correct choices are needed, and endurance for the process is necessary. Self-psychological adjustment must be frequent, and the struggle for success requires unremitting efforts. Happiness and joy are gained in constant success.
Maturity is a state, an experience after a painful injury. It can also be said that there will be no maturity without experiencing a certain amount of pain, especially for men. I've heard people say before that if a man has never been divorced, has been in prison, has been in a fight, or has gone bankrupt, it is not considered maturity, at best it is a kind of pseudo-maturity.
Maturity does not come out overnight, it is an accumulation of time on pain, and it is an accumulation of essence. If the landlord wants to be mature, it's best to find something to do. When you've been through something, you've matured.
In fact, whether it is mature or not is largely affected by the individual's personality, but personal experience will also have a very important impact on this.
I think what you need is to be more calm when doing things, even if there are some little ones who behave in a way that is not a bad thing.
What you need is to read some guide books on daily interactions, and always try to think about things before you do them. I think you'll go by faster.
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Learn the ability to cope with mutations, cultivate your ability to withstand moderate pressure, improve your comprehensive psychological balance, be your own master, have more sense of responsibility, and less psychological rejection.
Psychological maturity does not mean losing one's true side. On the contrary, people with high psychological maturity know how to properly express and express their true emotions and thoughts on different occasions. Maturity does not equal apathy:
Of course, a person with a mature personality is not always able to remain calm and composed. Since we are human beings, we will inevitably have changes in moods such as joy, anger, sadness, and happiness, and sometimes we will be inexplicably melancholy. The key is not to be influenced by these emotions to act impulsively and detrimentally to others.
When there is a bad mood, do not blindly suppress it, nor do you drill the horns. Psychological defense mechanisms such as suppression, sublimation, and premeditation can be used to alleviate emotional stress.
Only by achieving true psychological maturity can we make ourselves more rational, firm, brave, strong, and always maintain confidence and enthusiasm to treat our work and life.
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The quickest way to mature, but try with caution.
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The true maturity of a woman begins with these four losses.
Pay attention to personal cultivation, think more before you encounter problems, and cultivate a stable personality and attitude to the world Dress appropriately, conform to your own characteristics, be generous, and don't dress strangely Be responsible in everything and fulfill your obligations as a person. To learn to be tolerant and understanding, to listen more to his (her) opinions, to give him (her) a space, to care more about him (her) so that he (her) feels that you are very focused on all aspects, the important thing is to understand. Maturity should be able to empathize, I am still very young, but when I start to think about others, there are always people who say that I have matured a lot, but the most important thing is that I did not go against my own will, or I did it. >>>More
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There is basically no conflict between simplicity and maturity, simply refers to the way of thinking or doing things is not so much, from the derogatory point of view, it can be considered that the lack of ability to deal with things, not smooth enough, but this kind of person, often recognize the right will do, no distractions, in fact, I think it is very good, and maturity refers to the responsibility of being a person, of course, the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, as long as you are willing to take on your own responsibilities for others, then you are mature, a man has a sense of responsibility, this man will have a mature charm, too tactful, always shirk responsibility, this kind of person, either immature, or too extreme, if everything is irresponsible, then this person is a bastard, can't become a big tool. >>>More
Divided into internal and external external words are very easy to change A hairstyle and a change of clothes can be This can be the image you like It is not difficult to change It is difficult to change the inner cultivation First of all, people's words and deeds, speaking and doing things are very particular, the angle of looking at problems, the way of dealing with things, these are not changed by theoretically looking at learning and learning, it takes time and the accumulation of practice. And I think autosuggestion is very important, to believe in yourself, affirm your own judgment, don't let yourself regret it, bear the consequences of your own things, maturity does not mean to bear loneliness, relationships are very important, learn to integrate into the big environment, don't isolate yourself, learn to accept what can't be changed, change can be changed, don't like things you don't like to look at, don't the first reaction is to reject, try to judge quietly, maybe there are aspects you can learn from, learn from it, and change it slowly, Don't be in a hurry, these are not a handful, hard work will have obvious results, and when you reach a critical point, you will have gains. >>>More