What should I do if my boyfriend doesn t contact me for some reason and ignores me?

First of all, I think it is necessary for you to reflect on yourself, because no one will ignore a person inexplicably, not to mention that he is still your boyfriend, you have to think about whether you have done something wrong and made him sad or something else.

As a girlfriend, you must be considerate of your boyfriend, because boys are not as strong as they look on the outside, they also need to be cared for, sometimes, they don't need much commitment from you, sometimes it's just a simple hug that can make him tired and cared for. They don't need you to surprise them much, as long as you are quietly by his side, it is a great encouragement for him...Only in this way can the relationship last!

Of course, this problem can't be the same, because sometimes it's not necessarily the girl's fault, if it's the girl's fault, I hope the girl can take the initiative to recognize her mistake, and apologize like her boyfriend, don't contact for no reason, it should be you who did wrong, it's not ashamed to apologize to your boy's friend, as long as you still care about him, you can't bow your head if you don't set it. But if it's just that the guy likes the new and hates the old, and he suddenly doesn't contact you, it's likely that he has a problem, and he doesn't blame the girl, perhaps.

He met a girl who was better than you, so it doesn't matter to you!

Of course, I hope this kind of thing doesn't happen, because it's so sad for a girl, and it's not her own fault, it's her boyfriend who doesn't want her. If this is the case, I hope that girls don't make a lot of noise, please do yourself quietly, maintain your original rhythm of life, why waste your tears for a scumbag, if you are really sad, you can choose to run, to sing, to listen to the hot **, to do what you didn't do with him before, you can eat meat and drink a lot, but, after venting, please return to your normal life, go to the library to read, to study, to exercise, to make yourself better, The next time you see him, you must make yourself not what you used to be, if you are a little fat, take this opportunity to be good**, for he is not worth making yourself sad for too long, get rid of the relationship as soon as possible, and start the next relationship! Or go on a trip, choose a one-person trip, look at the scenery along the road, look at the blue sky, look at the sea, relax your mood, in short, choose everything to do that can forget him!

In fact, lovers need to understand, need to be honest, no one needs to be responsible for whom, when you are together, you want to be happy, if you are sad for more time than you are happy then please end the relationship, you work hard for him, but he makes you sad for him, so, girls don't need to make themselves so humble, he doesn't contact you inexplicably, ignore you, then you don't pay attention to him, sometimes it may be that you have been together for a long time, let each other calm down, it is more conducive to the durability of the relationship!

I think girls don't need to be too humble, as long as they are right, then everything is fate, even if you are sad and crying alone, please wipe away your tears and move on! Believe that you are the best, unique you must find someone worthy of you, so the current person may just be a guest in your life, just in the past, be yourself!

A more rational approach is to call ** to him, figure out the situation first, if no one answers, find him through friends and classmates, many things will be easier to solve in person.

Your boyfriend doesn't contact you or ignore you for no reason, and there may be the following situations:

First, your boyfriend may have had something happen to him lately.

At this time, if you break up with him, it will only make others think that you are a special unrighteous person, and also make your boyfriend feel that your feelings for him are really just the surface, and you can only share the joys and sorrows with him. So, all we need to do is find him and figure out the situation. If he is in trouble and in difficulty, this is the best time for your relationship to sublimate.

You should give him the greatest comfort and help, always be by his side, some things he doesn't want to say you don't ask, companionship is the most affectionate confession.

For couples, this kind of fighting accident is really a big test. I once encountered that during the summer vacation of my junior year, my ex-boyfriend and his grandfather died suddenly, and he loved his grandfather very much, and he was very sad at that time. And I, a person who has never even met my own grandfather, really doesn't feel much about this kind of thing.

I didn't understand his reaction during that time, his whole person had become a lot of vicissitudes, and I was in charge of the reception of new students at the school, and I was very dissatisfied to see him look so unmotivated. He came to see me once at school, but all I gave him was endless accusations, and I didn't comfort him because of his grandfather's death. Now that I think about it, I was really ignorant at that time, so I missed someone who really loved me in vain, and he was also hurt all the time.

Therefore, the majority of netizens should not be like me, as if they have no emotional intelligence, and break up without asking the reason.

Second, it's possible that he's just busy and sees your message, but doesn't have a long time to talk to you, so he wants to wait until things are done before getting back to you.

We girls often think that if your boyfriend doesn't reply to you after seeing the message, it proves that the other party doesn't love you. From the boy's point of view, they often see the news, but because they don't have enough time to talk with you, they are afraid that a chat with no match will make you unhappy, so they simply don't reply. So what we still have to do is to face him with a good attitude first.

Third, your boyfriend may really want to break up with you.

In this case, you really don't want to be kind and lustful to him, for this kind of scumbag who wants to break up but waits for the woman to say break up, we must not show mercy. I hate this kind of man the most, I want to break up, but I don't contact or solve it, I don't tell the truth, I procrasticate, I have to let the woman say it, in order to show how noble I am. Forget about him, and you don't need to say that you broke up, wouldn't you be right in his arms when you said it.

Therefore, when your boyfriend doesn't contact you and ignores you for no reason, we have to figure out the situation first before we can prescribe the right medicine.

<>I think my boyfriend inexplicably doesn't contact you, ignoring you, I think it's just that you didn't do anything to hurt him, it's like you may not say that very well, and then he remembered it, he has been a little unhappy since then, this is one of the possibilities, and I think it's possible that he wants to use the cold war to force you to break up. In fact, this is the usual strategy used by many boys, that is, he doesn't want to take the initiative to break up, and may have promised you that he won't break up, so he uses this way to force you to break up, the reason why I know this method is because there is a friend when she broke up with her boyfriend, it was because her boyfriend ignored her, and then they broke up, and then in fact, her boyfriend was still a junior high school classmate I knew, and he was sandwiched between the two of them, in fact, I was also quite uncomfortable, the man ignored the woman, The girl is still my very good best friend, the two of us were in a dormitory in high school, and then the boy was still my junior high school classmate, I was very happy when they were together, but I don't know why, they seemed to want to break up with the last man, and then he didn't say him directly, so he ignored the woman, he had a cold war with others, and then the girl took the initiative to break up.

And then I think to say no matter what, this kind of thing still needs to be talked to him specifically, you tell him what you want to think, you can break up or something, and then the two of you come to talk about this matter, that is, ask him what he thinks, and then you say it's okay to break up, and then say let him communicate with you well, I think the two of them broke up for no reason, it's not very good, I think it's better to communicate and discuss, just to see what he thinks, What if he doesn't want to break up, right, I think it's better to make it clear.

It could be that you did something to make your boyfriend angry, or it could be that your boyfriend is particularly busy or that your boyfriend wants to break up with you. Girls should take the initiative to contact each other, should ask what is going on, and should make it clear no matter what.

It's not suitable for the other party to want to break up, so there will be such cold violence, don't take the initiative to contact, otherwise you will become very humble.

It is very likely that the other party is particularly busy, it may be that the other party does not love you anymore, and you must not take the initiative to contact.