Abandoned the two children to find their own happiness?

This is a very tangled problem, if you are not happy, it stands to reason that you should find new happiness! Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, however, children are innocent, I can only say that great mothers are paid for love, you can think about it, you abandoned your children and found happiness, so are you really happy in your heart, without a little guilt? Thank you!

Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness and really understands that you are looking for your own happiness. But behind your search for your own happiness, you have two children, they can be said to be part of your body, if you are a woman, it is the flesh that falls from you, do you really bear to abandon them and selfishly pursue your own happiness? So why did you give birth to them in the first place?

If you really go like this, even if you are happy, you will blame yourself and feel guilty, and no one can change the fact that they are your children. So think about it, maybe happiness is around, maybe having children is happiness.

Children are the pillars of the motherland, children are your blood, the crystallization of love, and it is a kind of happiness to be together. It seems that you are a person with strong feelings, such as Gao abandoning children and blindly pursuing temporary happiness, and later you are a very unfortunate person.

No woman can ruthlessly leave her children to find happiness, the bitterness in her heart is only clear to herself, since she chose to give birth, it means that she has accepted the child, and the father of the child can only be blamed, both sides are responsible, a good man and a responsible man, a husband and father who are willing to give everything for themselves and their wives and children, which woman is willing to leave and leave her children to go? There must be a last resort, maybe she left just to make money for herself to make more help to her and her children, men are unreliable, only rely on themselves, and those who don't understand will only pour dirty water on her, women are mothers, and men, don't cherish it, and let their wives and children's mothers go, the problem is men, what they are afraid of is marrying the wrong man and choosing a bad father for their children.

Think about it yourself, if you give up your two babies and take care of other people's babies, it's better to choose two babies, no matter how disappointed you are in your husband, how dissatisfied you are with his family, how wronged you are, for the sake of your two babies, think more about him! Even if love is gone, you two babies are your infinite wealth! May you be happy and healthy every day.

This is not good.

Are you sure it's happiness?

Still have to be serious.

Cherish what should be cherished.

Give up what should be waived.

Life can be happy.

Is it worth it? Finding Happiness It's all!Children can be abandoned, what happiness can be found, everything has a cause and effect.

It's too ruthless, it's also selfish!

You can take the most important look at the child once in a while.

It depends on what you mean by happiness.

This kind of loser woman must give up! Let's get a divorce! At least I won't pit you again in the future!

All this money has been lost, and it is still you, so there is a shadow together, it is better to live by yourself, but don't hurt the child, let the child accept it.

Ask the children, since you said that the marriage is maintained by the children, ask them

Learn not to cry anymore, learn not to reveal your feelings, they say you are cold-blooded, but you are just smiling, you know, there is no need to try to let others understand you, those who know me share my worries for me, and those who don't know me say what I want! Tears can't solve any problems, they will only bring noise, many things, we can be moved, but we can't cry, because once you let go of your feelings, I'm afraid that you will cry silently. Don't be afraid of this kind of problem, you can deal with it by finding the right person, I have the experience and ability, you think about it yourself.

In the countryside, marriage is early, and marriage is basically arranged as soon as you can get a license. However, it is not the isolated countryside of the past, and the information society is also impacting young men and women in rural areas. Whether it is a rural girl or not, she will have her own dream of love, and when she first got married, she was young and ignorant, and she became a mother.

Firewood, rice, oil, salt, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, raising children, etc., all came too quickly and suddenly, which caught the little rural girl who had just become a mother off guard. has not enjoyed love but has been defeated by reality, originally in a hurry to get married without much emotional foundation.

Divorce is now common, both in rural and urban areas. However, girls in the city get married late, and they are generally not urged to marry until they are about 30. Women at this age will be more clear about what they want from themselves, and their requirements for marriage will be clearer, so they will not get married for the sake of getting married, let alone divorce hastily.

If the man is motivated and has the ability to be motivated, plus don't treat his daughter-in-law too outrageously, most of them can get by.

Not all girls who marry in the countryside are the same, and the main thing depends on the girl's character. Whether a material woman marries a rural or urban woman, as long as her husband's family cannot meet the material requirements she expects, she will abandon her husband and abandon her children. No matter how good you are to her and how rich your spiritual life is, she will not be satisfied, and she will be willing to live with you only when her material life is rich.

Girls are sensual, at first they may be moved by sweet words and vows to follow back to the countryside, but after marrying into the countryside, the husband who was originally still attentive is not diligent, there are a bunch of housework at home, plus there may be farm work, no beautiful clothes, no cosmetics and skin care products, those who are used to living in the city generally can't adapt, and few women can stick to it for love;

The most important reason is still yourself, how hard you work to earn money or hope that she will not run away.

She should just say angry words, you should change it every time, but don't act, you have to take action to keep her, not talk about it! Stoop.

Home, it's not easy, master it yourself.

Give up, but take on your share of the responsibility of raising your children, and find your own happiness.

Well, seeing your mood, I feel the same way as you, I don't know how to choose、、、 out of morality and conscience, I have to compromise; But, if morality and conscience are abandoned, alas! Life is too short, and we should all have the right to find happiness that truly belongs to us.

Too many marriages are not given up because of forbearance or for the sake of children. Not necessarily.

Give up looking for a new life! Maybe it's a different world!

There are many such women.

Bai is that such animals are very selfish du, I watch.

Brother Zhi's former wife is this kind of dao, the child is from 2 to 7 years old, and it is too much to have a few hours with the child every month, just go out to play by yourself. In the end, I left directly. This has nothing to do with age.

The I'm talking about is 30 years old. Usually these animals are cured.

Hello friend, such a woman is so ruthless that even her own children are willing to abandon people who are hopeless. Even if he is retained, his heart will not come.

Life faces two renunciations. The first is the previous regret thing, don't dwell on it. Because if you always hold on to your previous regrets, you will only make your mood heavier, and you will not be able to allow yourself to travel lightly and better pursue your ideals.

The second abandonment is the fear of the future. What does the future look like? We don't know, but we need to move forward bravely and not be afraid of the future.

As long as you go on bravely, you will definitely usher in your own happiness.

Many people are so anxious about what is outside of their body that they do not hesitate to lose their conscience and even their lives. As everyone knows, excessive greed will overload your boat of life and make you unable to withstand the trials and waves of life. A wise man of life should first understand the principle of "moderate abandonment".

There is no need to stare at these things outside of our bodies, we can open our hearts to pursue those more valuable things, such as happiness.

It depends on what the situation is.

In modern society, happiness cannot be found without money. Everything is said on the premise of having money. The spirit of giving up a high salary for the sake of your children is indeed commendable, but one question you have to consider is, how will you live in the days when you have no money after giving up a high salary?

If you think that your child's happiness has nothing to do with money, then you can give up. If you think that your child will be unhappy if you don't have money in the future, then you shouldn't give up, at least consider giving up a high salary and retreating, not because you can give up everything if you have a child, you have to live with a child, although life is a piece of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but to live a better life you need money, a lot of money. If you think that loving children is simply to be by your side, it would be irresponsible.

Later in life, the child has to go to school, to go to a training class, to go to summer camp, to find tutoring, to travel, to ask for America, etc., these are all things that require money to achieve, and you have given up a high salary in order to spend time with your children, so you have no money, you have not been able to meet your children's wishes, in short, you can't make your children feel happy. Your happiness is to be with your children, and your children's happiness is not, so think more about what will happen in the future? Don't sacrifice your child's happiness for the sake of your own happiness.

Also, don't listen to some Internet arsenic, what is the greatest happiness to accompany children. No money and happiness. Eating cabbage and radish every day in the village, through the Internet, it becomes eating green vegetables every day, and the people in the village are really happy. Happy fart, can you afford to eat meat?

Although I'm not married yet, and I don't have a boyfriend, writing this makes people feel unreal, but there are really many examples around me, I think it's worth giving up everything for the sake of children, not to mention high-paying jobs, when women basically give up their jobs once they have children, of course, there must be more than work, most of them can be put down, and work is insignificant compared to children, after all, children are the most important, and jobs can be found again, but children's growth is only once, When you miss it, you miss it, and it's impossible to do it all over again.

For example, what happened to me is that the leader who worked in Beijing before is referred to as l, she is like this, she has been in the company for seven or eight years, the position is not low, and she gets an annual salary, when she knows that she is pregnant, everything is based on the child in her womb, because she has to sit in front of the computer for eight hours a day at work, she is worried about radiation to buy all kinds of green plants and put them next to the computer, and then she resigned not long after giving birth.

I still remember when she submitted her resignation application, the director was all kinds of retaining her, but she insisted on resigning, when the director practiced for her, she said at the dinner table why she wanted to resign, she said that she didn't want to miss every step of the child's growth, every day to see the child day by day I feel very happy, with a child I feel that I can give up everything, the first time I feel like a mother feels that I want to grow up with the child, I don't want to have regrets, I'm afraid that when my child grows up, one day I will ask myself what habits he had at all stages of his childhood, or what he liked to do, and I can't answer them.

So for the sake of the child, I think there is nothing wrong with giving up this job, after all, I have to be responsible for the child after I give birth to the child, because now he is blank in this world, I want to take him to know the people in this world, but also to teach him the truth of life, but also to take him to let him paint his own color life, I want him to believe that this is a warm world, no matter what, I accompany him, encourage him behind him, tell him not to be afraid, As she spoke, her eyes turned red.

This passage of my leader is the most impressive to me, of course, she also said a lot of others, I really want to say that she is really great, and she must be very happy to be her child, because her words made me cry, probably because my tears are low, but this mother's love is really great, they all say that mother's love is the most selfless, but it's not, give up your dreams for the sake of your children, give up everything you have, in fact, not only she, a new mother, is great, but also our own mother, Because they also gave up a lot for us, it is said that a mother can give up everything she has for her children, let alone a high-paying job.

I've always believed that there is no conflict between children and work. And having your own job and career, whether it is financial or spiritual, why does it matter, when you give up a job, it means disconnected from the social circle you originally had, when your child is getting older and older, growing to a certain extent, your spiritual level and insight are far from satisfying his imagination.

And then ......Not only did he lose the conditions to communicate with his children, but he ......also gained nothing

I don't think it's worth it! I'm just low paid now, but the job is easy, and the time is about the same as that of a student! I started with a job with a high salary, but I was tired and didn't have time to spend with the children, so I had time to work as a temporary job, so I thought it was okay!