My girlfriend is 8 years older than me, what can I do to keep our love going

The age difference between the two of you is 8 years, which is actually nothing in the eyes of modern people. There is no age gap in love. You have to give him confidence to prove that the love between the two of you can be eternal, you should become more mature because he is older than you after all, so that he has a sense of security, I wish you two to love each other forever.

Loving someone doesn't matter how old he is, but the reality is cruel.

You don't, you don't necessarily end up together. But you don't have to give up, you will divide when you have to divide it, and you don't have to force it.

Send you a word, everything is as it is!

Age is not an issue.

As long as you love each other, you will stick to it no matter what.

Bombard her heart with your love.

Not quite suitable, perhaps, you and her have better options ,......

Then I just want to say that you are not suitable.

Watch the TV series: Hotel Storm.

Friend, I support you, I have a 20-year-old brother who is also in a relationship with a woman who is 10 years older than him, and he told me that the woman is considerate, intelligent, attentive, and willing to wait for him.

She is very sad, maybe she doesn't have the confidence and confidence in this love, after all, the current university, to be honest, is a small society. If you really love her, please tell her with practical actions that you are a gentleman, and your love is a lifelong commitment.

The best age for a woman to have a child is 23 to 29 years old, when you graduate from college and have another child, if you want a child now, are you able to raise it, many people and many things will change when you graduate, can you still love her? I think that's what worries her the most.

What's not to do? Eight years older is eight years older, as long as it is true love, everything is OK

Take her with you, you can go to work where you go to school.

It depends on what you're pursuing, if you're pursuing, not for eternity, just for what you once had, then you can be with her, if you're pursuing a lifetime, then I suggest you find a younger one, women start to be ugly when they reach 30, you must not like it.

The article and Ma Yili's baby were born!

It's Xiang Nan and Charlene in the eye struggle, and they are 10 years apart.

But you're only 18, and you're really young in the face of marriage.

Wait to know!

Not much, wait until you reach legal marriage age. If that woman is still with you and still likes you, then you marry her.

Don't rush to make decisions about many things.

Get along with each other and take a look.

She's 26, can she play?

Then I ask you, can you get married at this time? For example: next year you will become a father, remember to buy milk powder for your child and change diapers.

Scatter flower seeds on the cliff, either fall to the bottom of the valley and disappear, or the cliff grows.

Insist on free marriage.

Family is just a reference.

In fact, what you say is secondary, the important thing is whether you really live together in harmony and have a deeper emotional foundation. What will be done or you think she is sensible is not love. You have to have feelings, not just buy things and be satisfied!!

Because of good feelings as a foreshadowing, we will tolerate each other in many things in the future. If we just talk about things and reason with each other, then we will get angry and have contradictions.

It can be said that you can be sure that your relationship is as good as you say, and the relationship between the two takes time and countless experiences to verify whether they are suitable to be together. For example, how long have you been together for a month or two, a year or two, whether you have had difficult days together, whether there is a certain gap in communication between you, and how often and proportionally you cannot communicate effectively.

Of course, according to what you said, it's okay for her to coax you according to your age, but whether you can really see what kind of person this person is, I dare not say. Is she sincere with you, if she accommodates you because of her age, it will not be good. Only when both sides act spontaneously can we see whether there is a contradiction.

Don't blame me for being too talkative, because age is not a gap in love, but it must be a gap in getting along. There may be all kinds of different ideas in life to communicate and solve, and you have to think well.

When you are fully sure of all this, talk to your parents. If you're not sure, don't do it. If you talk about marriage when your relationship and love are immature, it is irresponsible to both parties and will also leave hidden dangers in your later life.

There is really a day when you will say "there is no real love in the world", but in fact it is not, it is that you have not handled it well, love and marriage are skillful and need to be managed.

It wouldn't be even more stupid to let her age not be used as a reason for you to get married.

Ask a few friends or experts, and sometimes bystanders.

I have talked about my own personal experience for many years, young people as a reference, think about it! Good things are grinding, I wish you happiness.

I agree with you, the relationship has little to do with time and age, the most important element in the relationship is: to have feelings, and two people to produce good habits to complement each other, to be able to find a common language and common life goals together. In this way, happiness can last for a long time.

Age is a symbolic issue, if your parents really mind, I support you to use the method you think, and it's not too late to get married first. The main thing is that you want to be happy, just ask, is that sister pretty?

I don't think you're mature at all, and you put your emotional resources on a woman you haven't even met in person, let alone get along, is it a sign of maturity?

Mature man is open-minded Mature man understands that the woman around him has his own private life in addition to him, such as her friends, career, you have to be jealous of this, always fantasizing that she may be with other men.

In the same way, you have your own life, you and she participate in each other's lives, not possess each other's lives, don't lose yourself for anyone, don't think how far you can go, and ask her how much you can go.

She feels that there is a limit to how much she loves you, at least with reservations, and she cares about what other people think, so when you are in love, prepare for the worst, so that when you are hurt, you will also have a certain immunity.

I've been in a long-distance relationship too, so I guess I know your situation. I've read your story slowly. Anyway, you didn't ask specific questions, and I can only talk about some thoughts about your affairs.

You are the most likely to distrust each other and be jealous. Because you don't know what kind of person she is with and what kind of things she does. You will always think about it, and the more you think about it, the more uncomfortable it becomes. Although sometimes believe her, sometimes doubt. It's very repetitive.

I don't have an opinion on the building blocks of your relationship. I've experienced it, it's a very obsessive feeling. She can have many images in your mind. That's the key, so, sometimes you think of her well, but sometimes not.

You can tell her if you're sad, but it's best not too often. If you have more, it will be annoying and affect your feelings.

Also, a lot of your seclusion is not advisable. I understand you, because in your eyes, she is the most important, so you feel that everything else can be given up. However, don't be like that.

Because, when you really don't do those socializing, working, and socializing, she will let you do it. If you don't, she'll find you unattractive! That's the key!

Women don't want their men to put too much effort into the outside, but if they don't spend on the outside, they will feel that the man is not attractive. So women are actually contradictions. Not all of her requests were done.

She thinks you're not attractive anymore, the consequences... Hehe.

I don't know your personality or specific things, so I just talked about what you said. Because my ex-girlfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship. So I'm more concerned about those. If there is something wrong, don't mind, friend.

It feels like you're going to see each other, and maybe your mind will change

If you continue to persevere, I will support you

Online dating is ethereal, let's talk about it when we meet.

You can only say that you are in a spiritual love, you haven't seen her, and you don't really know her, the lies on the Internet can't be verified, although there are real feelings on the Internet, but after all, that's a minority.

If you really want to invest in this relationship, I think at least you should know her as a person, understand her, and meet her before establishing a relationship, and don't let the feelings you have pinned on for a long time find out to be a deception in the end.

Eight years old is a bit old! But since you love each other, don't care about those external factors. I bless you all.

In fact, the Internet, especially in the game, don't get involved in reality, it's really unrealistic, the one you know about her on the Internet is always the best side, and you haven't seen her, you haven't gotten along with her, such a big age difference, I don't think there will be any good results......A lot of times you're going to be disappointed.

You don't really love him.

I don't care if it's good or bad.

If yes, congratulations.

If not, say it sooner.

First, I suggest you meet her first! **No! You can't just listen to the sound! My friend had this embarrassing experience, and I didn't feel it when I really met.

Second, if you still want to marry her after meeting, then hurry up and get married, and the ideas will be transferred together, so as to save yourself so uncomfortable every day.

Third, you're very similar to my boyfriend.,Let me tell you what the girl thinks.,The stricter you manage, the more disgusted you are.,Loosen up.,Pretend to show that you don't care.,Your girlfriend will look at you more.。。

Fourth, why do I think that woman is very selfish, you better think about it yourself, there seems to be a generation gap between you

Bless you. Age is not an issue. But work is also important, and it is not practical to have affection and drink water. Can't affect your work, your future.

Although when it comes to falling in love, age is not a problem, and distance is not a problem. But the age difference is too big, and it's too cupped! Alas, what a cup!

Age is not an issue.

But it's too big, and it's a bit of a generation gap.

But it's not easy for the two of you to walk together.

Since we are together, we don't care what others think.

Go ahead.

If you don't have the courage to face the gossip, let it go. Ask yourself, a woman who is eight years older than you, in a few years, you are still young, but she has begun to enter middle age, can you accept it? It really takes a lot of courage to do this, and there is resistance from all sides, if you are not sure, let's be friends, be sisters and brothers...

Because this is a little bit worse ...

But there are people around me, and there are those who are ten years older, and they live very happily. These are all questions of your own attitude.

If you love, please love deeply against all odds, and if you don't, please let go resolutely.

What is your love for her built on, at the beginning she had everything and you had nothing, her love for you was built on something, didn't you have nothing at the beginning and she had everything.

You give up all of it first, tell yourself that you don't need to rely on yourself, men should be self-reliant, being a small strong is like being a man without a heart, abandoning it, it doesn't mean that you are a failure, the failure is that you don't work hard to create tomorrow, rely on other people's hands.

You shouldn't be a hypocritical person, you look at how hypocritical the people around you are, so this century is called the century of hypocrisy, because too many people imitate hypocrisy and cover their hearts, and it is difficult to make true friends.

But as a man and a gentleman, you should know how to be responsible, no longer unreliable, and know how to do things.

If you think it's right to break up, then find a way to let it break up with you on its own, if you take the initiative to break up with it, you will be miserable, and anyone who has read the story understands. Think of a way.

Think about what your heart thinks in addition to external factors. A relationship is not easy, I hope you can cherish it.

There is no right or wrong in love, if there is no affection or if you think that being together will only bind each other, you should be decisively separated, I personally don't like uncomfortable environments, if you feel unpleasant with her, why should you continue to waste each other's time with her? Falling in love is all about finding the right person for you, isn't it? Please think carefully ...

The Chinese tradition is that only when men are big and women are young can they be happy! Of course, parents are against this kind of thing! I also hope that you can give up this relationship and find the happiness of men and women anew!

So that all the people will support you. Time can dilute everything. But if you really can't let go of her!

Impress all who oppose you with your persistence! As long as you truly love each other, I believe everyone will understand you! Wishing you happiness!

Let them know that she is good, if you want to get married, you have to love her more, if you don't get married, it doesn't matter if they object to it or not. I'm so cold-blooded!

Don't get emotional! She can be a mother.

Get a certificate with her raw rice cooked rice

Such a resolute attitude. Let's support it first - it's a man. A responsible man. Since you like her so much.

I'll tell you how to do it.

Clause. 1. It doesn't matter whether your family opposes it or not, it's you looking for the person you love, not your family looking for the person they love. This is a prerequisite.

Clause. Second, you must respect your family and slowly convince them to use delaying tactics. Beautiful lies ......There are so many ways.

Clause. 3. Time. Time is the greatest old man. After a long time, you will understand whether the two parties are truly in love, and after a long time, your family may accept it.

Clause. Fourth, this is the most important point. Fact. I'll tell you a story to illustrate how powerful the truth is.

There are A, B, and C who go on a blind date. Meet the woman's parents. Parents ask them to report their own conditions.

A said, "I have ten million."

B said, "I have a villa, which is worth twenty million."

C pointed to the girl and said, "I have nothing but my flesh and bone in her belly."

Parents say, that's you.