What am I going to do? The boyfriend said that the house should have his father s name written on it

I think you should figure out the problem with the house now, it's better than ripping off later. When your boyfriend does this, I think he's still wary of you (which is more scary), or embarrassed to take his father's money for nothing. If you still have to pay for the loan in the future, it is better to use the house as your husband and wife's joint property, with your boyfriend's name written on it.

You'd better also contribute some money to buy a house so that you can write both of your names.

In my opinion, since all three of you have contributed capital (you will repay the loan in the future), it is better to write the names of the three people and indicate their respective contribution ratios. Or just write the names of both of you, which I think is better. Girls should have a sense of self-protection, I have a friend who is divorced and has nothing, and comes out to rent a house to live, and she also has her contribution in the house where they got married.

Otherwise, do it for property justice. I think if your boyfriend really doesn't watch out for you, he should write your name! I'm also a girl, I feel the same way, and I've consulted a lawyer.

Why should you want to get divorced! Do you really love him? Besides, is there any difference between his father's and his! It's not your boyfriend's in the end! Don't think so much!

I don't know if you are a ** person, we can write the names of two people here, just on the real estate certificate, if your boyfriend doesn't mind justice, you can do a property justice.

Buying a house is a matter for the two of you, and the owner should be one of the two of you, and should not write about his dad.

His father may have written this so that he could use his housing provident fund, and the two of them first trusted!

My boyfriend's parents said they wanted to buy us a wedding house, but the house was in the name of my boyfriend's father, is this normal? Ah Hai asked: I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and am ready to get married, and I hope that my boyfriend's parents can buy me a wedding house, so that I can have my own house after marriage.

But my boyfriend's parents told me that they didn't give the money. Ah Hai said that if I broke up with my boyfriend one day, I could transfer the house to my name.

As for the matrimonial house, it is generally purchased with funds from the man's family. However, some men have stronger families, and if they want the woman to buy a matrimonial house before they get married, the man is likely to ask the two families to buy a house together. Therefore, in this regard, in the process of a man's and a woman's relationship, the man's family may ask the woman to buy a marriage house.

And most families don't pay much attention to the bride price, especially in ancient times. The bride price money is also relatively small, and if there is no bride price money, you will not marry.

Of course, there are also people who buy a house before marriage, but only write the man's name. In this case, if you buy a house before marriage, and you have to pay off the mortgage after marriage because of this house. So does such a house belong to the man?

In fact, if it belongs to the parents' house, then it is also their property, and it belongs to the son and daughter. However, if it belongs to the woman's house, then the property will be divided in the same way as the man. The house, as the joint property of the husband and wife, should be the joint property of the husband and wife before the marriage.

In real life, there are many cases of disputes arising from the purchase of a house. Therefore, you must be cautious when buying a house, and don't let the development of things affect your judgment. In particular, many people cannot make independent judgments through the property rights of the house, and once there is a conflict between the two parties, it will cause immeasurable losses.

Therefore, in order to avoid losing yourself, you must do a good job of the detailed information of the property rights of the house, and understand in advance whose name should be written on the real estate certificate and the ownership of the property rights.

There's nothing unreasonable about that! In my opinion, the request of the boyfriend's parents is both reasonable and legitimate. If you and your boyfriend buy a matrimonial house for the purpose of getting married, if all the money from the "down payment" to the installments is paid by both of you, all the property rights to the property belong to only the two of you by law.

This situation is not normal, if it is a marriage house, if you need to pay off the mortgage in the future, it is best to use your name.

I think this matter is very abnormal, and I must ask it clearly, so as not to have trouble and disputes in the future.

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Hello, my boyfriend's house belongs to my parents, and I shouldn't change the name to my own. This is not supposed to be changed to your own name. Dear, <>

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The reason for this is that we should not change the name of the title certificate to yours from a moral point of view, and young people should not do this when their parents are old.

Dear, you can ask like this, you must have encountered problems in this regard, you can also tell the teacher the specific situation, let the teacher judge for you, maybe it can help you.

The boyfriend's house belongs to the parents, and it shouldn't be possible to change the name to his own.

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Hello, my boyfriend's house belongs to my parents, and I shouldn't change the name to my own. This is not supposed to be changed to your own name. Dear, <>

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The reason for this is that we should not change the name of the title certificate to yours from a moral point of view, and young people should not do this when their parents are old. Dear, you can ask like this, you must have encountered problems in this regard, or Wang Dongchang can tell the teacher about the specific situation, and let the teacher judge for you, maybe he can help you.

I don't think it's too much, provided you give enough in the relationship.

In real life, men and women will always face all kinds of very real problems when they step into marriage from love. Whether it is buying a car or a house, or the issue of bride price, these problems must have corresponding measures, so that it is possible for two people to really step into marriage.

If you're giving enough in your relationship, it's not too much to ask for your name on the house. Two people have struggled all the way from the poverty stage, and now they are finally going to buy a house with the help of their parents, then of course you can ask for your name to be written.

But if two people have only known each other for a long time, and you are getting married because they are going to get married, and you have not paid a penny, why do you ask to write your name on the real estate certificate? Is it just because you're a girl?

A lot of things sound reasonable, but they don't make sense. There are many such girls in the real society, who neither contribute money nor effort, and have a lot of things to do all day long, as soon as they say that they get married, they have to write their names on the house, saying that they have a sense of security, and the problem is that you have a sense of security, where does your boyfriend's sense of security come from?

Too much or not too much, there is no way to evaluate generally. Every couple has a different relationship journey, and no one knows what the couple has been through or what it feels like to buy a house.

Different couples have different opinions on such things. Some boys feel that there is no problem at all with two people fighting for the future together and writing their wife's name; But there are also some boys who think she has paid nothing, and she wants half a house when she opens her mouth, who do you think you are?

There is nothing excessive or excessive in this kind of thing, the feelings are deep and the effort is enough, and the feelings are not enough.

Of course, it's okay to make a request when you get married, but you still have to base on the actual situation between two people, and don't always have too many unrealistic ideas.

Cherish the love between two people, and you will be happy in your future life.

To be honest, it's a bit excessive. First of all, if you call each other boyfriend, it means that the two of you have not yet become legally husband and wife, and such property is not legally your joint property, and you have no legal protection to write your name.

If a part of the money for this house is yours, then you can write your name unconditionally!

If your boyfriend paid in full before he got married, then you are indeed going too far to ask your boyfriend to add your name. But if you just pay a down payment and two people pay it back together later, I think it can be added, but this still requires in-depth communication between the two of you.

It depends on who paid for the house, if the man paid for it and you didn't pay a penny, then you were excessive, and if you also paid for a part, it was not too much.

If you don't pay for it, it's a bit too much to write your name, if you pay part of the house by yourself, and the two of you decide to go down together in the future, it's not too much to write your name, after all, the house is the common property of two people.

It's a little bit, he bought the house himself, you didn't pay a penny, why add your name, he just found someone to marry and live together.

The girl wants to write her name on the real estate deed, which I think is a sign of distrust of this boy, and write her name in case of an accident and a place to live. But if you don't do anything, why write your name.

It is normal to write the names of both spouses on the title deed. If your husband is not willing to put your name on the title deed, a man like this is simply not worth entrusting for life.

It's not too much, but when emotions involve interests, it's very difficult to do it. If the other party offers it, that's fine. If the other party hasn't mentioned it, but you want to add a name here, it's really a bit difficult.

This kind of problem first depends on the ** of the house, if it is a marriage house that you work together, you must write the names of both parties, but this house is the man's parents, and it is okay to write your name or not.

Not too much! First of all, you have to be able to make your partner write your name on the title deed, and you will definitely not want to force your subject to write your name. After all, you don't have much to contribute.

Write the house, your name is not too much, but don't force it, you don't need to care so much about material things to love someone.

It's not too much, and it depends on the actual situation, because this kind of thing involves a lot of things, and the specific things are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Either he listens more to his mother, or he keeps a hand, and if you divorce him, you won't be able to share this one house.

You're not married, what's wrong with writing your family's names? Did he himself buy it with his money?

1 All his parents bought a house in accordance with his parents' wishes, not to mention that you also said that he has a sister, if you are afraid that something happens, then you should also think about it, her sister is also a girl, and you are now your boyfriend a relative, you want to have a home, this is understandable, but after all, he is still your boyfriend not your husband, even if something happens, the house writes his name, you have no choice, so I give you two suggestions:

1. Be generous yourself, there is no need to participate in their family affairs, after all, you are still his girlfriend and not a member of his family, you have no right to speak, and if his parents know, it will be uncomfortable.

Second, be independent yourself, don't have too many dependency tendencies, after all, the future is unknown, and we can't predict what happens, so your own financial independence is the most important, so that you have a sense of security, I hope that you and the person you love will grow old, but even if you get married, your financial independence can also help him relieve some of the burden, which is also a manifestation of love.

Finally, I wish you happiness every day.

If you're really worried about falling out with your in-laws in the future, then I doubt you're really good at managing relationships with others.

And in this case, if his parents are buying a house for you to get married, then you have to write your boyfriend's name so that it can be said later.

But if it's just buying a house, then you have to write the names of his parents, and you have to look at it from the perspective of a bystander, not from your own point of view, for fear of future conflicts, for fear of property or something.

Of course it's his parents, is it glorious to be a gnawing old clan? Chinese youth just don't know how to be self-reliant.

I think write your boyfriend's name My sister is always going to get married, is it difficult = my sister gets married and she takes the house back??

Write your boyfriend and your name. I think that's fairer.

That's what I did.

Write my house as my girlfriend's and I's.

I think you should write your boyfriend's name...

That's fine. In fact, writing your boyfriend's name does not necessarily mean that the house is yours, it can only prove that it is your boyfriend's, if you are divorced, this is considered premarital property, and you still have nothing!! If you want to have a part of you, you can only talk to your boyfriend, write your names, and then take out a loan to pay off your salaries Later, if you get divorced, you can still compensate you a little.

Or let your parents split the money for the house with his parents. Also, if his parents bought the house on the premise that you were married, then the house has nothing to do with his sister.