I want to fall in love, but my life and work circle is very small

Updated on psychology 2024-02-10
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I noticed that the above few people are looking for it from the Internet, in fact, it is not necessarily not possible, but pay attention to some problems, after all, the network is virtual, it is difficult for you to know what the other party really thinks, but if you chat with a person and fight a protracted war, most of those who just want to play have little patience, and will soon be cold, and the rest of them are of course not necessarily serious, but at least the credibility is higher! You can continue to socialize as a friend, it is recommended that you can go to his space to have a look during the process, the focus is not to look at **, look at his diary and mood, message board, so that you can understand him better, this may be better than real life, because in real life men will generally wear masks when they meet you! Everyone has two sides, one side is reserved for the closest people around them, and the other side is for most people to see!

    Also, if you meet with netizens, pay attention to safety, try to choose a place with a lot of people in public, if you are afraid of affecting the communication between the two, you can use it in the restaurant! It's a park! Nothing others are too lazy to listen to what the couple is talking about!

    Also, don't expect a man to love you completely because he loves you, just like a woman who loves someone is not necessarily completely in love with him, but also loves his money, house, and car, a man may love you, but at the same time, he also loves your body and appearance! This is a very real problem! Of course, there is pure love, very little, in today's society, not to mention that you are also very clear, most women looking for a boyfriend will first consider whether the other party has a house and a car, and men looking for a girlfriend will consider whether the woman is beautiful and slim!

    To put it mildly, that's called taking what you need! If you meet an exception, then you are one of the lucky ones in this world!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Oh, hehe......Even if I met someone who felt it, but I didn't chat much, I had to contact Q, and I really wanted to find another sustenance, that is, the life and work circle is small, sad!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The circle of life is small. But do you have a favorite male compatriot? Some are brave to chase, if not, they can only try matchmaking.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's all. I'll tell you the best way.

    It's about playing games online. Gradually, you will have more friends.

    My boyfriend and I met playing games. The Internet can shorten the distance between people.

    Fate, introduction. God knows when you'll be able to meet the right one.

    It's better to use my method.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can make friends online and log in to more forums.

    Or join some clubs, such as the Outdoor Sports Club.

    Broaden your life circle.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since you can ask that, it means that you must know that you have not been able to find a suitable boyfriend, and there is a very big reason, that is, because your life circle is small. Then the first thing you have to do is to find ways to expand your life circle.

    Some girls have adapted to living in a small circle for a long time. It is undeniable that this kind of life is also very comfortable, because you don't have as much socializing, so you have more time to stay in the dormitory, do what you like to do, watch dramas, etc. There is nothing inherently wrong with this lifestyle.

    But what you need to understand is that when you start to want to really fall in love, your small circle of range of communication patterns has just become your constraints. You find that you want to fall in love, and your own conditions are not particularly bad, but there is no suitable candidate, and no one will chase you. Undoubtedly, your biggest problem is because there are too few boys around.

    So if you want to change this situation, the most important thing is to expand your life circle and try to get to know more boys.

    First of all, you can work hard to integrate into the circle of friends around you, although you don't have many friends, but your friends must still have friends, and there are friends of your friends' friends, these are resources that can be used reasonably, and you must grasp them. Secondly, you must not stay at home, but go out to communicate with everyone, such as some activities in your company or school, and actively participate. As long as you do this, you will definitely expand your own life circle invisibly and meet more people, so it will not be difficult to find a suitable boyfriend for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You are an introvert and a girl with a small circle of life, but you want to fall in love, and I personally think you have to do it:

    First of all, expand your circle of life and let yourself know more people.

    Generally, if the life circle is relatively small, there will naturally be fewer people to know, so it will naturally be more difficult to find a partner. This requires you to change your personality, let yourself go out for a walk, participate in more social activities, and make your life circle bigger.

    For many girls with a very small life circle, if they want to fall in love, the premise is to expand their life circle and let themselves know more people, so that it is easier to find their other half.

    Second, ask friends and family to introduce you.

    If you are in a hurry and want to fall in love, you can also ask your relatives and friends to introduce you to the object.

    When you meet two people in the way of introduction, it is relatively difficult for you to be vigorous, because it is to slowly cultivate feelings after introduction, and you must be mentally prepared.

    Finally, adjust your mindset.

    When you are anxious to fall in love, the general mentality will be relatively abnormal, and you must adjust this mentality back in time. Otherwise, even if you find someone to fall in love with, it is unlikely to end well. In fact, falling in love is not as romantic as we think, only people who are in love with each other can have a vigorous love.

    Everyone has different needs at different stages, and if you know what you want, you have to work hard to find it, but mentality is also very important. If you don't have a good attitude, you won't be happy even if you get what you want.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are many girls who have no partners because they are introverted or have a small life circle. In fact, these can be changed, there is no need to worry too much, as long as you are willing to integrate into the larger circle of life and are willing to make changes to your personality, then it is not a problem to find someone who can fall in love.

    First of all, there must be a certain reason for the small circle of my life to be related to my personality. If that's the case, you can adjust your mindset and make changes to your personality first. Make yourself positive and cheerful, and be enthusiastic about life and friends.

    In this way, you will stimulate your own ideas, make yourself willing to integrate into the larger circle of life, and at the same time follow your friends to participate in various activities that are beneficial to your body and mind, so that you can make more friends, in this case, you will also make your life circle bigger, and gradually contact more people.

    Then after expanding the circle of life, there is no shortage of people who have a good impression of themselves and are willing to fall in love with themselves. Then in this case, it is also very easy to have feelings, after all, the life circle of the two is the same, and there are certain similarities in interests and hobbies, so they can be discussed, so it is easier to develop into a lover relationship.

    Therefore, since you know the reason why you are not in love, you can make changes according to your own conditions, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort, and the effect you get is also the best. A small circle of life is not a problem, as long as you are willing to expand your circle of life and are willing to communicate with others, then this situation can be changed. Only by prescribing the right medicine can you **, so as long as you become cheerful and have more friends, you will find the right person.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In a situation like yours, you must first cultivate your ability to communicate, don't let yourself be in a dull state, live your own small life every day, without much pursuit, this is not good, what you need to do now is to exercise yourself often, add more organizations, and find more platforms for yourself to communicate with people, so that your various abilities will be improved, and slowly your life circle will become larger, so that you will contact more boys, and it is easier to find a partner. And you have an advantage if you are a girl. <>

    You went to college like me, and studied a major with a lot of boys, and there are 113 people in our major, and there is only one girl, so you say that the opportunity for us to communicate with other girls is very small, and it can be said that there is basically no circle of girls, so it is very difficult for us to find a partner, but at this time, we add a lot of organizations, such as the student union, and those clubs and the like, there are a lot of girls in it, so that our circle of friends is also big. There are also more opportunities to interact with girls, so it is easier to find a partner.

    Our school also has a lot of majors for girls, such as preschool education, such as art colleges, most of them are girls, and there are very few boys, so they have fewer opportunities to communicate with other men, so we can have a friendship, which is better, as long as someone organizes it, you can make a lot of friends of the opposite sex.

    What you still need to do now is to exercise your face, of course, girls are still a little bit close, the main thing is to learn to talk to boys, don't be particularly shy, be able to express yourself smoothly, and let yourself behave more naturally in front of the boys, so that you can easily find a partner.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personally, I don't think there's a need to rush to fall in love, in fact, it's not in a hurry, many people believe in fate, it's better to work hard to make yourself better now, and you will definitely meet someone who appreciates you when the time comes.

    Of course, the small circle of your life is a big problem, so have you ever wondered what the reason is? Is it because of the nature of the work? Or because of his personality, he is reluctant to associate with others.

    In fact, I personally think that the nature of work affects only one aspect, the most important thing is you personally, if you are very lively and cheerful, happy to get along with people, like to make friends, then you will have a lot of friends around you, regardless of the same sex or the opposite sex, so it is better to contact more old classmates and friends who have not seen for a long time in private, and have time to get together, and have more friends after there are things to contact. For example, if you are looking for a partner, your friends will want to introduce you as soon as they have resources around them, so usually participate in more social activities and don't stay at home all day, otherwise you will lose a lot of opportunities to meet the opposite sex.

    In addition, if relatives, friends and family arrange a blind date for you, don't reject it, the family is also for their own good, so if you have a blind date, you must cooperate, maybe you will meet a suitable person. However, many people now reject blind dates, in fact, it is not necessarily a choice to go on a blind date first and then cultivate a relationship.

    It's really good to fall in love, after all, a person lives too lonely, and parents can't always be by our side, only that he can give us long-term warmth, but you can't be too blind when you fall in love, you must find someone who suits you, you can't talk about it for the sake of talking. Finally, I wish you to find your own one as soon as possible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A girl who wants to fall in love, but has a very small life circle. You should take the initiative to communicate with others more, and you can ask relatives and friends to help you introduce, so that those who know the root cause have a higher success rate, and there is a high probability that they can find the object they like.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can get out and walk around more. Go to some book clubs or class reunions. You can also use your parents to introduce you to a boyfriend.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I want to fall in love, but the life circle is small, I can only introduce the object through my relatives and friends, or go out to play more with my friends, the circle is small and I don't like to come out to play, and it is getting more and more difficult to meet people, so the only thing is to wait for the introduction, or expand the circle.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Cheerful and lively. Show your strengths, build on your strengths, avoid your weaknesses, make more friends, and participate in outdoor activities.

    Broaden your circle of friends and open your heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A girl who wants to fall in love, but has a relatively small life circle, if you want to fall in love, let relatives and friends help you introduce.

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