Why, love will be changed by the external environment!

The core of love, that is, the essence is of course beautiful, simple, and free of impurities, and he has not changed, but that is the essence of love. Just like men, they are the same when they take off their clothes, so why is there a difference in social status? That's why I say that love can't just have an essence, but also other conditions, such as the economic conditions of both parties, personality, family, etc., together to be called love.

It's like taking off your clothes, but aren't all people in society wearing clothes?

Love changes over time, with the environment, with genetics.

It's not love that's changing, it's people! People have changed, so love has changed.

People don't live just for love, people have a lot of responsibilities, time changes, we experience more things, and our thoughts will change.

Love is connected to many aspects and the environment is just one deciding element.

True love is indeed pure and free of impurities, and will not be changed by the external environment, but this is a society of abusive feelings, and there are few such feelings, modern love is based on time and material, not just pure love, so, meet a sincere person and be content

That's the ideal love, the real love is mixed with a lot of practical factors, so, there are a lot of excuses for betraying love, so, everything is changing...

This is a personal opinion, now many people have their own ideas about love, as long as you keep your own view of love, it's OK, no matter what others think!

Love is too realistic, it's just a substance that people use to fill the emptiness.

That's not true love, men who are too poor will be dumped, women who are too ugly will be dumped, and now it's so realistic.

Don't cry Men can't cry.

She's giving you two years, and that's all right.

If only someone had kicked you.

If a man is trying to make money, crying won't solve the problem.

In 2 years, the house was built, let alone bought.

22 years old is still very young, and there are still so many things waiting for you to do!!

Don't stop here, take a big step forward, as long as you work hard and work hard, there is no problem that can difficult you!!

Happy birthday to you!!

The first layer of the essence of love: mutual attraction - instinctive attraction to the opposite sex. Love is not a sexual need, although sex is inseparable from love, therefore, the first step in the essence of love should be the instinctive attraction to the opposite sex, which has the attraction of external beauty and the attraction of good words and personal mentality; Therefore, this step should be very emotional, lacking the necessary rationality, and as a result, it often leads to the occurrence of love at first sight.

The second level of the essence of love: mutual possession - complete possession of the heart and body of the opposite sex. Love is an intangible spiritual element, but it is often closely related to the material, after the essence of love reaches the first level, the two sides of love will begin to pursue each other, the purpose is to completely own each other, this level of love and both sides, began to add part of the rationality, and even more rational than emotional.

Men have to consider their own abilities (knowledge, economy, body), women have to consider the other party's conditions (character, economy, attitude of love), some of these rationalities will divide the impulsive elements of the first layer, many of the love fire that has just been ignited is ruthlessly extinguished in this layer, but there are also many shoots of love that begin to grow healthily here;

The third layer of the essence of love: belonging and sharing - people always have a sense of belonging, because individual people, living in a large society, always need a sense of security, at this time the parents are older, their own independence, the hidden task of human instinct to receive the family has also fallen on our heads, and after reaching the second layer of love, both sides of the idea began to turn into a more practical third layer, that is, both sides jointly form a new family organization, and become their future life home, Found a sense of security that cannot be obtained in the big society, but this is only the first step at this level, and then the husband and wife will share the happiness of love, sexual happiness, the joy of life and the beautiful yearning for the future life, and there will be more sharing of life perception and understanding between each other, so as to achieve the true essence of love.

After reading these words, you will be much more transparent about your feelings.

The essence of love is that you love me.

What exactly is the essence of love?

In fact, the essence of love is simply to share the burden of two people with each other, and the mutual sustenance of the soul, love makes people feel warm, feel satisfied, but also a test, teach us to be magnanimous, to be sincere...

I'm a straightforward person, to put it bluntly, I really like it, I really pay it, I really love it!

Sincere dedication.

Mutual trust and tolerance.

Yes, time can change everything.

Time will only spoil the otherwise good love. Won't turn the bad into the good. Time is the best medicine. All together will pass ,..

Time changes people, not love.

The premise of true love: 1 two people are in a legitimate love relationship 2 can give everything for each other (generally not much can really be done) 3 can really understand each other In this way, the probability of true love is relatively large

What is your so-called essence? But I know that time can make love fade!

The social attribute of satisfying people's spiritual needs.

Love is most often a stress response between a man and a woman that creates a psychological and physical desire for each other, and sometimes also occurs in the same sex. Therefore, love can last for a very short time, generally only 3 months and 1 year.

** The product of selfishness in the hearts of both parties.

The physiological essence is the hormonal action of the human body and the liking and dependence (i.e., inertia) on the same type

Other people who have been together for a long time are prone to love when they are complementary or have the same or similar personalities and interests, because it is easy to marry people who are often together for any reason (including work).

Of course, there are other factors, such as the man must not be inferior to the woman in some aspects, at least basically the same, which means that the habits of thousands of years ago have also been left.

I feel that in the final analysis, love is still: each other pays for each other

Whether it's for each other's happiness or being loyal to each other's feelings, it's all giving

The essence of love is to never abandon each other and support each other to complete the road of life. The first person you want to share with when you are happiest is yours (her), and the first person you want to talk to when you are wronged and the most sad is still him (her). Cherish what you have now, because there are things that you can never get back if you lose them, so cherish them!!

I don't know, I don't believe in the eternity of love, it seems to me that there may be love in the world, but it is only for a moment. People who love each other are initially fond of each other, then attracted to each other, and then become a habit, and finally family affection.

The essence has to do with money! Is there "love" without money? Rattle!

Two well-fed, boring people got together.

The continuation of instinctive desire, the prelude to family affection.

Mature individuals nourish each other.

Grow together and mature each other's minds. Be kind to others from the subjective will. That is, there is a willingness to love, and there is an act of love.

Attraction is just a stepping stone, when there are two people attracted to each other, they can further understand each other, if there is no attraction will not continue, but love is not so simple, when the understanding also needs two people to get along with friction, fusion, and even run-in, until both people can pay for each other's sake and even change a part of themselves, the existence of the other party will also let themselves grow, let themselves slowly mature, such love is more comprehensive.

Question: Is the essence of love also attraction?

Answer: If two people can get along with each other after attracting each other, they will know if the other person is their true love, and someone will find that the other person is not the person they can go on with in the future, so they will separate. There are also people who go down and find that the other party can be the true love that accompanies them for a lifetime. So you have to try it, and you should get along with each other for a while after being attracted, so as to know if you can reach the true love.

You can be brave enough to try to get along for a while, don't be afraid in case you are hurt, if you don't even have the courage to try, then you can't wait for sincerity, I wish you to find happiness as soon as possible.

Does the long appeal give people the feeling of love?

Ask what it means that attraction is the essence of love.

With the premise of attraction, you can move on to the next step, and all love starts with attraction.

For example, if you want to start a relationship between two strangers, you must be attracted to yourself by the other party to develop.

After reading these words, you will be much more transparent about your feelings.

What exactly is the essence of love?

No, if it will change, it will change a long time ago, and it has nothing to do with time, and there is no way to drop it if it doesn't come

A complete person, he needs love, the essence of love is to give, the essence of love is to gain, the essence of love is sincerity, the essence of love trusting love is an indispensable part of everyone's heart, without love, it means that everything you have is illusory, or even not at all you need it, as long as there is love in your heart, there is sunshine everywhere, there is true love, the essence of love is love.

It is to let the other party have something to rely on.

I can think of you anytime, anywhere.

Without your information, let them worry.

That's how I see love.

If the essence of marriage is the human instinct and the need for reproduction. Then love is on top of this instinct, and people's super high requirements for spiritual enjoyment. Beautiful love is the highest enjoyment of human beings.

The point of love is to choose the right person, love and marriage are not the same thing.

In fact, before human civilization, there was no so-called love, two pure hearts rely on each other together, help each other, and live together, this kind of relationship is called a love relationship.

The emotion between a romantic relationship is called love.

Therefore, love is an emotion that accumulates feelings!

The essence is that love is so helpless, the heart hurts, people are tired and numb. Give me a glass of forgetful water, let me forget all the pain of the past and present.

Love, yes! It's like a moth to a fire, knowing that it will get hurt and can't stop chasing the heat. The saddest thing is that it is not the fire that is extinguished, it is the light bulb, but I always thought that it was the fire I was chasing, and in the end it was not burned by the fire, but I was killed by a head.

Love is fate, love is moving, love is habit, love is tolerance, love is promotion, love is understanding, love is a lifetime of sincerity.

Love is that you like each other and cherish each other. Love, it is your affection and affection. Emotional similarity. Only those who love each other are worthy of love. Finally, I hope you can find your own love.

Have you summarized the reasons for your failure?

In short, it is best not to experience "love" too many times, otherwise you will completely lose confidence in "love".

Now for this society, no matter what it is, falling in love, finding a job, making friends, etc., it is enough to describe it in one sentence. "Reality is too 'realistic'".

Improve each other's character, help each other learn, help each other, be considerate of each other, trust each other, understand, accept, be very happy together, and have no suspicions. Don't quarrel over small things, don't calm down.

Love has no essence, you love me, I love you. That's it.

Love is to support each other, help each other, and make progress together, and it is inappropriate to start a new relationship without reflecting on the problems between the relationship failures, because the problem has not been solved, no matter how many times you talk about it in the future, you will encounter the same problem, and it will fail. Let's find the problem from ourselves first, love will be dull and ordinary after all. First of all, let yourself be independent and happy, and then you will bring happiness to others.

The essence of love is pain, whether you are for her or for you, each other is painful and happy. If you love her, cherish her. Once after my first love ended, I thought I would never have love again, but when a new love came in, you would find that nothing is eternal, cherish yourself and cherish your feelings.

It's all nonsense upstairs... Love is to be experienced and understood by oneself ...

Love itself is beautiful, but as long as people interact with people, especially people in love, what must be done is trust and forbearance, two people who want to be together must go through a process of running in with each other, this process is sometimes more difficult to accept, but as long as this stage is passed, everything will be fine, persistence, tolerance.

The essence of love is that love is a bastard, and it hurts to the depths before you learn what it means to fall in love.

Love is a kind of affection that is based on the material foundation of mutual love between two parties. If you fail in your relationship, you should also find your own reasons. Feelings should be attentive, but don't expect too much from feelings: love is a ghost, there are many people who believe, and few people who see it!! Hope it works for you!!