My boyfriend broke up with me, why should he want me to be his sister?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-02
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are several scenarios.

    1。When I'm with you, I know that I need protection, so even if I break up, I hope I can help you with something. (This kind of boy belongs to the good human form).

    2。I want to play ambiguous with you (this kind of boy belongs to the unpromising type).

    3。I don't want you to be embarrassed because you don't go to him after a breakup, or because you don't say hello when you meet him on the street (this kind of boy is a considerate type).

    Actually, there is nothing good or bad.

    If you decide that you can still be friends with him in the future, say yes, but don't do anything other than brother and sister, you have to remember that you are only his sister now.

    If the relationship between siblings is more awkward than that of a friend after you break up, then you refuse to do it, but the language must be tactful, because some boys value face. That way, you won't lose his friend because of this refusal.

    The key to the outcome of the matter is yours.

    Hope you are happy and happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's better not to do anything after a breakup! Don't be a friend!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Top 1st floor. I regret it, I don't like it, and I don't have to. Maybe it's a good guy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He feels pity and guilt, since he can't give you love and happiness, then let you be as happy as relatives.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I just don't want to cut off contact with you, I can find you at any time, my previous boyfriend was like this, there is a valid reason to find a new girlfriend, and there is also a valid reason to contact you, there are many men like this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe it's because I don't want to lose you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's kind of a friend, and since it's divided, don't think about it anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Men have this problem.

    You look at others.

    If he is a kind and good person, then it is probably thinking that even if you break up, you are still by his side, and the relationship is sublimated, he can still care about you and be good to you, but not love.

    And if you're not a good person, it's to be a concubine, or a spare tire.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sister, you really don't know or you don't know.

    It's clearly the act of eating in the bowl and looking at the pot.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The meaning of sister is the same as that of a concubine?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You go to him and tell him that you don't recommend his past, you say that you like him and don't want to be brother and sister, and he asked you to find a boyfriend for your own good, and he will give up on you if he loves you, being a brother and sister will only make each other sad, it is better to break the mirror and reunite. If you don't advise him, keep loving.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Refused, because after becoming a brother and sister, they have to face each other every day. And my heart will hurt more and more, and I can be friends with him. Because at least his friends don't have to worry about him so much. As long as you know that he is happy every day, he will be happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello, let you be her brother, it means that she still has a certain affection for you, and whether you agree or not depends on your attitude.

    What does it mean for my girlfriend to let me be her brother after she broke up with me? Should I say yes or no?

    Hello, let you be her brother, it means that she still has a certain affection for you, and whether you agree or not depends on your attitude.

    The attitude is to be an older brother or a boyfriend.

    The breakup must also be because of some small thing.

    If you have feelings for me, why don't you want to get back together?

    Men all need face.

    If you put your head down, he will relent.

    I bowed my head! Send her a message to admit her mistake, and she says it's not appropriate!

    Oooh. Then don't count on it.

    If you can only wait.

    I had a tooth extracted! Then she messaged me and said that she could only care about me as a friend, what did she mean!

    First of all, she also has entanglements and can't let go of her heart, but she is also for self-esteem! Care about it, but don't say it's because I like you.

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  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your boyfriend says that he only treats you as a concubine, which actually means that he doesn't like you and doesn't want to have a relationship with you.

    What can you do? Beg? Love is not begging, this humble begging is not love, but reluctance, and there will be no happiness。You should withdraw decisively and without hesitation, the sooner the better, and the less damage you will cause.

    You love him, he doesn't love you, even if you get his person, you can't get his heart, and sooner or later people don't belong to you. The best love is to love each other deeply, unilateral love is not real love, and there is no good ending. That is, the falling flowers are intentional, and the flowing water is ruthless.

    There are too many infatuated women in the <> world, so infatuated that they have no self and no bottom line. Why bother? It not only suffers from himself, but also affects others.

    Since the other party treats you as a sister, you should treat him as a brother, it's not a big deal. Don't be reluctant about emotional matters, there is no happiness if you are reluctant.

    Boyfriend treats you like a sister??? What kind of trouble is this, if you don't sleep, stay away from this scumbag, if you sleep and say this kind of thing, slap him in the mouth first, the beast might as well sleep with his sister.

    In the future, you have to keep your eyes open, don't meet a scumbag.

    Silly, that means your boyfriend doesn't love you. Quickly recognize the situation and make a good decision! Girls, don't shed tears for unworthy boys.

    When you look back later, you'll feel how glad you were to leave. Life is a long road, and you will meet someone who suits you. Don't indulge in the current situation and can't extricate yourself.

    If your boyfriend really loves you, he will hold you in the palm of his hand desperately, and no difficulty can stop a man from loving you. It's the same way, you can never warm a heart that doesn't love you!

    If you have decided on a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it means that you are his girlfriend. After a while, he said that he would treat you as his sister, and he just wanted to have fun.

    From the beginning of the relationship between men and women, the most important thing is feelings, if he has no feelings for you at the time, he is treating you as a spare tire. Now it's time for him to find the girl he loves, so tell you, and only treat you as a sister.

    Either it's Aquaman, Aquaman doesn't love anyone, he loves himself, all girls are toys to him, just play with it. Aquaman's even more scum is that he has many relationships at the same time. Playing ambiguously with the Xu girl. This kind of person should leave him as soon as possible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He is not in love with you, but a kind of love, he thinks you are not suitable for him, but the two of them get along quite well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The problem should be with the two people, probably because both people have no feelings for each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course, the problem is with your boyfriend, who may have never loved you from beginning to end, and just treated you as his own sister.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's because she still has you in her heart! Don't want to lose your news from now on. At least be a sister and know your news! You can also be seen!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It shows that she doesn't want to break with you, maybe my sister knows an ambiguous excuse.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I might still be nostalgic for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, it is a kind of reluctance to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you are dating your boyfriend and you betray him and go with another man; And if you give your body to another man, then this kind of behavior of yours is impossible for ordinary men to accept;

    Because the emotional foundation of your intentions is not strong, men and women in love cannot tolerate a grain of sand in their eyes; If you do such a thing, then between you, it will definitely end in a breakup; The more he loves you, the more he won't forgive you; So in this case, if you want to win back his heart, it is even more difficult than ascending to the sky.

    A woman, if you love your boyfriend deeply and want to have a good future with him, then you better not do such a thing, because once you do it wrong, you will be doomed; In the hearts of men in love, love is innocent and pure; You can pedal three boats, you can have people compete with each other, but you can't give your body to another man; This means that you are already in love with that man, so who would want you? As a woman, do it and cherish it!

    I've been dating your boyfriend for a long time, and you love him very much, but because you did too much and did something to hurt him, he left you; At this time, if you want to redeem him; It depends on what kind of situation you hurt him, if it is a contact in ordinary life that hurts him, you can completely save his heart; If you betray him and give your body to another man, then there is no need to redeem it, because it is impossible for him to turn back and follow you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It mainly depends on whether your boyfriend really likes you, if the man really likes you, no one can break it up, if your boyfriend is uncertain about you, maybe after being provoked by others, he will be separated from you, if your boyfriend is dating several girls at the same time, it proves that he is more attentive, leave him as soon as possible, maybe you are just a spare tire. The only way you want to make him a man is to reject him directly, you improve yourself, and you impress him later.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    1. Did your boyfriend tell you about the role of the so-called godsister or did all the friends around you know about it?

    2. How does your boyfriend position the role of godsister?

    3. Only by figuring out the above two questions can you determine whether or if it is necessary to teach her to be a person? After all, if my godsister gets to the top, there will be a lot of problems.

    4. Tell your boyfriend all about your communication process and let him communicate well. After all, he was the cause of the matter. Without him, there would be no such thing as this.

    5. Finally, show your own attitude. It's your boyfriend that no one else can snatch. If it's not yours, you can't stop it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Marriage needs to be managed, but also to know how to manage, especially women as the leader of the family, we must learn to properly delegate power, if blindly control men, so that men do not have a little freedom, men will have resentment, over time, it will form a vicious circle, and even to the point of breaking up.

    In fact, as a woman with high emotional intelligence, her attitude towards that person should be taken in the way of flying a kite, as long as she grabs the thread in her hand, then, the man can fly freely in the air, but no matter how far the man flies, how high he flies, as long as you use this thread to lead, he will never be able to leave you.

    Of course, it is also necessary to maintain a proper distance and space, if it is windy outside, or it is raining, then it must be taken back in time, otherwise people will not know to run to the **, and the line will be broken.

    To manage a marriage, you must grasp this degree, as long as you master it well, the sea and the sky are open to him, but his heart is always here with you.

    So, some people will ask, you say it well, how can you grasp the thread in your hand and firmly tie the man's heart?

    The method is very simple, it is necessary to grasp the big and let go of the small, and to grasp the big is to insist on grasping with both hands, and both hands should be hard. Let go of small, it is a small matter that should let him make his own decisions, let him do it.

    Therefore, in marriage, women must learn this method and give men free space appropriately, so that the marriage will be longer, life will be happier, and love will be sweeter.

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