I feel immature, I m 27 years old, and I don t have my own opinions on what to do

No matter what you encounter, you don't have your own opinions, is it immature? Are they all swayed by other people's opinions, a sign of cowardice? It's serious, it's not a matter of cowardice, it's just that you don't know enough and lack self-confidence.

Cultivating your self-confidence from now on will allow you to find that self-conscious, brainy, calm, optimistic, calm, open-minded, cheerful, and open-minded.

Hopefully, the following methods will help you build your confidence! Self-confidence is the psychological quality of believing in one's own success and becoming a talent, and it is a scientific evaluation of one's own ability. Self-confidence is the only way to be assertive and to do things that others have not done.

Lack of self-confidence leads to psychological self-deprecation, self-denial, and self-defeat.

Therefore, self-confidence is the key to life. Every young person should strengthen their self-confidence, not be discouraged when they are frustrated, not discouraged when they fail, and not be conceited when they succeed. Adapt to society, work hard, and realize your own value.

1 Self-confidence --- self-cherishing If a person's value is confirmed by others, it can only be the value of others.

Cherishing oneself is easily misunderstood as selfishness, and what is repeatedly emphasized in the real society is:"Love others, love the collective, love teachers, love elders, ......"Love is needed for everyone, so why can't you cherish yourself? Should we despise ourselves?

Cherishing oneself--- means accepting oneself as a worthy person according to one's own wishes, the ability of self-love is a mirror that you use to look at all of yourself, if you always hate yourself and psychologically deny your self-worth, will others love a worthless person? To cherish oneself is to choose a positive self-image.

In front of the mirror, you have to affirm your body, even if you really don't like certain features, and if you can change it, change your mind. You can't change it, you have to take it as natural, normal, and accept yourself without complaining. You have to think that you are smart, there is no natural ability in the world, even if your grades are worse than others, it is not that you are not smart, but you just need to spend more time than others on this point, and it is completely possible to spend less time than others on another point.

You have to admit that you are socially competent, and when someone does surpass you in some way, it is not a question of your value, but a matter of your choice. Complaining about yourself is an unhelpful act that can hinder your true life, encourage you to develop self-pity, and ultimately weaken your self-confidence.

Because mature people have their own ideas and their own opinions, if a person has no opinions, that is, he does not have his own ideas, such people are of course immature.

Because mature people will have their own views on things, although sometimes they are mostly other people's opinions, but because their own views and their own opinions are not mature enough, and they can grow more rapidly from others.

If you don't have an opinion, you can't make a normal analysis of this matter, psychologically you feel that you are mature, but you still can't face some things independently and you can't say your own opinion, basically you can't say your own opinion on this matter, mature people will not behave like this.

A mature person, no matter what kind of things he treats, will have his own opinion, even if sometimes his opinion is not 100% correct, but at least it proves that he is careful to say it after thinking.

It's not that you don't have opinions, it's that you don't know what you're doing and you lack purpose. Once you have a goal, you know that everything must be done in a sequence, so is it when you understand that assertiveness is the attempt to do things.

Everyone has their own goals in life, otherwise they could be considered a creature. Creatures live for the meaning of their own existence, just like mammals, raising their own children, like human beings giving birth to children and raising children; Kangaroos give birth to wallabies, and in order to protect the safety of the wallabies, they are stuffed into their stomachs, so animals are rational and thinking creatures.

A mature person must have an idea.

When encountering problems, they listen to others.

That is certainly a sign of immaturity.

No need to explain.

Yes, a person who has no opinion is definitely a person who does not have the ability to think independently. So it is immature.