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In fact, this is your own problem, because you have no confidence in yourself, your words have no sense of existence and no meaning of existence, what you talk about is different from what they talk about, so you can't always interject, at this time you should first think about what they are talking about, in which direction they are going to talk or you can change their topic, your voice is a little louder and a little harder, and they can accept it.

You have to learn to listen, listen to other people's opinions will let you integrate into this context, and slowly you will find the state, and you can talk and laugh like them, and I think there is nothing wrong with being quiet, there are people to talk to in this world, and you need people to listen.

In fact, you don't need to be in a group of people to want to make yourself prosperous, because the experiment shows that people with high emotional intelligence generally don't show themselves in their lives, they generally joke with most people, and then make a summary.

Maybe your own knowledge or thinking is not very flexible, if you discuss the central idea of an article, you should be able to participate, this is not difficult, divergent thinking, usually read more books or TV shows or the like, pick what you are interested in, so that others can talk when they talk.

In fact, I think that in a group of people chatting, it is better to listen to each other more than to talk more, and listening more can understand each other better, learn more things, and learn more things. And if you can't plug in, if you want to plug in, you can also raise your voice and make your tone louder, so that you can attract more people to listen to you.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with listening, it just represents everyone's character, some people like to talk non-stop, so they often can't interject, since they can't interject, why don't you listen to what they say. My friend often talks about being with him all the time, and I'm quieter, I like to listen, and I get along well with everything he says.

Sometimes it's good to be a listener, you don't have to talk to others to make you feel presence.

If you really want to plug in, don't rush into it just yet. Listen to what others are saying, understand what they are saying, think clearly about what you want to say, and choose a suitable time to speak.

There's nothing in your stomach, can you blame someone for not letting you speak?

In fact, I have also experienced such a situation, I remember working in a logistics company a few years ago, and went to the headquarters to participate in the manager selection.

When I went, I was full of confidence, but when I had a discussion, I really couldn't insert a word, and I always felt that other people's reactions were much faster than mine, and when I thought of a certain point to organize the language and wanted to speak, this part of the content was already spoken.

The more I feel like this, the more I want to say something, but the more I do this, the more I can't think of something meaningful to say. In the end, I was defeated, and I was convinced.

You are also like this, the root cause of this kind of thing is that your own ability is not enough, your knowledge reserve and reaction ability are not up to it, and it is normal to not be able to answer. If you want to change this situation, read more books and newspapers, and physical exercise is indispensable.

Being able to interject means that you have an understanding of what they are discussing, so that you can express your own opinions, otherwise you will be confused about the topics that others say, and you have never heard of them, and you will talk about what to interject.

Therefore, I still have to expand my knowledge, and if I understand more, I will naturally be able to interject.

That's the circle, isn't it?

None of them were talking about what they were interested in.

It would be nice to change the circle of friends.

It doesn't matter if you can't speak, isn't it fun to just sit next to them and listen to them?

Talk to people to build your skills.

When you are together, you can just follow their topic, say whatever you want, and don't worry too much.

Hello, you can't always interject in a crowd of more than three people, which means that you lack communication with them and have less common language. You can try to learn a little bit more and learn more about new things, including the latest current news. Only by enriching your knowledge and improving your realm, so that when you chat, you can find common topics.

You can pick up the conversation yourself, instead of feeling like a novice. Sitting silently next to him, listening to them express their opinions and talk loudly.

Then I can only say that they are not suitable to be your friends, real friends will not care about you, I said ugly, for them, you are dispensable, and for you, maybe you can't think of who else you can play with except them, but if you are really tired, give up early, and you will have more opportunities to contact people who care about you. Don't be uncomfortable, it's not worth it for them.

The circle is different, you don't have to be hard-knit, meet more new people, expand your circle, the university is a place where you can enrich and improve yourself enough, you should spend more time and energy on yourself.

In the case of one person who can't interject, after all, it is impossible for three people to get every point, and at this time it is time to sacrifice the method of one of my girlfriends, she will hold the arm of the party who can't interject and hold the hand, so that the three of them remain parallel. I think it's a good way to do it, so I don't feel abandoned, and I'm used to treating other people in this way.

When I didn't talk to them because of this, they didn't pay attention to me, because if you didn't speak, we wouldn't dare talk to you. It's good, it's good. One person is taboo, two people are companions, and three people are unhappy. I'd rather be alone than alone.

That's the kind of person I am. Automatically treat them as a whole.,It's fine.,Don't plug it in when it's obvious that you can't plug it in.,I'm a person with a strong sense of autonomy.。 It's okay to find someone else.

Because the movie of three people can never have my name. There will always be a distinction between who is better and who is better, two people talking and the third can't get in, etc., and there is always a situation where one person is forced to be single.

I can't speak, and if they're embarrassed when the two of them don't have a topic to talk about, I'm not embarrassed.

Then you have to try to blend in with them, don't be afraid of jokes, and be enthusiastic about them, and they will be enthusiastic about you. If you decide that they are the right people, then it is incumbent on you to be nice to them, and they will perceive them, and they will treat you as you do to them. Try to find common topics with them, don't lock yourself up, open your heart, integrate into it, understand and respect them, but also understand that you are different from them, don't think that you are a lonely one, if you think like this for a long time, it is true.

So work hard, be yourself, and don't force yourself!

Hope my advice can help you.

It's not that you're unsociable, it's that you haven't met like-minded friends yet, and you don't need to change anything for others, unless they're friends you care about.

You can enrich yourself more and learn more knowledge.

In fact, he interjected at the right time to pause and wait for his own opinion.

Me too, I don't know what to say, I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing.

Communication requires a common language, a common topic, and you have to know how to find a topic.

I have the same question as you, and it's actually a good idea to listen carefully when people are talking, and it's a great opportunity to learn.

First of all, you are not socially fit in because you are not confident, in fact, no one will care about your appearance, and the beauty and ugliness of a person is not because of appearance, as long as you are kind-hearted, some people will think it is beautiful. Maybe you will feel unrealistic when I say this, or you won't have a backache when you stand and talk, but have you found that there are no ugly women, who looks good when they dress up, first of all, you have to have confidence in yourself, you must first affirm yourself, and others will respect you. Having faith in yourself is the most important thing.

In addition, you said that you don't dare to speak if there are many people, right, this is because you care too much about whether you fit in or not, first of all, you must make yourself bolder, so that slowly when you don't care about whether you fit in or not, you will behave very well. Don't care if you send a word, believe in yourself The most important thing for a person is to believe in yourself.

You're just too self-conscious

Believe it, although appearance can determine part of the interpersonal relationship, but this is not the most important.

within. Don't be afraid of others.

Look at you, when others look at you, you will boldly look back, say it when you say it, as long as you can let others know what you mean, it is good, speaking is not the process of exchanging ideas. Don't rely on just one person, you have to blend in with other people's conversations. What others say, you can take your time, first keep up with your thoughts, and then put your thoughts out, and after a long time, it's fine.

To be confident and to fit in with everyone's community, you have to find a common language!

First of all, you must learn not to take others seriously.

Self, of course, this is relative, don't be afraid to communicate with people, don't always be self-centered, wait for others to come to you, take the initiative, speak with skill, have highlights, skills, say something novel, funny, attractive to others, don't say some clichés, skills, talk with suspense, but can't be a eunuch It's almost the same, it's okay to communicate more, communicate more with strangers.

To put it bluntly, I don't have confidence. I can also laugh loudly with my friends and brothers, but I can't even say hello to strangers quietly. In my brother's words, everything will change when you go into society (you have to change sooner or later in order to survive).

You should be considered inferior! I'm a man, and I always think that ugly women are better at talking! Because he can be buddies, women's tone is stricter than that of men now! I'd love to talk to women!

You should be more introverted, I think chatting with others should be a very natural thing, how can there be such a thing as "deliberately trying to blend in"?

Don't try to blend in, that will backfire. First of all, learn to be "obedient" and then find their common topic. Then grab a topic that interests them.

Forehead ......Actually, I used to be like this... I'm a big change from what I used to be. At first, I also thought I didn't fit in ......The passage of time was ultimately the ...... I changedIn fact, people will be able to integrate into society.

Communicate with friends who like you ......I'm 16 ...... now

Seriously. Be thick-skinned. Of course, it is appropriate. Share some interesting things about yourself with everyone. People will think you're interesting, and they'll slowly blend in.

Learn to lead the conversation to what you are good at, listening is right, but always listening will become less and less assertive.

The easiest way: you become an expert in a certain area, and people will naturally pick you up! Simple, right