My boyfriend is still struggling with the girl who likes him, what should I do? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-05-22
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think if your boyfriend really loves you, he will keep his distance from her, it's okay to be friends, but what you say always, this frequency must be quite high, he really wants this female friend to be good, he should keep his distance from her, and he shouldn't give the other party a chance to like him for a few years, so hang her like this. How can she find her other half in this way? Why don't you want to lose this friend, don't want to hurt, these are all selfish and self-righteous statements of men.

    You don't think he's going to betray you, and it's true that he won't. However, if you still have confidence in some situations (in TV dramas and movies), I believe that he may not be able to figure it out himself, but he thinks he won't do it before it happens, and he swears before it happens. As for you, I think your attitude can only be clear to him.

    Tolerance is what it should be, and so should I believe in understanding. But these words are mutual, when the man doesn't understand that you don't think about you, your blind tolerance will only hurt yourself and make yourself sad, and it will also make your situation very embarrassing. And in some cases, such as texting, when you show a displeased face when you are psychologically uncomfortable, I believe your boyfriend will think that you are so unreasonable and so cautious.

    I think that caring is caring that there is no need to be strong, two people must be honest with each other together, and what you need is communication. You have to tell him how you feel about your psyche and leave it to him. And for that woman, if it was me, I would tell her directly, it's me who is with him now, if you like him, then please come and grab it, don't play ambiguous with him with your back to you.

    Everyone is a woman and should understand each other's feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you should let your boyfriend be more decisive, don't you want to hurt her, can you bear to hurt you? A guy shouldn't make his girlfriend feel insecure!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can talk to a boy too. And let him know. If he has an opinion, you say that you taught me to do it. Because you think it's nothing. Don't give in to him. The result of accommodation is to be dumped.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is a normal psychology and understandable, you can tell your boyfriend how you feel and ask them to reduce the number of times they come and go. I also have a good friend of the opposite sex, and when I had a girlfriend, she took the initiative to cut back on contact, and we are still good friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You and your boyfriend introduce the boyfriend to the girl together, and you don't succeed in introducing you a few times at a time. Be sure to go with your boyfriend when you make the introduction. Over time, that girl will naturally retreat, and your boyfriend will not be able to continue to have an affair.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Does that girl know he has a girlfriend? Let your boyfriend tell her about your existence.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, our relationship problems are similar. Since you love him, you have to tolerate him, believe him, understand him, his heart is in your place Actually, your situation is much better than mine, the person I like he always can't let go of his ex-girlfriend in his heart, but he won't be with his ex-girlfriend if he gets along with me, he and his ex-girlfriend are still friends, and they had dinner together two days ago, in fact, to be honest, I'm also quite uncomfortable, but since my heart is with you, what else can you do, love him and tolerate her, isn't it?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If a boy has a girlfriend, but he still likes another girl, this boy may simply want to step on a few boats, obviously a scumbag eating a bowl and looking at the pot.

    If he doesn't like his girlfriend anymore, he should talk to his girlfriend Yechen as soon as possible, and only after ending this Songlian Zen relationship can he like other girls, otherwise this call Wang is very unfair to both girls.

    There is also a saying that this man doesn't care about love at all, he just plays casually, and his current girlfriend may not have decided to part with him, but when he sees other girls, he can't control some thoughts in his heart, which is simply an extremely scumbag approach, and there is also a situation that this boy may not be sure that he can win him against another girl he likes, so for the time being, he must stabilize his girlfriend at home, and like other women, Treat this person in the family as a spare tire, that's all, so you must stay away from him when you meet such a person, if it's just right, you want to like another girl, and you don't love your current girlfriend, then please end this relationship completely and then like someone else.

    I think that whether it is a boy or a girl, you really have to be responsible for your relationship.

    There is also this kind of liking to see what the situation is, for example, many boys only see a lot of beautiful women on the street may look at a few more glances and will like it very much, but this is limited to appreciating and liking, just like when we go to a restaurant to eat, will we feel that a dish on other people's table looks really delicious, we should remember that I think the dishes on other people's tables are delicious, but it is limited to only looking, if you want to eat, then buy it yourself, don't stretch chopsticks.

    In fact, the psychology of eating is very similar to the hearts of those who have a girlfriend and like another girl, but it is really not easy for two people to get along, since they are together, they should cherish it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Usually speaking, Ran Hong, eating in the bowl, looking at the pot, this kind of man we all call him a scumbag, for this kind of boyfriend, I can only say that if you can break up, break up as soon as possible, otherwise you will be hurt sooner or later.

    Although it is said that it is better to demolish ten temples than destroy a marriage, the leather book is for some people, their attitude towards feelings is not worthy of love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's what she said, how do you know your girlfriend likes another guy? Maybe the child sees that you don't care about her, and deliberately allows you to be angry, and the woman's careful thinking. If it is confirmed, there is nothing else, if it can be recovered, it will be recovered, and if it cannot be recovered, it will be kicked, if the man's statement is made, then you will fight with him, and if you fight, you can't get it back, kick it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Temptation, if true, break up decisively!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She has a boyfriend, he's with you a lot, and you really like him??? Do you like that woman or that girl's boyfriend?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's your own is your own, it's not your own, I think you can wait, because if you like him all the time, then he will see the good in you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better to wait for others to get a thorough share, and now there is a suspicion of meddling in the mistress.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It feels like I'm not doing good ...

    Don't worry, just care about him silently, really, it's that simple, men like gentle, considerate girls. What's more, there is still a rift in his relationship now.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's wait until people actually break up, right? Otherwise, if people reconcile, aren't you taking advantage of others' danger? That man and you can't even be friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think if he was interested in you, I guess I would have soaked you a long time ago, and I guess even if there is no such woman, you won't have a show

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's you who can't run away, and it's not bad to be a confidant.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Win love!

    Even if you like it, you'll have to wait until they get it done!

    Don't let that man know! It's not good for you!

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