It s a sophomore, isn t it normal to have no first love?

This is normal.

Some people say they don't feel anything about girls (or boys) so far. Some people even force themselves to try to like someone. But it is often because of this that they start their first love hastily, and this kind of love often causes harm to both parties.

We've been looking for whose ribs we're doing, and maybe we're all asking about my ribs. I'm sure you'll find your ribs one day!

It's nothing, I haven't talked about first love, it's not necessarily that there are no girls who don't like you, maybe there is a girl who has a crush on you now, you don't know, and if it's gold, he will shine.

No, it's normal, so to speak, because I haven't met someone I like, or because my vision is too high.

You have to see a psychiatrist Otherwise, you will develop into homosexuality and solve your psychological problems, and your first love will come!!

It's normal! Hehe.

True love is hard to find, I believe you will definitely be able to find your destined person!

People have different experiences, and there must be differences in time!

Brother, work hard!

It's not time yet, you yourself said that maybe you're not very mature, so when you're a little mature, maybe your love will come back.

It's normal, I'm in my second year of study, and I haven't had my first love yet

There is no hurry

College love, most people are joking, if you want to talk, wait until you graduate to talk about a vigorous one, and then get married, now focus on your studies! Actually, I'm pretty much the same, but I don't have feelings for boys.

It's normal, my eldest brother has just graduated from college but hasn't looked for a GF yet, and now he's dedicated to his career.

It's normal, I didn't plan to get married.

Don't worry, it's just that you haven't encountered it yet.

I've been out of school for two years now. My colleagues also say I'm cute. I started my first love after I graduated. If you're looking for someone's first love, you can't just pick it up on the street, right?

Don't worry, I haven't been in a relationship in two years since I graduated.

I envy you so much, you're so clean!! In terms of feelings, you are very clean!!

Haha, that can show that he is a real man and has no feelings for women.

Gentlemen, pure.

Maybe you haven't met someone you like.

I only have one sentence: life is a long road, and there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away!

There are many reasons why first love ends up breaking up, and here are some of the common ones:

1.Inexperienced: First love usually occurs when people are young, and many people do not have much experience emotionally and do not know how to deal with relationship problems, and may make some mistakes or mishandle problems, which can lead to breakups.

2.Immature personality: Some people are not fully developed and mature when they are young, and may not be sensitive to their own feelings and the feelings of others, and do not have a clear understanding and understanding of love, leading to disagreements or misunderstandings when dealing with relationship problems.

3.Different values: People in first love often have not fully formed their own values, and may not be very clear about their life goals, leading to disagreements and contradictions when dealing with relationship issues, which eventually leads to breakups.

4.Distance problem: People may still be in the stage of learning to build a filial piety school at the time of first love, and many people have to face different problems with further education and employment, and may not be able to be together due to geographical distance, which will lead to a breakup.

5.Emotional instability: People at the time of first love may not have fully grasped their emotional state and can easily get carried away by love, leading to some impulsive decisions that eventually lead to a breakup.

In addition, some people believe that the reason for the breakup of first love is also related to the emotional fluctuations of adolescence, when people are in a period of physical and psychological change, and their emotions are easily influenced and fluctuated by the outside world, so they are prone to problems such as breakups. In addition, some people may choose to break up because they have met a partner who is more suitable for them, or they may not be able to continue the relationship because of life, work, etc.

It's important to point out that a breakup isn't necessarily a bad thing. While a first love breakup can be painful and frustrating, in some cases, it can also be a form of growth and relief. Sometimes, a breakup can also give people a chance to start over, get to know themselves and others better, and find a partner and lifestyle that is more suitable for them.

First love is fragile in the eyes of most people, because it is the first time to understand and like a person, and the feeling of heartbeat makes you feel particularly good, but if you want this heartbeat to be maintained, it is affected by many factors, so the first love talks about the last very little, most of them are separated in the process of maintaining this heartbeat for one reason or another, and many of the people who stick to the end are couples who fit from appearance to three views and can overcome the influence of other factors.

True love. Because I myself am a person who has not broken up with my first love for almost nine years, and I have also seen many couples around me who have talked about marriage from their first love, from my love feelings and their experience, I think there are probably three reasons for the first love to finally break up:

1. Just being attracted by the other person's appearance.

Many men and women who are in love for the first time look at each other's appearance, he is so handsome, she is so beautiful is the reason why two people fall in love, because of this reason, couples who are in love are easily attracted to other people of the opposite sex who are good-looking, and because of each other's appearance, it will be difficult for couples to stand each other after they are together. Shatter with one blow.

It starts with the look. There is too much difference between the second and third views.

Many couples don't feel it when they first fall in love, and after a long time, they find that each other has various problems that make them unbearable, such as the consumption concept of money is very different, some spend money lavishly, some spend money to pick and search, some have different attitudes towards life, some like to get by, and some have high requirements for their own lives, which leads to couples quarreling all day long because of these little things, and the idea of breaking up after a long time comes out. Therefore, it is easy to stick to the first love, and it is because it is too difficult to find someone who is in line with their three views at the beginning, and many people find the right person after many times of love.

The three views do not agree. 3. The time and place are wrong.

Finally, the first love object not only meets their own aesthetics in appearance, but also matches their own aesthetics in three views, often many of them break up because in the process of falling in love, because the time and place of love are not right, such as a friend of mine in college, and her boyfriend talked in college for more than three years, and finally wanted to go back to his hometown because he graduated and looked for a job, but his hometown was not in the same place, and finally ended in a breakup.

Because first love is basically emotionally immature, the vast majority of people have broken up.

Most of the first loves are very young, because most of them are just beginning to fall in love, so their thoughts are not mature enough at all.

In fact, this is also a very normal thing, after all, everyone is ignorant in their teenage years, and they don't know what real love is. In fact, this kind of emotion is like having a good impression of a person, and envy is not really loving someone at all. When you grow up and mature, such a first love loses its meaning, and there is no need to go on.

There are indeed a lot of people around us, and their first love was unsuccessful, of course, there are very few people who persever, and Ju Lichang is also very happy in the end. But because of these very few people, we can't think that first love will not fail, because after all, this is only a very rare phenomenon and cannot represent the majority of people.

First love is undoubtedly very beautiful, which everyone agrees with very much, because there are no impurities in this relationship, and I don't think about the future and the future, just grasp the present, which is the most comfortable state.

It's just that there is a saying in China that people have no long-term worries, and they must have near-term worries. If the first love is only to this extent, Tong Pai really can't go on for a long time, and it can only maintain the beauty of the moment.

Everyone cherishes their first love especially and treats it as a good memory, which is completely correct. Because in the days to come, our love will be mixed with a lot of things, we will think of material, we will think of family, we will think of children, we will think of education and so on. Such emotions can be said to be incompatible with first love.

In short, although the first love is young and immature, and the vast majority of people break up because of this, the good memories brought by the first love can be cherished for a lifetime.