It is said that filial piety comes first , why does Ang Lee say that filial piety is an outdated

Ang Lee said that filial piety is an outdated concept because he feels that the father-son relationship is also an equal parent-child relationship, and should stand on the perspective of equality, and should not be blindly obedient. Ang Lee mentioned that the so-called "filial piety" in China since ancient times is actually an unequal class concept in it, which believes that children must obey their parents and be "obedient", which conflicts with the current universal values of "equality" and is an outdated concept.

It is appropriate for children to be filial to their parents, but obedience is not blind obedience, but compliance with the wishes of their parents without affecting their own development. My parents and I are both equal and independent people, and my ideas should also be respected, and not listening to my parents is not unfilial piety or disobedience, it is just a personal free choice. The relationship between parents and children is, in the final analysis, the relationship between people.

The parent-child relationship should also be equal and free, with no distinction between high and low classes.

Parents need to shift the attention of parenting from their children to themselves, and only by changing themselves, enriching themselves, and improving themselves, with a positive state of love, a sense of worth, respect for interpersonal boundaries, and embracing change, can they help their children grow up healthily.

Parents should also change their own views on the parent-child relationship. In a good parent-child relationship, parents should pay more attention to their posture in front of their children, and should strive to become a person full of love and responsibility, independent and self-worthy, and become a role model for children to imitate. Instead of blindly pointing fingers at the child, asking the child with something that he can't do himself.

After all, parents are the child's first window into the world.

Because what he said about filial piety is a deficiency now, and I think he is mocking.

Because the filial piety he expounded, in the eyes of modern times, is not recognized by most people, or is lacking in modern people.

I think what they call filial piety now is actually a word of moral kidnapping, and it is done for show.

Because filial piety is not something to be said and played, it needs to be proved by action.

This is because in fact, many people think that filial piety is a word of moral kidnapping.

Because now we pay more attention to equality and want to be friends with our parents.

Because he thinks that many people nowadays will do this for the sake of face, and it is really not because of their own hearts that they will do this.

First, filial piety is not foolishness

Second, I think filial piety is companionship and love

In fact, for the old people now, the so-called filial piety is the companionship and care of their children, they just want their children to be by their side, filial piety to their parents, just spend more time with them, they raise us young, we should also accompany them old.

I think filial piety is more important than obedience, because filial piety is to think about parents from the perspective of parents, and obedience is to blindly obey parents regardless of whether they are good or not.

Both are important, first of all, we must be filial, but we must not be blind and filial, we must follow the will of the old man, so that it is filial piety.

I think filial piety must be more important to be obedient, only by obeying the will of the elderly, letting them do what they want to do, and respecting their decisions, this is true filial piety.

I think filial piety is more important, and there must be no foolishness, and you can't unconditionally obey your parents.

I think filial piety is more important than filial piety, because filial piety comes first, and only when filial piety is achieved, it will naturally be smooth.

Personally, I think this issue needs to be looked at dialectically, depending on what kind of thing is done, if it is a good thing, it must be filial piety, and the most important thing must be filial piety first.

I think filial piety is more important, if it is just obedience, then it may appear very passive, filial piety is very important, can not forget the grace of parenting, filial piety should be put in the first place.