How can I change who I am now?

Updated on society 2024-05-29
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My advice to you is to build your self-confidence first. But self-confidence doesn't mean that it comes out of nowhere, you can come when you want it to come. So, the first step is to arm yourself, both inside and outside.

    You can choose something that interests you to learn, such as hip-hop dancing and singing, as long as you have something to grow, you will feel that your current self is better than before, and your self-confidence will naturally improve. In addition, I usually have to read more books, there is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book. Reading more books can improve your own self-cultivation, but don't underestimate the role of reading books.

    Books can also give you guidance on how to see the world. Of course, I'm talking about good books.

    You say that you don't know how to interact with others, so watch more TV dramas, TV dramas are a portrayal of life. Look at what the characters in the TV series react to and say in different situations. Learn to learn, and it will naturally become your own.

    Also, don't stay at home all the time, go out and talk to others. You may feel embarrassed at first, but it's a process, and it's good to come through.

    At the same time, I also pay more attention to fashion and improve my taste. As the saying goes, people rely on clothes, so they can't dress too casually.

    With both inside and outside in this way, you will definitely become a super invincible and charming handsome guy in the universe, haha.

    I wish you a successful transformation soon.

    I hope that the people behind me will not plagiarize my answers, respect the fruits of others' labor, thank you for your cooperation!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    We are similar.

    Bosom friend. I play games at home when I'm out of work.

    Find a job in an environment where you have more contact with people.

    It would be better that way.

    Let's leave a QQ for everyone to discuss when it's okay.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's very simple to say, it's very difficult to do, I recommend you to take a look at Xingye's **, you are more twisted in your heart, then learn from Xingye and let go.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    …It's hard.........

    There are two sayings, one is ugly and the other is better.

    Sentence: The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. That's a nice one.

    Two sentences: Dogs can't change eating. It's a terrible sentence.

    Actually, I'm similar to you, I'm also annoyed, I hate myself, but there's really no way! I just can't change it, it's easy to say, I made up my mind to change it from now on, but I forgot ......about it at dawn the next day

    But there is still hope, but it will have to be tempered ...... time

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    So do I! Still trying to live.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm similar to you, I'm also confused and confused now, but you can try to be a hooligan, maybe it will change a lot, you can divide yourself into two, one is a hooligan and slowly affects the other you (that is, you in the past).

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ay. It's the same with me. I've trained a little bit stronger, though.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Damn, you're exactly the same as me, just surf the Internet at home if you're fine, we have a little bit of a problem in psychology, I feel inferior, I know that I have to be confident, but I can't find a place where I can be confident! I can only see it myself.

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