I ve been with her for 3 years, and I want to break up with her, but I don t know how to change 10

To tell the truth, no matter what you say or do, you are going to hurt her after all, and this kind of injury will have a certain impact on her, but what you said is also very right, if you force it down, or even get married, it will be bad for her and you, since you have determined that you don't love her, then you will hurt to the end at once, tell her all your thoughts, and then tell her your decision, not discuss, and finally, since you have chosen to separate, don't hesitate, divide and merge, it hurts more, or that sentence, if there is no hope, don't give hope ...... anymoreHope it helps.

Sometimes we will quarrel over a little thing, we have all tried, but it is difficult to change the personality things, these 3 years with my girlfriend, I feel that I have lost my freedom, my girlfriend almost cut off my circle of friends, the reason is that she wants me to fill the sky with her" "I am very grateful for everything my girlfriend has done for me, so I did not give up on her for my girlfriend's persistence, even if these 3 years, by her family's cold face and despise, for the sake of my girlfriend, I persevered. ”

Empathy. Break up when the relationship is getting weaker and weaker, just talk to her directly, long pain is better than short pain. You won't be happy all the time, and when your relationship fades to the point where you just care about your friends, it's your girlfriend's one-man show.

I am a person who needs freedom more, at first because of love so I have been restricted and feel happy, he cares about me very much, but later, after a long time, it is a kind of bondage, a lot of things that I really want to do are sacrificed, and when the relationship fades, I understand that I have maintained our relationship because he has done too much for me, I feel that I can't reciprocate, my heart is too soft. I don't think you can get married in such a situation, after all, there is a big gap between being in love and living together for decades, and marriage is not enough to have love. Don't be afraid of hurt, continue to be together, it will only hurt more, break up now, maybe see each other again in many years and smile, and be friends for life.

I can say that loving one, is not about changing yourself, if you revolve around one person all day, you will lose yourself. You are still young now, you should break into your career, after a long time, you will find that I will not say much, you should judge what you should do according to your own heart, it is better for both parties.

Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also between two families, since you already feel that it is not suitable for your girlfriend, it is recommended that you get together and disperse, otherwise you will be more miserable after marriage in the future! I feel the same way! It's true!

I guess you'd better tell the truth, talk to her about it, and if it's possible to change, it's better not to break up!

Every woman wants to meet a beloved person and hold hands with her for a lifetime.

Relatively speaking, women "hate to marry," when they reach a certain age, they will always hope to meet someone they like and be with him forever, while men are not necessarily, their character is destined to want to be free, whenever the topic of marriage is discussed, they may also escape, and at this time you should understand his mind.

In fact, it's not that a man doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you, and what he says "not ready" or "wait a little longer" is just a perfect excuse to drag it out.

But if you really want to marry your man, his performance will be different, maybe the two will only get along for a while, and he will start to introduce you to relatives and friends in a hurry.

Whether a man wants to marry you or not, just look at the details of your relationship, really!

1. See if he is willing to make your relationship public.

If a man is not even willing to make your relationship public, then he must not love you enough, he may just treat you as a spare tire in his heart, maybe one day he meets a more suitable one, and he no longer needs you, and such a man will not want to marry you and will not give you the future you want.

If you understand this, it's better to stop the loss in time, don't fall deeper and deeper and make yourself sad.

2. See if he will take you to see your relatives and friends.

Actually, this is quite similar to an open relationship, but it is different, if he opens up about your relationship in front of other people, but hides it in front of his relatives and friends, then there is still a problem.

In love, don't listen to what he says, but see what he does, don't want to marry your man, the attitude is obvious.

3. See if he is willing to pay for you.

A man who loves you and is willing to change himself for you, a man who loves you and is willing to pay for you.

Those men who always only think about themselves and never think about each other's feelings, they don't really want to be with you, all he wants is an obedient and sensible girlfriend who is completely obedient to him, and as for giving, let alone paying.

Maybe you have paid for him ten times, but he has not paid for you once, and he will feel that your contribution is taken for granted, and such a man does not really want to marry you.

You have to understand that if his heart is all about you, and he wants to be with you all the time, he must be willing to pay for you, whether it is money or other aspects, as long as you say it, he is willing to do it for you.

If you want to know if a man really wants to marry you, just look at these details.

Instead of listening to him say "I love you," it is better to look at his actual actions, if he really wants to be with you, he will naturally be eager to take you to meet your parents, meet his friends, he will tell others about your relationship early in the morning, and he is willing to change himself for you and work hard.

And if he just talks about it but never does anything, then you should also think carefully about whether this person is suitable for you at this time.

Since this is the case, I have repeatedly proposed to break up. Either he is genuinely unloving, or he is an unprincipled, repetitive, and irresponsible person. It's not worth your relationship.

Because the two of you have broken up for three months, he proposed it, so he has proposed this breakup many times, so the reason is that you don't love him, so if you don't want to defend it, that's okay.

Now that it's been more than three months since the breakup, don't think about him anymore, what does it mean. A man can propose to break up, and there is no intention of getting back together with you for a few months. It proves that he doesn't love you very much.

The man has already proposed to break up, he must not love you anymore, what else to explain? Leave early, such a man, he is not really in love.

You shouldn't be very old, say that you have broken up for three months, no matter who mentioned it, as long as you say break up, there will be a second time after the first time, two people don't joke about the breakup, you can break up casually, then there are only two possibilities, one is that you really don't love anymore, and the second is that you don't know what love is.

I think that in this relationship or in a marriage, it is often said that the person who broke up is really not worthy of love. This kind of person. He just broke up all the time. On the lips, I think this kind of person is particularly annoying.

If you break up for three months, he mentions this time to break up, he has already mentioned it three times, this time because he thinks I don't love him, I haven't turned white, but if you say something like this, if you say it three times, maybe the most important thing between you is that you don't trust each other, causing such a situation.

The two of you have been together for three months, have broken up for three months, and have already proposed to break up three times, do you think it still makes sense to be with him? No more pointless, quibble.

I think this kind of person, if he always mentions breaking up with you, there is really no need to continue dating him, he always mentions breaking up, which means that his physiological first reaction is to say that you are the one who is not important to you, otherwise he will not easily say to break up.

Divide it, just divide it, the arrival of emotional crises often accumulates over time, maybe the two of you are really not suitable, the daily small friction has completed today's outbreak, cherish it, happy breakup!

Breaking up with you three times shows that he doesn't love you for a long time, so this time you did the right thing, a person who doesn't love you is not worth nostalgia, give up on him and find someone who truly loves you to be happy.

It's already like this, it's been proposed three times, and you understand what people are doing to you, so what are you still tangled upon, bye-bye, think about what he means? What's the point.

I think it's better to break up like this, anyway, she doesn't care about you and cherishes you, maybe she will regret it in the future, but at present, you don't want to accommodate her, they have already broken up, there is no need to guess in people's hearts, it seems that you still care about him very much, it is very painful for lovers to break up, it is understandable, for the bits and pieces of the past, especially beautiful things, it is difficult to forget for a while, but feelings can not be forced, since they have broken up, they can no longer involve anything, and the broken threads will only hurt each other, and the pain is deeper, Let yourself get out of the memories of the past faster, so if you can't be together, you can completely separate, and find someone who truly loves you as soon as possible.

A person really wants to break up with you, he has 10,000 reasons! A slap doesn't make a sound, it doesn't rule out that you may really be cold to him, but many times he does this way because he doesn't love him anymore, and in order to reduce the guilt in his heart, he pushes the fault to another person. In this case, it is recommended that you think about it again, if it is really unnecessary, separate, and if you are still in love with each other, you can communicate and solve it.

The two of you are really not suitable, and if you break up, don't dwell on this matter.

Again and again, don't you feel tired?

I see, you and her don't have a sense of love, to put it simply: don't call.

Originally, it was also through introduction, so there was a lack of fresh romance in the first place. The purpose of the two is nothing more than to get married and start a family, as if they are completing the task, the two have no emotional foundation and no common language.

It's better to say it directly if you want to break up, and there is no need to beat around the bush.

It's just that you've only been dating for more than a month, and you haven't had a comprehensive understanding of each other, so you don't feel like you're going to break up because you don't call, don't you think it's a little hasty?

Well, actually, I think you can just tell her that you want to talk to her, and then tell her how you feel, and use tactful words that don't hurt her self-esteem. I think every girl wants you to be honest about this kind of thing.

Well, here's my suggestion... It may not be good, but I think if she can't accept what you say, then maybe he really doesn't care about you...

If you pay attention to your own life, don't worry about it. If you can't change it yourself, it's right to keep doing it. "She took the initiative to contact me before, but she suddenly felt that no one was chasing her, she felt no sense of superiority, and she felt lonely, so she looked for me."

When I heard such a sentence, I shuddered, she was too self-conscious. The "self" I'm talking about is the real self-cultivation, if she doesn't understand, can you teach her? Maybe she'll know a lot ...

To put it simply: cut through the mess with a quick knife....Since she has no intention of you....It's okay to say it directly, but you like her, so tell her tactfully....Or continue to accompany her as a friend....Maybe one day she'll find out about you...Bless you, come on....

According to what you said, you and she won't be too sad if you talk to her. It may not matter, just think of a very old-fashioned statement (you can still be friends after breaking up). Sometimes it's better to be direct.

Hehe. It's not that a big woman doesn't love, but that she loves too hard... You should try talking to her ... It's better not to meet and say use text messages... Remember as long as you don't offend her dignity ...

Ask her directly if she doesn't care about you, so she doesn't take the initiative to contact you.

Let's talk about breaking up after making it clear.