After my wife gave birth, he said he took care of his grandparents?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-20
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, you will pay for the milk powder, how can other people give it to you? Unless your parents come out, your wife is not wrong at all. Because it's your child who doesn't belong to someone else, you can't afford to pay for milk powder.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you know how painful it is for your wife to give birth? He is all for you, her life is all caused by you, if the grandparents have nothing to do, why can't they help take care of the children, if they don't take the children, they have to fund something. The key lies in you, whether your salary is enough to support your small family, what to discuss with your wife, don't just complain in your heart, find the best solution.

    You are now the head of your little family!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not long after your wife gave birth, is it possible that you still expect your wife to pay for milk powder? Naturally, you should be the father of you to pay for the milk powder. And even if grandparents can help, they shouldn't let them pay for diaper milk powder. At most, it's just to help you take care of the baby.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Who gives birth to who raises, as parents, you should do your duty to raise and take care of your grandparents, but you can buy milk powder and diapers by yourself and send them over, of course, grandparents have the ability and are willing to help you reduce the burden, then say another!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In this case, you must pay for the milk powder yourself, although others have helped you take care of the child.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are not too busy with work, you can not throw it to your grandparents, no matter how old your grandparents are, he said that their generation has passed through children and this young person is a different concept, it is different.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When it comes to taking care of children, try to do it yourself. Don't let the elderly help take care of them. Because it's been a long time. The approach to education is different. Not easy to communicate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The matter of raising a child must be discussed, and see who will take it, if so. If you can't discuss it, it will cause bad things to your child.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now the society is normal, let the grandparents take the child after giving birth, and you can mediate as a son and contribute some money

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My wife said that after giving birth, I gave the child to his grandfather to drink, and I didn't agree with it, because my grandparents were old and couldn't take care of my grandparents.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It should be your wife who wants to bring it to his grandparents after giving birth, right? That's okay if the grandparents are still young.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your concerns are normal and understandable. As for your own parents, go talk to them, and hope your grandchildren are well. If your mom is willing to bring it, maybe it's the best.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can let your grandparents take him for a while, and when the child is older, you can send him to childcare.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Can you give me some points, I have some things to ask, but I didn't score questions, it may be related to whether I can be with my parents, I am a left-behind child, give me some points.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No adult specializes in bringing his children and grandchildren, and it is the same for anyone, whether it is good or not is your mentality of being an inner parent, not an old man. You and your wife are not in the right mentality, which is the most terrible. It doesn't matter if the old man has a high culture, children can't learn anything, don't believe what children don't lose at the starting line, losing in the middle and the end is even more terrible, not all of them are prodigies.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The child is not very old, you can let the grandpa take it for a while, and then see what the result is, and then you make a decision!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What if the nanny abuses the child behind your back, the child is too young to speak.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Are there any other relatives who ask him to bring them.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Judging by your description, there is a big problem between you and your wife.

    Let's remove the side factors and influences first, can you two live alone? Even if you want the elderly to help take care of the children, please come to your house, so as to relieve the tense atmosphere and reduce the interference of outsiders in the affairs of your husband and wife. Let's see if it's possible to get rid of the mustard in my heart.

    A harmonious life is what everyone who enters the siege desires, this desire is not high, but it requires the care of both sides. As the saying goes, a bowl does not ring, and both parties must be responsible for the occurrence of family conflicts, resulting in today's situation, what are the reasons behind these phenomena? You care a lot about your parents' feelings, and it's understandable, but what I want to remind you of is whether your filial piety is fair and objective (empathy:

    Your daughter-in-law will listen to your mother's words, causing you to think that they are unreasonable, and in the same way, will you listen to your parents and cause your daughter-in-law to be unhappy). Your execution has also delayed the best time, and your wife has not returned home after a month of quarreling, and often quarrels or contradictions are rising - quarrels that do not solve problems are because they don't cherish each other!

    Think clearly, it's best to talk to your wife alone and thoroughly about your emotional outlet, many times it feels good to lose it, so be sure to cherish the person in front of you - both for her and for you! Therefore, both parties should face their true hearts amicably and rationally to see if they can still get along.

    As for the "what about children" you mentioned. I think that parents' disagreement is the biggest taboo in educating children. Especially when adults quarrel and disagree about their children's education.

    From this point of view, single-parent families also have the benefits of single-parent families and do not contradict other methods of teaching children.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You tell your mom that it's hard to take care of the kids, and find them some other entertainment, such as a university for the elderly. When the time comes, it will be too late for your wife and parents to envy you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My wife said bai

    If you have had enough, you must have a problem, there is a family who wants to dismantle it, divorce is only divorced husband and wife, not separated by blood, even if you leave you have visitation rights, don't be afraid, go to the Internet to check the relevant laws, if the woman is too much, you can sue her, if you don't want to divorce, just calm down for a while, find the problem of two people, and solve it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I can't figure out why you men are like this, do you have to bring your mother for the child, and you can't take it yourself. Depressed, embarrassed, saying this, just have a few more children, and a few more grandchildren, I believe that someone will always ask him to take it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The wife does not take care of the children for the grandparents.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Like a child, he is not mature at all.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First of all, you have to consider your daughter's thoughts, and try to minimize the impact on the children after the divorce, after all, her two daughters have mutual support obligations and responsibilities.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, what does it mean that she owes debt, she borrows money you don't know. I didn't discuss with you, and the money borrowed has nothing to do with family life.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Why divorce, divorce is not good for the family, and it will have a serious psychological impact on children! Therefore, it is recommended that if you can reconcile, try to reconcile as much as possible! Otherwise, it will affect a child's life, do you want your daughter to live in the shadows?

    If there is a problem that cannot be solved, as long as you are willing to solve it, then there will be no problem, two people sit down and discuss it well, there will always be a solution, divorce at every turn, is divorce the only way to solve the problem? I've never seen so many people get divorced when they encounter problems!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The judgment will be based on the quality of economic conditions. Your wife has a foreign debt, and if it is during the relationship between the husband and wife, the debt is borne by both of you, whether it is her personal loan or not.

    You can provide proof of her own borrowing of money as evidence of the custody battle, and the judge will decide on the facts.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You parents have not fulfilled their responsibilities, if you let the child choose, she will definitely choose grandparents instead of you, poor baby, when I was a child, I didn't have the favor of my parents, I grew up a little more sensible and faced the parting of my parents, there is no difference between you and any of you, please care more for your children.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You shouldn't divorce for the sake of your children, it's not fair to your children, and your children will be miserable in the future.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Just hummed and chirped and felt the same way. The girl is called Uncle Boy. This is the more popular nickname in China and Japan that day, indicating that girls are closer to you, Korean women are more like mature and stable uncles, not every girl will call a man uncle, if the girl has no good impression of you, she will not call you.

    So if you don't have a girlfriend or wife, you have to seize this opportunity, and if you have a wife, you can control yourself. A girl is called a boy uncle, which is a popular term at the moment, which means that girls are closer to you, and Korean girls just prefer mature and stable uncles, not every girl feels the same way. The girl is called Uncle Boy.

    This is the more popular nickname in China and Japan that day, indicating that girls are closer to you, Korean women are more like mature and stable uncles, not every girl will call a man uncle, if the girl has no good impression of you, she will not call you. So if you don't have a girlfriend or wife, you have to seize this opportunity, and if you have a wife, you can control yourself. A girl is called a boy uncle, which is a popular term at the moment, which means that girls are closer to you, and Korean girls just prefer mature and stable uncles, not every girl.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The wife said that you have had enough of it, you must have a problem, there is a family who wants to split it, divorce is only divorced from the husband and wife, not from the blood, even if you leave you have the right to visit, don't be afraid of this, go to the Internet to check the relevant laws, if the woman is too much, you can sue her, if you don't want to divorce, calm down for a while, find the problem of two people, and solve it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You didn't choose well in the first place, and it's your responsibility. In addition, your wife's character is not good. Not worthy to be a wife and daughter-in-law.

    You can give it to him or give it to you, child.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Your question, how did you choose such a woman at that time, you are really blind.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's not that you don't call it, and some places have a habit that Kinmen has to give a change of mouth fee, and if your parents don't give it, your wife won't change her mouth.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You should call it and call it, man, be generous, as long as your wife doesn't do anything excessive to her elders, you can be forgiven.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    As long as you have enough respect for your family, you can't be rude to her, you can't be rude, change your words and take your time.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Ah, it's a must! You have to enlighten your wife step by step!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Hasn't she read a book? People who have not read also know to respect their elders and others.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    A woman who doesn't respect your family, can you still tolerate it?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In fact, I think your husband made money, and if you don't give your two children no one to take them, in fact, it can't be said that your approach is completely right, but there is no way to do it, isn't it? Those two children always have to study, and when they grow up, they will have all kinds of expenses, if your husband doesn't give you his money, will he give them to the two children? If you give two children, of course, it's the same, if he doesn't give two children in the first two years, it's also a child who can't do anything, and if you stay by yourself, you can't go to work well with two children, and this is also a way to do nothing.

    When we are in such a helpless situation, we can only choose a relatively perfect plan to deal with your family's affairs.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I was looking for someone who would say goodnight to me every night, someone who could comfort me when I was hurt. Life is so much change, Hongchen is in a hurry, a lifetime of encounters, three lifetimes of love, met, fell in love, and finally left, lost....Just like the youthful age in life, looking forward to a beautiful encounter and a sincere love.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The crime of abandonment (Article 261 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China) refers to the refusal to support a person who is old, young, sick or otherwise incapable of independent living, and the circumstances are heinous.

    Your father's actions probably do not constitute desertion.

    You can also find the Women's Federation.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Call the police, if you can keep people, you can keep people, and if you can't keep people, you will find a way to leave money to support the elderly and children.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If your father is going to leave you because something bad has happened, then your father may be too selfish, and it may be better to bear some things together, but your father can no longer be called a father, he is too selfish, he only thinks about himself, and he leaves the family behind, you can talk to your father, if you can't listen, then go to your father, and it may be the best way to solve it through the law.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Sue your father ......If you are a minor, you can ask your relatives to sue, and if you don't understand, you can consult the court and ask a lawyer to deal with it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If he wants to go, let him go, and the people who stay can't keep people's hearts, and he can't give him a penny, because he still has parents, and it is his obligation to adopt his parents, not his wife and children, and he has the obligation to support his wife and children, so he can't give him a penny.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You can't kill 1 him in righteous anger, this is the right thing you can do, and in the future, you will support your family, and you have to grit your teeth to do it if it is difficult, this is your responsibility.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    The person who wants to leave can't be kept, the person who keeps him, the person who can't keep his heart, the heart is gone, can you keep it? It shows that the lover is charming. That's what makes him so crazy!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Break off the father-son relationship with him. You also have to shoulder the weight of a large family, and everyone has to pay for their actions. Don't wait until your father is old and weak. When he was desperate, he came back to you and asked you to provide for him. Prepare for it in advance.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    What can you do If it's possible to help mom keep the money A family loses its father is a disaster, and then the loss of money is even more hopeless. It's too hard for a mother to support the family, and you're not old enough to earn money during this time.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    What you have to do must be to stop him, if you really can't stop him from absconding, then you should at least keep some of the money, otherwise what will your mother and your grandparents do in the future? Whoever has this kind of father in the family is helpless, has no sense of responsibility, and only knows that he is happy. But even so, you still have to live your life and take care of your mom and grandparents.

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