I had a quarrel with my husband and he secretly took the child away, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-03
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are a lot of small quarrels between husband and wife, which can generally be fixed quickly. If you say that your husband took the child away, then it is likely that the problem on your side is bigger, if it is your fault, you should sincerely apologize to your husband, and correct it later, if it is your husband's fault, you will calm down with him and clearly point out his mistakes, since you don't want to divorce, find a way to find him, communicate well, understanding and tolerance between husband and wife is the source of happiness, don't worry about it, I wish you happiness. Only communicate in a timely manner, don't let the unhappiness last longer, so that the relationship between you will slowly fade if you keep being cold.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Husband and wife quarrel mainly depends on who is responsible, if it is your fault, you should sincerely apologize to your husband, correct it later, if it is your husband's fault, you will calm down with him and clearly point out his mistakes, since you don't want to divorce, find a way to find him, communicate well, understanding and tolerance between husband and wife is the source of happiness, don't worry about it, I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Take it away and let him raise a child for a while, he knows that it is not easy to raise a child, you take advantage of the leisure to sign up for a trip and relax yourself!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can't reach him anymore, and you haven't called the police yet.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can choose to contact your husband, or call the police to deal with it, after all, he has no right not to let you teach your children, but in this way, the relationship between you and your husband may be worse, so let's find a way to contact your children first.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The couple quarreled and had to reflect on what the problem was. What are the temperaments and personalities of the husband and wife, and they should know each other. As a wife, there should be a judgment as to whether the husband will not be able to take the child with him.

    If the husband just takes the children away and wants you to make concessions on the issue of the quarrel, and the wife is unwilling to divorce, you can consider the following questions about whether it is worth the concession and what the consequences of the concession will be. Think about these things before making your own decision.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Call the police. This can only be done by ** to find the child first, and mediate between the two parties.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you're sure he took it away, he'd take it, and that's his child anyway

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Legal analysis: Even if it is an illegal act, both parents have the obligation to raise the child, and the other party has encroached on this obligation, and even if there is a divorce, the relationship between the adult and the child will not be interrupted. The woman takes away the child and causes mental torture to the other party, which is an abusive act, and she can choose to report it to the police.

    Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

    Article 1076 Where a husband and wife divorce voluntarily, the applicant shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office.

    The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' intention to divorce voluntarily and their opinions on matters such as child support, property, and debt disposition.

    Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

    4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

    Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm really convinced, are you made of tofu? The nest is dead.

    Your own children were taken away by your grandparents, you are really okay, your own children can't be the masters, and they deserve to be bullied by others.

    I don't know how unassertive you are when you ask this question. First of all, the child is yours, and the grandparents don't have that right, and secondly, have you reflected on the quarrel, in the end, it is because of which of you is arrogant and unreasonable with each other, of course, it is very unreasonable for grandparents to take away their grandchildren. If grandparents love their grandson Sakura, it's okay to be there with them for the time being, so don't worry too much.

    Where's your husband? Didn't my husband come forward to solve the problem? If your husband is an ornament, and your in-laws are unreasonable, then make a big fuss, let them know how good you are, and take your husband and children away from your in-laws.

    If your husband still doesn't deal with you well, then divorce, such a life is not fulfilled.

    Tell me the truth! The child does not have a grandmother, is the old lady from the screaming to be fed to how old is it, as the child's mother usually cares little about the child, when the child is more than three years old, the child's mother and father divorced, the child or the old lady (the old lady is more than 70) Now the child is about to go to school, a question about the child misses the mother? The child said very directly, the mother is dead!

    Some mothers, children are sticky to their mothers, children can be taken away, reflect on themselves, right? Don't impose all your faults on others!! Do not spray !!

    Quarrel with the parents-in-law Tangerine, there is no reason for them to take the child away, because the child needs the education and guidance of the parents, and the in-laws can't keep up with the child's education, whether it is from the child's growth or the family harmony, this is not the best way, so this is still to go back and communicate well, the child is actually very important to guide when he is young, don't look at the child or the two-year-old, three-year-old and four-year-old, you want to say that you don't study, you don't go to school, it doesn't matter, In fact, it is a big mistake, the education of children at this stage is very important, and many bad habits are formed at this stage, and the parents are particularly doting, and this grandson will generally give what he wants, so the child is spoiled in the end and does not know who he is. Now left-behind children.

    There are probably a lot of problems that have been reported, so we should pay attention to this aspect. So go home and communicate well, and don't treat your children as a victim of a quarrel between you, which you will both regret later.

    After serving you, you will serve the wall, and your own children still ask others what to do? The child is yours, whoever dares to rob it should call the police and see if the police help her or help you???

    You don't have to call the police, they don't have the right to not let you see the child, if you take the child over, do you bring it yourself or just look at it or what? Don't forget that home and everything is new, you ask your mother, I don't think you will support your quarrel, anything empathy, I hope you understand, I wish you happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello, you can let your partner calm down for a few days, but keep in touch with the other person, and at the same time you should persuade your son to bow his head and take the initiative to admit his mistake to his father.

    Hello, you can let your other person calm down for a few days, but you should keep in touch with the other person, and at the same time you should persuade your son to lower his head or stare at the initiative to admit his mistake to his father.

    After all, my father is an elder, and even if the elders are at fault, I should communicate with him through appropriate ways and methods, and the nuclear clan is not quarrelling, but no matter what the result, my father will have no face to change his face.

    persuaded his son, but his son did not do anything.

    Let's go. Can you easily tell your significant other and son why they are arguing, I can only solve the problem by understanding the root cause.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. Then you and your son can go to your husband and talk about this matter in person, in fact, there are more misunderstandings in the family, just say it, they are all relatives, there is no need for this.

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    The husband is angry and left, you should call the husband back.

    Family harmony is the most important thing, and you should mediate family relationships.

    I can't come back.

    That's okay, you and your son go to your husband, and tell the Duan family about this matter in person, in fact, there are more misunderstandings in the family, just say it, they are all relatives, there is no need for this.

    Alas, because of learning, because of playing games, that's it.

    In this case, it's still the son's fault, and he should be asked to apologize to his father and just be soft. There is no grudge between father and son.

    In fact, it is very simple, as long as one person takes a step back, the contradiction will be solved immediately. They are all relatives, and they don't hold grudges against <>

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  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After quarreling with her husband, whether to take the child with you should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Here are some factors to consider:

    1.If you can't agree on trivial matters in life or have some emotions, and the child will be with the father, then it doesn't matter if you don't take the child with you, but you can't worry your parents when you go to your parents' house.

    2.If it involves an emotional breakdown or the husband's bad character and a tendency to drink and gamble, it is better to take the baby with the safety point. At all times, stay calm and sensible and don't act aggressively.

    When quarrelling, avoid saying aggressive words, don't poke at the other party's pain points, and don't insult the other party's parents. Remember, quarrels are fought to solve problems, not to create new ones.

    So, after a fight, whether with children or not, try to communicate with your partner and find a solution to the problem. <>

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, it is easy for couples to quarrel after bringing a baby. The reason is that no one wants to listen to each other in all kinds of small things, and they all want to have the final say.

    In fact, the solution is also very simple, to designate a person responsible for this matter. Those responsible can make decisions, but they also have to take responsibility. It is normal for couples to quarrel with their babies in life, and they are both inexperienced parents for the first time.

    First of all, after the husband and wife have children, their lives will change drastically. The original two-person world will become a family of three, and some couples are slow to adapt to this mode of getting along with a family of three, so there will be a lot of unaccustomed and unsuitable places in life, and conflicts and quarrels will inevitably occur between husband and wife at this time.

    The second is that the birth of a child will increase the financial pressure and life pressure between the husband and wife. Raising a child requires a huge cost, especially for children, milk powder, diapers and other consumables, if the original life of two people is very poor, the birth of a child will undoubtedly make the life of two people worse, all say that poor couples mourn, naturally will intensify the contradiction between two people.

    In fact, the impact of family harmony on children is very huge, for their children, husband and wife, should learn to restrain each other's emotions, learn to care for and tolerate each other, manage their marriages well, do not quarrel in front of children, and give children a good and warm family atmosphere. I hope I can help friends in need.

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