Gong Li used shameless to describe Zhang Yimou, how hurtful is irresponsible love?

As the saying goes, how much you love, how deep your hatred will be after separation. Zhang Yimou and Gong Li are like this. <>

Back then, we believed that Zhang Yimou loved Gong Li, of course Gong Li also really loved Zhang Yimou, a pair of talented men and women, a match made in heaven, you can see from their previous photos how much they love. Moreover, I can't help but sigh, Lao Mouzi is really blessed, Gong Li's figure is really good.

The two of them have known each other since "Red Sorghum", and the love story between them is not complicated, Zhang Yimou chose Gong Li in order to choose the female number one in "Red Sorghum". The heroine in Mo Yan** is rich breasts and buttocks, and the first candidate was originally Shi Ke, but the arrangement of fate was destined to make them meet, and Gong Li also became popular because of "Red Sorghum", and the red hair was out of control.

It's just that Zhang Yimou was married at that time, so for Gong Li, he had to divorce first, ended his love with Xiao Hua, and went to Gong Li's arms. It can be said that it is a classic of the ministry, and it is soft to win awards all the way.

I believe that everyone can see that this is the power of love, so that they can work together, fly together, and achieve each other. So far, Zhang Yimou has become a god and has become a national teacher, the first director in China, and a leader.

Sometimes, it's hard to say if it's the special profession of the director, he can choose Gong Li, Zhang Ziyi, or Zhou Dongyu, the director himself is a person who needs to inject all his love into his plays, because it is too common for dramas to be in love.

It wasn't until 1995 that after Zhang Yimou and Gong Li collaborated to complete the movie "Shake, Shake, Shake to Grandma's Bridge", the two announced their breakup. If you have watched "Shake, Shake, Shake to Grandma's Bridge", you will find a clue, this somewhat sad and dark drama is also like the end of their love. The two of them have spent a good 8 years, but it's a pity that Zhang Yimou didn't give Gong Li a marriage contract, maybe this is why Gong Li left Zhang Yimou, and it is also the reason why he will hate Zhang Yimou for the rest of his life.

A woman dedicated the most precious 8 years of her life to Zhang Yimou, and in the end, Zhang Yimou did not give Gong Li a name or a home. Perhaps Zhang Yimou, as an art worker, thinks that a marriage contract is useless. He may believe that it is good to just love each other and be with each other.

However, we all know the seven-year itch, after all, the love of two people has not been defeated by the pig-killing knife of time.

That is, more than half a year after the last movie of the two, Gong Li married Huang Hexiang, the president of the Asia-Pacific region of the tobacco company.

A woman who is hurt by love is in the emotional window period at this time, and she urgently needs the comfort of a man and a family. Therefore, it is not difficult to imagine why Gong Li would get married so quickly, she needs a home so much, a long-lost home, as for whether this is true love or not, it doesn't matter whether she is rational or not.

When you can't give the woman a stable harbor that you can rely on, you will naturally be named "shameless and irresponsible".

Irresponsible love will completely put a person's heart into prison, and it can make this person not believe in feelings in the future, because she has completely chilled love.

People often say that there is no right or wrong in feelings, and every family is difficult to read. But Zhang Yimou is too cold to people who have had a relationship with him. Feelings are important in the relationship between two people, but after a long time, what is more important is a sense of responsibility.

And Zhang Yimou seems to want more is his control in his love life. How high his achievements in movies are, how deeply he hurts people in his love life. In today's terms, he's an out-and-out scumbag.

Zhang Yimou's first wife was named Xiao Hua。The two met when they were planting rice in the countryside, and how simple the relationship was at that time. Xiao Hua gave up the opportunity to go to college, and he knew that Zhang Yimou loved filming.

So he used his connections to let Zhang Yimou go to Beijing to study. And Zhang Yimou may be well-informed after arriving in a big city, and he can't look down on Xiao Hua in a small city. At that time, she herself took the daughters of two people, and Zhang Yimou's life in the big city was getting better and better, and the appearance of Gong Li was also the time when the relationship between the two of them ended.

Gong Li, who was 15 years younger than Zhang Yimou at the time, chose to be with Zhang Yimou despite anyone's opposition. The two of them worked together on "Red Sorghum" with great success, won many awards, and since then the two have made many films. There are countless awards and awards, and Zhang Yimou has also successfully turned Gong Li from a student to a film and television superstar.

Like many traditional girls, Gong Li also wants a happy marriage. But Zhang Yimou excused himself many times on the grounds that it was just a piece of paper. Finally, the two ended their eight-year relationship after filming "Shake, Shake, Shake to Grandma's Bridge".

Zhang Yimou's current wife has also suffered a lot with him. Before the two of them got their certificates, they had already given birth to two sons and a daughter for Zhang Yimou. But she still has no name, and like Gong Li, she and Zhang Yimou are also many years apart.

But now the family's life is still very happy, and Chen Ting takes care of the family's daily life as a full-time wife.

Irresponsible love: It can be worse than death for another woman, or it can ruin this woman's life. It is also possible to bring this woman a lifetime of misfortune.

It will make people's hearts have a shadow, dare not love, think that they are not worthy of love, and seriously distort their own psychology.

Irresponsible love is very hurtful and can cause many people to lose trust in each other and then stop believing in love from now on.

I don't think Gong Li will say this!

Gong Li talked about herself, she hurt Xiao Hua so badly. Even more shameless!

Didn't g know that zh had a wife at the time?

Gong Li and Zhang Yimou have been in love for 8 years, one is the goddess of the entertainment industry, and the other is the elite of the director industry, which makes the people who eat melons in the outside world applaudoriginally thought that the two of them could go to the end, but they didn't expect it to come to an end because of Zhang Yimou's sentence "I don't want to get married". For this kind of irresponsible love, how hurtful it is, only Gong Li herself may know.

A person's harm in love cannot be measured in words, especially for a woman who uses her heart, if she comes out in time, there will still be traces in the depths of her heart, and she will come out from time to time to hurt you, and for Zhang Yimou and Gong Li,Both of them are screen characters, they just don't want to pay attention to each other, but they will also enter each other's sight due to work, so this injury is awakened from time to time.

If Zhang Yimou does little harm to Gong Li's irresponsible lovewill not let Gong Li use the word "shameless" to describe Zhang Yimou when talking about Zhang Yimou's private life in the show many years later. After all, Gong Li is a public figureWords and deeds directly affect her image, which shows how much hurt she can do in her heart when she can speak like this.

The two have been separated for many years, and both have their own lives, but when talking about Zhang Yimou in an interview, Gong Li said, "Zhang Yimou is a good director, but on personal issues, I can only use 'shameless' to evaluate him." ”

It can be seen from Gong Li's evaluation of Zhang Yimou that with the passage of time, it has not worn away the "resentment" against Zhang Yimou in Gong Li's heart, after all, it is a relationship that has lasted for 8 years, and it has not waited for the day when it will blossom and bear fruit. No one can just say they can let go.

Let's all think about how hurtful irresponsible love is, so that a person so talented can carry the weight of the past and can't let go for a long time!

The impact of irresponsible love, which can make people lose hope in life, is very great.

It was very hurtful and made people see hope, but when hope was about to become a reality, a heavy rain directly extinguished the flame of hope.

I think irresponsible love is actually very hurtful, and it has a big impact on both parties.

It must be very hurtful, a bad word, Sanchun cold, especially hurtful, severe depression.

It must be very hurtful, because the words that come out represent the inner thoughts, and they really hurt the heart.

Irresponsible love actually hurts the person who loves her a lot, after all, some people take their feelings very seriously.

Irresponsible love will make the person who is loved believe it is true, and it will bring him great harm.

Irresponsible love is a particularly hurtful two people, if it is just because they love each other and come together, and in the end a person in love does not take the responsibility that should be had, then this love will eventually fail and cannot go to the palace of marriage. Whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary person, in fact, everyone is the same in the face of love, they are all equal. Maybe a public figure will also choose an ordinary person to live his life.

So in fact, when we look at others, we should think more about ourselves, instead of laughing at others or doing something excessive. I think what happens to others can arouse our alarm more about whether something like this is happening to us, and we should think about how to solve such a thing.

Two people in love are mutual, I think two people in love don't need to think about too many things, two people just need to love each other enough, live their own sweet life, that is the love that makes others envious. You don't need to think too much about responsibility or anything else, because it's not that far.

Marriage is different from love, and entering marriage means that you must take on certain responsibilities, take responsibility for your family, and take responsibility for the people you like. We are no longer completely careless, we have a family, we should consider whether what we are doing is good for the family, and whether it will affect the family.

When many people fall in love, they feel that their other half is very good, but they feel that the person they like has changed a lot after marriage, in fact, it is not that the person you like has changedIt's just that you're not ready to run a marriage. Because marriage is different from love, we must take our own responsibility.