As the old saying goes, If you want to smoke and eat, your body will be cheap , what is the truth i

The literal meaning of this proverb is very simple, it refers to those who are not welcome, Even if you don't invite you to see the kind that you don't consciously have, when you see a cigarette next to you, you can smoke it when you touch it, as if it were your own, in fact, your relationship is not so tacit. It is very unpleasant to take eating and drinking as a matter of course, and others are not good at speaking out.

In the past, some people in the countryside were poorer, poor and afraid, rubbing other people's cigarettes and meals are not rare, a little rich people are also very good at calculating their lives, always calculating, breaking their fingers to live, because they are poor, they are also borrowed by the east and west families, as for what others say, they can only add a face with a thick skin, no way, all for survival. However, there are also some people who have little culture and are really shameless, deliberately taking advantage of others, and their quality is poor.

In our rural area, this kind of unpopular people are found in every village, and we have seen a few of them to a greater or lesser extent, just happened to encounter rural people who speak badly, this kind of person often becomes a negative topic of character, many people will educate future generations with a similar image, do not learn from his hated image and behavior. Therefore, if you want to smoke and eat, your people must be cheap, mainly referring to those who are idle and take other people's things for their own use, such a type of people belong to the lowly and not favored negative teaching materials.

Now many public places do not allow smoking, young people smoke less, there are such people, but there are few, because he is not short of food and clothing, everything at home, especially now post-00 young people, rarely for a cigarette, a meal, and let others look down on them, and even think that dignity is more important than anything else, and now there are more literate people, and they are more civilized. Although some people are stingy, they don't take advantage of others casually, and they don't let others be scolded in front of them. Only when people are rich and don't care about these things can they be more dignified.

Although rural people do not pay so much attention to their lifestyle, they are still more particular about etiquette.

Because in the eyes of rural people, such people are those who have no color.

Cigarettes and rice are generally given by the host's family, and it is too cheap to take the initiative to ask for it.

Many people will educate future generations with a similar image and not learn from his hated image and behavior.

If you want to smoke and eat, your people will be cheap, mainly referring to those who are idle and take other people's things for their own use.

These are actions and behaviors that only those of the poor do.

I can only add a face with a cheeky face, there is no way, it is all for survival.

Because such people are generally spineless.

Such a thing that normal people do not disdain.

As the old saying in the countryside goes, if you want to smoke and eat, your people will be cheap, this sentence is aimed at a bad phenomenon in rural areas, and many people are not good at speaking openly in front of their hometowns, and can only be passed on in private. So what does this mean? Let's share it with you:

If you want to smoke and eat, you will be cheap, and there are two meanings to ask for cigarettes here, one is that it refers to the time of marriage, some people think that today is a happy day, knowing that you can't be angry, they will be cheeky and ask you for cigarettes.

For example, six or seven years ago, one of my relatives got married, and I was one of the brides who picked up the bride, and I was about to arrive in their village. I met a few uncles and aunts who stopped the car and asked for cigarettes, and there was nothing about this matter, but those uncles and aunts had a big appetite, and they were a bit of a robbery while the fire was burning.

They made it clear when they opened their mouths, they want two packs of cigarettes per person today, and cigarettes below 20 should not be taken out conspicuously, they don't smoke such low-grade cigarettes. This situation has exceeded our expectations, we brought a few good cigarettes, but that was to the bride's house, and the other cigarettes only brought a few peonies for 12 yuan a pack.

Their appetite is so great, we got out of the car to discuss, they just didn't let go, and they were about to get to the bridal village, who knows if there are any of her seven mothers-in-law and eight aunts among those people, so they can only go to the commissary next to them and buy a few jade streams to satisfy these unaffordable lords. Talking about this afterwards, everyone agreed that these people are really too greedy, and some are cheap, and generally we give two cigarettes to a meaning, at most 10 yuan for a pack.

On the other hand, it means that they smoke cigarettes, but they don't bring cigarettes with them. Every time they go to play with someone else, they wait for someone else to smoke and don't do it themselves. It's easier to understand the rice, generally this kind of person is stuck in time, go to other people's houses to play, if others ask him if he has eaten, he will fall into his set.

In the early 90s, there was indeed a need for tobacco and rice in the countryside. At that time, there was one in our village, and every time he went out, he would bring a few cigarettes, and then he was always very enthusiastic, and he was the first to take out the cigarettes and distribute them to everyone. I didn't send a hand index, so I pretended to be embarrassed and said, I'm sorry that the cigarette is gone.

At first, everyone didn't know who he was, and they didn't care about saying that it was okay, and they would smoke me later.

After a long time, everyone knows that this guy is deliberate, he just wants someone to hand him cigarettes. Later, when he did this again, others didn't take it, and they all said that they smoked their own, even if they smoked, they also gave it to the good, and they didn't give it to him. Later, everyone's income increased, and he stopped doing this kind of thing.

As for rice, we didn't have it at that time, maybe it was the end of the 80s, and many families were not short of food, and no one did it anymore.

To sum up, if you want to smoke and eat, your people will be cheap, and what we are talking about here is those who love to take advantage. They don't want to pay themselves, they always want to take advantage of others, and this kind of person generally thinks that he is quite "cheap".

Now that life is good, this kind of person should be extinct, right? However, now it has become that some people at the party smoke the whole table, that is, they "forget" to send it to you.

This sentence is actually very reasonable, because too much to rub cigarettes, rubbing rice is actually in the eyes of others such people are very tasteless, is not able to in-depth communication, first of all, "rubbing cigarettes", now there are more and more people smoking, and smoking is also divided into many different levels, it can be said that ** is also different, and for those who believe in smoking, they know,Generally, smokers have a habit of a few people smoking together, some people may find someone to ask for a cigarette if they don't bring a cigarette, once or twice it is still normal, may forget to bring, and their own smoking addiction is committed again, these are understandable, but if there are always so many people have been looking for someone to smoke,This is often frowned upon.

And everyone's taste is different, some people like to smoke expensive cigarettes, but if they are seen by those who don't have a taste, they will often be cheeky and ask for it, and if you don't give it, they will scold you for being stingyBut if you give it, then it is likely to rely on you, for this kind of behavior is often despised, because if you want someone to take the initiative to give you a cigarette, you can't take it is one thing, but if you keep looking for someone to ask for it, you will end up being disliked.

Compared with "rubbing cigarettes", there are basically a lot of people who rub rice, because there are a lot of people, basically they are not taking advantage of the cheap, I have seen before at the annual meeting, someone brought a few people in his family together, just to rub the dessert at the annual meeting,Some people can say that in order to rub rice, even the neighbors they just met dare to rub rice, and they go every day, and even some words are to save some money, and relatives and friends around them can be said not to be left behind, in fact, for people who are rubbed to eat, it doesn't matter if they have one or two meals occasionally, just enough to promote the feelings between each other, but if the times are too frequent, then it is often to stay away.

In life, these people who rub smoke and eat can be said to be a lot of people, and for you, if the relationship is ordinary, then you should say that you still have to say, and you won't get along with each other, but if you want to maintain a relationship with this, then you can only say to yourself that it is a blessing to suffer a lossIn fact, for such a phenomenon, if it is really too frequent, we still have to have the courage to say it, because such people generally have a bad character, and we should stay away or choose to stay away, so as not to affect our mood.

It makes sense, this is a nosy person, a person who likes to rub food, a person who is greedy for small profits, a person with quality or a little money, will not ask for things.

It makes sense that a smoker must never leave his cigarette, and he will definitely bring a cigarette when he goes out, but he will ask others for cigarettes; often rub food but don't take the initiative to pay. Both of these people are more picky and thick-skinned.

It makes sense, take the initiative to ask others to smoke and eat other people's food, this is a manifestation of love to take advantage, and do not understand the truth of courtesy, this kind of behavior is very picky and disgusting.

Rural sayings are a great treasure trove left by ancestors to future generations, farmers can refer to the sayings handed down by the older generation in the countryside when they are confused, but it is not that these old sayings are all right, because with the development of the times, many sayings have been unable to adapt to this society, but some are still worth learning, have you heard of the following two sayings? What do these sayings mean? Does that make sense?

If you want to smoke and eat, your people will be cheap.

The meaning of this proverb is very simple, farmers look down on the kind of people who ask for cigarettes from others, and those who go to other people's houses to eat, why? For example, today I will send it to you, and you will send it to me when you see me another day, which has become a tacit default rule among farmers, once you meet the kind of people who only know how to ask others for cigarettes, and never give them to others, this is the kind of person who picks the door, does not know how to empathize, and does not know how to communicate with courtesy, so the farmers are very disgusted.

Farmers go to the door, when it is time to eat, the host will invite the guests to stay in their own house to eat, but under normal circumstances, the guests will not stay, there is also a custom about the farmers, that is, when the restaurant does not go to other people's houses, or leave when the meal is about to arrive. And there are some people who don't understand the customs of the countryside and don't leave when they get to the meal, which makes the host's family more embarrassed, because if you leave the guests, the food cooked at home is not enough, and if you don't stay, it is impossible to drive the guests away, and you are in a dilemma. Therefore, the peasants have no good impression of the people who "rub rice".

Men do not worship the moon, and women do not sacrifice to the stove.

The meaning of this saying is that men do not worship the moon, women do not worship the god of the hearth, why did the ancient peasants still have this kind of requirement? The ancients paid attention to feudal etiquette, worshipping the moon on August 15, and during Chinese New Year's Eve, the god of the moon would be sacrificed to the god Vesta, the ancients believed that the moon god was the place where the fairy Chang'e lived, the moon was yin, and the sun was yang, so only women could worship the moon but men could not. In addition, the ancients also believed that the moon god was Chang'e, a beautiful woman, and if a man worshipped, it was a manifestation of bad intentions, so men could not worship the moon.

Why can't a woman sacrifice to the god of the hearth? Folklore, the god of the stove is the male god incarnated by mythological figures such as Emperor Yan or Zhu Rong, and the ancient peasants paid attention to the difference between men and women, and men and women did not kiss each other, so it was also against feudal etiquette for women to worship him.

So have you heard these two sayings? Do you think there is any truth to these sayings? Does it seem to be applicable now?

Yes. This kind of thing is something that most people can buy, and they have enough food and clothing to do it themselves, so why bother asking for it.

It makes sense that most of the people with these three habits are lazy, selfish and hypocritical, and if such people have no reliability in life, no one will invite them to work together, and eventually end up in poverty.

As the rural saying goes, "If you want to smoke and eat, your people will be cheap", I think it is very reasonable, which also shows that this person's character is very bad, and he belongs to a kind of lazy person and so on.

Say no outright and don't feel embarrassed. This kind of person is always selfish, he always puts his own interests first, and with the first time he will want a second time, so you directly refuse and don't give him any chance.

A good way to do this is not to socialize with them too much. After a long time, they will naturally feel rusty, and then they will not continue.

Gradually stay away, see less together, let him gradually fade out of his circle, such a selfish person must stay away as soon as possible.

For this kind of person, stay away, don't criticize him too much, as long as you don't have more contact with him, he will understand that you don't like him, and he won't take the initiative to come to the door.

As the saying goes: "If you want to smoke or eat, your people will be cheap"? Very common in life.