College doesn t have a first love yet, failed?

How can you think that? Is this a failure? I'm puzzled!

I don't know what to say, just like I said upstairs, I graduated from college only about 23, and I think it's normal that I haven't been in a relationship, which proves that you are a person in charge, not a person who treats love as child's play.

Imagine you have a girlfriend in college, so what? Maybe you will be separated because of where you will go after graduation in the future, the distance from your hometown, and so on. Or after you enter the huge society, you find that your original choice is not so perfect, and you regret it; What you leave your girlfriend with is regret or regret.

And I don't think it's a good way to fall in love without a job, at least you can't be responsible for your love, right?

Actually, say"Failed", there is a little bit of pulling!

I don't believe that in your four years of college, there is not a girl you like? It's just that you don't have the courage to pursue it, as you said yourself, you don't have enough self-confidence, and you may feel that you can't give happiness to others! So you can only use it"Fate"paralyze yourself under the guise of paralysis!

To say"Not failing"There is also a reason, college, but the best time to study in life, if you miss it, you can't find it back! Falling in love can be said to be one"Consumption", feelings, learning, money, time, you have to deal with them all to be called a cow! It depends on your situation!

So, you don't have to worry about it! It doesn't matter if you haven't talked about it, as long as you feel that you are worthy of the past few years!

Everything has to be looked at"Take a step back and open the sky"Yes!

This is not called failure, you also said, there must be fate! It's just that your fate hasn't arrived yet. Do not be discouraged, it is yours, it must be yours, and what is not yours must not be yours.

Be patient, maybe there is one on your other side who is waiting for your reunion like you!

Good luck!

Of course you don't fail, it's perfect to go with the flow, and if you go to find a girl you don't feel for a failure, will you be happy?

I haven't talked about it either, and it's fine

When you have a job in the future, you have a job, you have to go, and you have any fate

If you don't fail, love is hard to come by.

When studying, you should focus on your studies, the world is so big, fate appears in your life at any time, if you succeed in your studies, you are still worried about not having a first love?..

Actually, how to say it, I'm also a person like you, I haven't talked about it, sometimes I feel very lonely and lonely, but think about it, if love is not something else, I don't need to give up what I want in my heart to move the West, this can be regarded as an excuse for my loneliness and loneliness.

If you can't find a job, it's called failure, and let's face it, you're about to graduate.

Who said that. Love is like a rose falling from the sky, some people have honey luck, some people miss it for life, as for your reason, I guess you are looking at love too high, and your heart is too high.

What a failure! Just like that, I failed, wouldn't I be even more successful when I was single in that life.

Who said it was called failure. Actually, it's nothing.

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Otherwise, that wouldn't be meaningful.

This question may be different from one person to another, and everyone will have their own feelings, but I think there are many similarities to be found.

1.Lack of experience: First love usually occurs at a younger age, lacking mature emotional processing skills and experience, and it is easy to misunderstand and contradict, and eventually let the hookup lead to a breakup.

2.Social pressure: In some traditional cultural and social environments, first love is regarded as an unacceptable behavior, and family and social pressures may affect the emotional communication and relationship between lovers, which in turn can lead to a breakup.

3.Lack of mutual understanding: Lovers in their first love often lack a deep understanding of each other and find it difficult to meet each other's needs and expectations, leading to emotional alienation and conflict.

4.Personality incompatibility: Lovers of first love may have large differences in personality, values, lifestyle, etc., resulting in poor getting along and eventually breaking up.

There is a consensus that most people have their first love experience in high school. The ending of the first love also ended in failure. One is that the first love is too young to make the right choice, the second is that the first love focuses on feelings, which leads to the fact that the two parties in the relationship are not suitable in terms of realistic conditions, and the third is because as the individual grows older, the individual's thoughts will change, and eventually have an impact on the relationship.

First, although the first love is beautiful, because the first love is too young, it is easy to break up because of improper choices. When I first fell in love, I was not very old. People in this age group don't really grow up in every way, so it's easy to have problems with specific choices.

When it comes to love, there will be a first love that is very beautiful, but it may lead to a breakup for one reason or another. This is one of the reasons why many first loves end up in a breakup.

Second, the first love focuses on feelings, but it may break up because the reality conditions are not suitable. Love requires not only feelings, but also realistic conditions. If two people in a relationship do not match in terms of personal conditions, or if their lives are affected by poor financial conditions, then even if a first love seems extremely beautiful, it will end in a breakup.

For first love, only focusing on feelings and not paying attention to the difference between reality and failure are the real reasons for the breakup.

Thirdly, as you get older, your thoughts change, which can have an impact on your relationship. As one gets older, one's thoughts change at different times. Although this situation is very normal in the process of growing up, it can have a very big impact on love.

It is conceivable that as you grow older after falling in love, your thoughts may be very different from the beginning of your relationship, and your attitude towards your first love will change, which may eventually lead to a breakup, which is an important reason why many first loves end in a breakup.

Love always fails, many of them are caused by some psychological reasons, which will make the other party feel unhappy when they get along with themselves, so they will refuse to be with themselves, for example, some people are very selfish, acting or speaking are self-oriented, and at the same time, they also require their partners to consider taking care of their own emotions, which will make the partner tired in this relationship, and the omission will make the relationship fail. There are also some people who have high standards for themselves, and the requirements for the opposite sex are also high, and they will want to pursue perfection, in fact, this will narrow the scope and make the other party feel pressure, if it is a normal opposite sex, it will be difficult to let the relationship go on. At the same time, there is a more common clarity that there is no empathy, empathy is actually very important in the relationship, there is empathy to make the other party understand and love, if there is no empathy, the relationship will not last long.