Broke up, she proposed, but I was calm.

It seems that you have walked a very hard road of love and experienced a lot of ups and downs, right? Maybe breaking up is also a relief! Since you're separated, don't think about it so much, and you won't regret it if you pay, right?

She doesn't tell you so much, maybe she thinks you have too many reasons to break up, give her a little time, maybe the next time you meet again, you have already looked down on that relationship, she will tell you the reason for breaking up! Friends, don't get too much into the horns, you still have a lot to do in your life, cheer up and get on with your life! Live a happy life, and your next relationship will happen inadvertently!

Love will make a person languishing, and it will also make a person grow up, I hope you are the latter!

Simple two people together will not have a perfect ending, because you haven't even kissed, buddy, because girls are more sensitive than boys, you have held hands and hugged but never kissed her, she may think you are boring, and even kissing is not a bed matter! These girls will be empty and lonely! The longer it goes, the more you break up!

When I broke up with my girlfriend, I was very calm, I didn't feel sad at all, I just felt as if I had accomplished something very important and relaxed. But after a while, I started to feel sad, and it was very uncomfortable. Dreaming at night will dream of her.

You will too, I promise ......

There could be many reasons why you are calm after a breakup, and here are some of them:

1.If you've been thinking about it for a long time before you broke up, maybe you've made a decision and are feeling relieved and relaxed now.

2.Emotions have been released: You may have released all the emotions before the breakup process, including anger, sadness, and disappointment, and now feel calm.

3.Having accepted the facts: You may have accepted the fact of the breakup, no longer had any expectations, and therefore felt at peace.

4.Not loving deeply: If you don't love your ex deeply, or if your relationship doesn't weigh you a lot of emotional burden, it's also possible to calm down after a breakup.

5.Being experiencing "dissociation": Some people may experience a psychological reaction called "dissociation" after a breakup, which can lead to feelings of calm. Dissociation is an emotional detachment that makes you feel as if you don't have emotions.

Whatever caused you to feel calm, breaking up is a difficult process, whether you have an emotional reaction or not. If you feel negative emotions such as sadness or anxiety, don't hesitate to seek help and support, such as talking to a family member, friend or professional psychologist.

There are three possibilities for this:

1. This kind of result was expected and mentally prepared, so it is not surprising.

2. Self-control can bend brother Qingli is very strong, even if his heart is turbulent, he can pretend to be very calm.

3. There is no emotion, and it doesn't matter if you break up.

4. Hurt each other to the extreme, I have long been looking forward to separating from each other, and Chencha hopes to get out of the current state, and I have long been in the same bed and dreaming.

You should know exactly what the situation is.

It seems to be very calm, I go home after work to buy groceries, cook, nest on the sofa and watch TV, watch and fall asleep, and the next day I should go to work and live how I want. ”

They call me ruthless, they call me cold, they say I'm not human.

Actually, I'm just a backtrack, it should be half a month after the breakup, and my friends were playing on the roadside stalls, and it rained heavily without knowing what was going on, and I don't know why, I rushed into the rain like a neuropath, and walked aimlessly, my friends couldn't pull it back, and then the shoes were lost, and there was only one thought in my mind at that time, that is, there was no more her in my life in this life.

After explaining, they said, "Then you're still a human being."

I don't know if there are any friends like me, but I didn't have strong mood swings after the breakup, and I spent this moment like a very ordinary day, I think it's actually because, at that moment, I haven't accepted the fact that I broke up.

After all, we are people who have traveled a long way together, and how can we feel that the occurrence of this moment is not so real, so that our perception is limited.

There may also be a kind of reluctance to accept such facts, always hinting in your heart that this is not true, but if you really accept the facts, I think this kind of backlash will be even stronger.

I cried a few times, but fortunately I had my sister with me.

In fact, when you really adjust your mentality and focus on more important things, maybe this sadness will be reduced a lot, just afraid that the kind of person who has nothing to do will be full of things like breaking up, so the more you think about it, the more sad you are, the more sad you will think of him.

When a person is very calm and plain and tells you that he no longer loves you, it is really that he has no nostalgia for this relationship. You know, behind the calm, it should have been a long time of thinking. How deep a girl's attachment to a recognized relationship is, and how resolute she will be when she leaves.

So when your girlfriend is very calm and tells you to break up, you also need to know her determination.

(1) Be prepared for her to really leave you

can say it calmly, it is the result of figuring it out after a lot of struggle, so the girlfriend will say the breakup in such a state, indicating that she wants to end this relationship, be prepared that she is really going to leave you, and the result after careful consideration is often not easily changed, at this time respecting her decision, may be able to draw an unsatisfactory but not painful end to your relationship.

(2) Try to stay calm and rational and communicate effectively with her

If you still want to redeem and still love her, then please try to maintain a relatively calm state to communicate with her, if you lose your temper or even have a physical conflict with her because you can't accept it, then there is really no chance of redemption.

The decision to break up must be made for a reason, giving both parties a chance to let everyone know what the other party thinks, and maybe there is a glimmer of hope. Give both parties a little time to buffer, and then talk about it seriously after the initial feeling has passed, maybe there will be other gains, girls are still more emotional, if you still cherish her, naturally she can understand your feelings. ‍‍

The things between you seem trivial and trivial, and they don't cause a heated argument between you, but they are like pebbles that fall into your shoes, and they keep stumbling at her.

Slowly, slowly, her feet were aching and bruised.

She must have screamed a few times, but you didn't hear it, maybe you did, but you didn't take it seriously and ignored it.

Finally, one day, her feet were blurred with flesh and blood. She is in pain, she has no patience to shake these pebbles out with you, and the only thing she wants to do is to take off your shoe and throw it away.

There are three possibilities for this:

1. This kind of result was expected, so it is not surprising.

2. Strong self-control, even if the heart is fluctuating, you can pretend to be very calm 3. There is no emotion, and it doesn't matter if you break up.

It may not be loved, or it may be hurt to the extreme.

Dear landlord.

I've had your question before.

If two people are serious, they are really in love

It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

If both of them are just having fun

You may also be friends after the breakup

You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've loved each other!

It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

What can two people do if they become friends?

Look at the people you once loved

And now you don't love each other anymore

Now that we are friends, how should we get along with each other, how should we deal with it?

That might just remind you of your past.

It only hurts more

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

A breakup is a breakup, and you must never mention being friends.

If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

Just the most familiar strangers.

Let time fade everything that once was

Just let it be a rainbow in memory

I wish you happiness

Maybe I didn't let go, but I still want to be friends.

The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

Don't text him all the time.

Don't look for him all the time.

You may just want to talk to him.

You think that's normal, it's not demanding.

But maybe he didn't think so.

Remember, your thoughts don't represent his thoughts.

Are you really liking him without expecting anything in return?

Ask yourself.

Are you sure you don't need him to reciprocate anything?

Then why are you sad.

If you really want nothing.

How can you feel sad?

So don't think it's great that you love him so much.

Maybe she doesn't care how you pay for him.

Sometimes the love you give him can be a burden.

This burden will only make him want to get away from you even more.

Because he doesn't want to owe you.

Don't worry about him, do anything for him.

You think he can't do without you.

You feel like others can't be as perfect as you are.

But you have to be clear.

You're not the guy he wants.

No matter how perfect you are, you can't compete with others not doing it.

That position wasn't yours in the first place..

Why do you insist on squeezing in?

Looking forward to your adoption!

She was calm because she had expected this result a long time ago. Or maybe she had the intention of doing so.

Not necessarily, some people are not emotionally exposed.

Do you really want to redeem it? It seems that you have analyzed it yourself very clearly, and what to do is also very clear? Hehe.

Instead of asking others here, it is better to rely on yourself, as long as you truly love her, prove it with your actions! And it's egotism. Even if she doesn't do well, she will be moved. That's going to work. Even if you don't recover, you have worked your own, and you have a clear conscience!

Show her your determination and sincerity.

It's up to you, if you want to be happy, you have to change yourself, tolerate each other, only if you love with your heart, she will feel it. I wish you all happiness!

If you still like her, then chase her back.

However, scientific studies have shown that the probability of breaking up and getting back together is very high, but the probability of getting back together is very small.

It is possible for both parties to break up again for the same reason.

So, personal advice.

Now that you've broken up, why are you torturing yourself and starting over.

First, delete all the ** of the two of you, throw away all the gifts, find a place to cry, and tell yourself goodbye.

Second, go to exercise, go to fitness, and change yourself from the appearance first. Long legs, a good figure, and falling out of love can also make you look new.

Third, read more books, listen to **, and cultivate your own temperament. When you understand more and more, and your inner world becomes richer and richer, you will find that he is nothing at all.

Fourth, go on a trip and meet new people. Of course, if conditions permit, go and see a different world.

Fifth, when you get better and better, the friends around you, the friends around him, will think that he is blind and not with you.

Sixth, if you let go at this time, then a new relationship will naturally come. If you can't let it go, find a time to meet him, hoping to be good friends. When he sees you better, he will definitely agree.

Everyone deserves a better life.

Breaking up is just that you're not suitable for each other.

This happens after a breakup.

It's good if it's been a long time, who hasn't fallen out of love.

Was there an idea, or an impulse to find her?