It s really annoying to take care of a child! Childcare issues

Isn't it scared?,Newborn children are easy to touch unclean things.,Although you don't believe in ghosts.,But there's that kind of stand-in.,Burn paper or something.,If you're not sick or hungry, you're probably scared.。。 The elders of the family generally know this.

The child is like this, because he can only express his crying if he has any discomfort, so the child is crying badly, and he may still have physical discomfort, so if he can't do it, take the child to the hospital for a check-up.

Either you're hungry, you're urinating, you're not feeling well, landlord, you probably came here like this when you were a child.

It's okay, he belongs to the crying category, just wait for a little older.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

How many times can a daughter-in-law be confined? Mother-in-law should take care of it. Let your mom come. The mother-in-law can do things for her daughter-in-law, which is also an opportunity to spend confinement. If the in-laws only emphasize their own difficulties and do not care about the daughter-in-law, how can the daughter-in-law miss the benefits of the in-laws?

For the sake of family harmony, let your mother take care of your wife, right?

If there is a real difficulty, discuss it together, and your wife and father-in-law will understand. You can also rotate here. The problem will be solved.

If the mother-in-law doesn't show up and keeps letting the mother serve, will the wife be happy?

This doesn't blame your wife, empathy, change yourself, what would you think?

Let's talk about my family situation for your reference, I am a mother of a 5-year-old child. My family is basically taken care of by the children's grandmother, and when the grandmother has something, the grandmother will take care of it for a month. Or a year. I think that's good. It is not easy to have conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Grandma is harder, and it will be easier to take care of grandpa and grandpa at the same time, and it is not enough to take care of it alone.

Then the two of you should coordinate to take care of yourself, and it is best to convince your wife to tell your mother-in-law to ask her to take care of you, and then come to help take care of your parents when they are well.

I guess your lover's heart is, I gave you the child, and my parents are tired to take care of her, she is a little unbalanced, you can say to your lover, your parents took some money, no, let's hire a nanny. Ease her mood. Sometimes women want a sense of balance and comfort in their hearts.

Isn't it serious? If it's not serious, it's up to the child, otherwise how can you be a parent, it's one thing for children to feel sorry for their parents, and it's another thing for parents to not be able to do this. Either you take care of the babysitter.

It's better to rely on others than on yourself, the two of you should mainly bear it, and your parents are old.

You can adjust your work; Hire a babysitter; It is also possible to leave the child at the parents' house temporarily.

Let the parents of both sides pay for it, ask the nanny, mother-in-law and mother-in-law to pay 2,000 yuan each, or come to the person, and the person who comes can get 2,000 yuan from the other party.

Don't be afraid, baby, mom is here with you......Xiaojuan's baby was admitted to the hospital not long after birth, this time because of the baby's inexplicable fever, Xiaojuan has little experience, listened to her mother-in-law's words, put on thick clothes to cover the baby's sweat, and tried to cool the child through these methods, but the temperature not only did not drop, but increased. No, I'm in the hospital with my baby. Many families are still raising children according to some "old methods", such as children with fever and cold are not diseases, drink some hot water, put on thick clothes, and cover it.

You must have encountered the following situations, how did you deal with them? Is it also the "old way" used?

The child is only a few months old and feeds the adults.

The living conditions of the older generation are more difficult, and there are more children in the family. But now that the material conditions are better, there are only one or two children in the family, and parents want the best for their children. However, there are still many people who feed adults when the child is only a few months old, especially those babies brought by the elderly, they always feel that home-cooked meals are the most nutritious and old.

Home-cooked meals are indeed nourishing to the stomach, but they are not nutritious. Moreover, the baby's gastrointestinal function is relatively weak, and if the child is blindly fed home-cooked meals, it may cause him to have no way to digest it.

1.Discuss with your spouse: If you have a spouse or relative, you can discuss who will take care of the children in terms of the division of labor. If they both need to work, you can negotiate when to telework or take time off work so that one of them can take care of the children.

2.Find housekeeping: Look for professional housekeeping, some of which offer both short-term and long-term services that can help families take care of their children. Housekeeping services can be contacted via the internet and by contacting local community resources** and addresses in the local area.

3.Look for a todan tubing service: You can look for a childcare service.

If the child is preschool, you can look for a local nursery or kindergarten to get the services of child care, and if you are an adult, you can look for a reliable, child-conscious family care.

4.Taking care of children at home: Parents can take care of their children at home and get through difficult times with their children.

Parents can arrange appropriate activities and games to keep their children active and excited, and enrich their lives. Parents can use work, tutoring, or other internet resources to continue to keep their work running while their colleagues are at work.

These are all methods that can be taken, of course, the best way is to arrange a reliable caregiver for yourself in advance to reduce your own work and care burden.