I m not in a relationship, but what if someone else says I m in a relationship

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What does it matter, the truth is not something that will change what others say. If you're not in love, you're not in love, and they say you're in a relationship, are your interests involved? Is it bothering you?

    Don't you really like people saying you're in a relationship? If you ask this question, it shows that you care a lot about what other people think, and then you bother yourself, you should stop thinking too much and let go. You can't stop what people want to do or say, just let them say it, it's useless if you mind so much, and you won't be tired of talking too much.

    So go your own way and let others say it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Calmly tell them that they are not in love, and that they will come out with them more, and then they will have the opportunity to say, "If I fall in love, I won't have time to play with you." "It should work, it doesn't matter if it doesn't work, go your own way and let others fight!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let others say it, think about what others say about you and how you think of you, it's very tiring to live like this! Go your own way and let others do the talking! Besides, if you are in love or not, you are the protagonist, and others are at most joking and making fun of you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't talk about it, you don't talk about it, so why care about others.

    If you really didn't talk about it. It's useless what others say, because the truth is that you didn't talk about it.

    It's a bit of a problem ... Hehehe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you make a mistake, you may be wrong, and you may be able to achieve a marriage.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let them say it, it's just a rumor and it's not true, and if you can't get any evidence, it's just a lie!

    I was also told that I was talking to xx, and it didn't take a few days to go.

    If it's a big deal, leave him alone, and he won't make much trouble!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you fall in love? The main thing is to look at the usual abnormality. People who are generally in love will be different from before.

    It's been a long time. Your friends will find out. You're not in love.

    It's okay. They just say it, and if they don't talk about it, they don't talk about it. What are you talking about in love?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, it's not a big deal! The so-called "clean self-purification", no talk is no talk, no matter what others say, as long as you stick to your own principles!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ignore it, it will subside after a while.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it's not the opposite sex you're chasing, or if you want to introduce you to the opposite sex, just tell him you're in a relationship. I'm so annoyed, I'm going through this too. Sympathize.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Does this bother or confuse you? If the other party doesn't believe you, time can prove everything. I don't think it's your problem, it's those people who don't believe in you ... I think it's their problem ...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then you definitely have signs of being in love. If so many people say so. Then you really should think about how you behave"In love"Finish.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then you should spend less time with single men, so as not to spread gossip.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then tell him, I'm just talking about it, what's the matter with you, jealousy or envy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You swear to them in front of them. It's as simple as that.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It really doesn't work, what if you really talk about it once...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's good to ignore it for a long time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Go your own way and let the cats do the talking!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    So you let him say who you're talking to?

    I'm looking for that person to confront .

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's good to ignore it, what are you nervous about?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In the real world, there is no way.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What I want to say is that you are already an adult, you should know how to distinguish between right and wrong, and know how to deal with your affairs, no matter what decision you make, it should be that you are willing, you want to do it, and you will make such a decision, not because others tell you what you want to do. You're all older, do you need someone else to direct you when you fall in love? If you don't want to talk about it, you just don't talk about it.

    I think through this incident, you can fully see that you are a person with low self-esteem, and then you are not independent at all, you like to rely on others for everything, and you like to listen to other people's opinions. You have to, this is your own life, everything can only be controlled by yourself, what good is it for you to listen to others, is it true that others will control your life? They may just think that you are old and it is time to talk to someone, but they have not considered your actual situation, and only you know what your real needs are.

    I think as a success, you must have your own independent thinking ability and the ability to do enough, you must know that love is a very sacred thing, it should be the two of us who love each other, and then want to be with each other, so we will decide to fall in love, not to say that others think that I am old enough to talk, then I will go to find a random one, this is definitely not right, because if you do it like this, it will also make you suffer a lot of harm.

    No matter what I do, I think the voice in my heart is the most important thing, and it must be. Do what you want to do, because it's your life, and only you have the right to decide. Whether the choice is right or wrong, it is a very important footprint on your life path, and the advice given to you by others is always a suggestion, and the real decision-making power is still up to you.

    Relying on others will not go far, and you must take control of your own life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The reason why you don't want to fall in love is because you haven't met someone who makes you want to fall in love, falling in love is the same as getting married, it's not that others say that you should get married and you find someone to marry casually, nor do others say that you have reached the age when you should fall in love, and then you just find someone to fall in love with, and it doesn't matter if this person is the person you like, and you don't care if the other party is the person you love, and then because it's time to fall in love, then you fall in love.

    We are just an ordinary person, if you really can't meet someone you like, I think I'd rather be lacking than indiscriminate, I don't want to be with someone I don't like, just because the other party is good to me, I'm with him, it's not fair to him, it's not fair to me, because I don't like him, but he likes me, because I need a lover, so I agreed to his pursuit, so he mistakenly thinks that I like him, and I have a good impression of him, so he may fall deeper and deeper, and I myself.

    Meet and date someone I don't like every day, and there may even be some physical contact, because I don't like it, I will feel that dating is a very tiring and troublesome thing, because I don't like it, physical contact will make me feel very disgusting, because I don't like him, I will dislike him more and more, and finally it becomes, he thinks I have changed my mind, he will be sad, and I will be embarrassed.

    If the other person has a deep affection for me, then what should I do, do I choose to break up with the other person and find someone I really love, or do I choose to continue with the other person until I enter into marriage. If you don't want to make a wrong step, step by step, the best way is not to agree to the pursuit of others at will before you meet the person you like, and don't fall in love because you should fall in love at an age.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think so. Because falling in love is our own business, we don't listen to others and decide our own things.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You shouldn't listen to them, you should obey yourself, you can live happily on your own, there is no need to listen to what others say.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No. Everyone should have their own ideas, and if they don't want to be in a relationship, they shouldn't listen to others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, only when two people get along, you can find your goal and have your own preferences, which is also the stage that everyone must go through.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. When he tells you that no one is in a relationship with him, he is actually hinting to you, he is saying that no one is in a relationship with him, see if you can fall in love with him.

    No one is in love with me.

    When he tells you that no one is in a relationship with him, he is actually hinting to you, he is saying that no one is in a relationship with him, see if you can fall in love with him.

    If you like him, you can go something like: "You're so handsome, so good, how can no one fall in love with you?" You're asking too much, aren't you? What do you think of me? Can you fall in love with me? ”

    If you don't like him, you can say to him: "If you don't have it now, it doesn't mean that you won't have it in the future, your fate hasn't arrived yet, wait patiently, someone will fall in love with you." In this way, it doesn't hurt his self-esteem, and you don't have to show that you like him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The reason why I don't fall in love is because of my personality, such as being introverted and not meeting someone who suits me, or maybe I haven't learned to communicate, so I don't have the idea of falling in love. But I think that if you can't wait for someone you love, you need to work hard if you want to get it. And you also have to know what kind of person you want to get, so that you can succeed more easily.

    You have to understand yourself, what kind of person is the right person for you, is to understand your own criteria for choosing a mate. When we have to find a person and find a partner, we will find that there is a problem, that is, the standard of finding people, many times there is a problem. Do you want to find someone who meets your own criteria, is it a good match for you?

    If it doesn't match, then how should you adjust yourself.

    You also have to identify the scumbag, because before you find someone you like, there may still be the possibility of a scumbag, eliminate the scumbag, and then find the right person for yourself. So what are the ways in which we should meet these people more easily, how to meet them, how to start, and how to advance the relationship if we are so late?

    There are 2 questions that you must understand before choosing a mate.

    Choosing a mate is what kind of person you want to find and knowing exactly what kind of person is suitable for you. A lot of girls often say, "I'm looking for someone I like."

    Liking and fitting are not contradictory, but they are not necessarily reciprocal. So, you must know what kind of talent you like. There are also many girls who will say:

    As long as he's by my side, I can do anything. "It's really" I'm looking for this person as long as I'm by my side. "Is that it?

    The obvious answer is no.

    If this person is by your side, then he can be satisfied as long as he is alive, but are you sure you will not give him additional strings attached? So, before you choose a mate, you must understand two questions.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Everyone's hobbies and preferences are different, and if you're not a fan of relationships, that's okay. Try to learn about your deeper interests, such as reading, traveling, planning your future, and so on. At the same time, you can also try social activities such as traveling with friends, participating in the reputation and interest groups, etc., so as to broaden your social circle and find people who share your interests.

    The most important part is to relax your mind and not let the expectations of society and others affect your life and mood.

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