If a boy confesses to you, how do you refuse?

You feel like a good friend in my heart. And I always thought we would be good friends. Don't tell me you like me anymore, it's a burden for me.

Let's be friends forever! It should be a clear indication that you won't associate with him, and you won't hurt him too much by saying that. But since he rejects a suitor, then he is certainly not happy, but it is also temporary, as long as it is after a while!

Forehead... Today's children are so precocious digging...

You tell him that we are all young now, and those things are impossible. We should study hard, and if you really like me, then give me a promise when I grow up. And not now.

Don't pursue me, I'm going to tell you: "The back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves, and the front waves die on the beach." If the waves continue to go up, they will die on the beach. "Die!

Child, you just type 1 word on QQ. Get lost.

We're all still students.

Let's study hard first.

Refuse directly, otherwise the damage will be deeper! For example, we don't fit in and things like that.

I hope you understand me", that's how I rejected it at the time.

Send a good person card: You are a good person, but we will not be happy together.

Reject others, there is nothing that does not hurt people.

Do whatever you want and don't regret it.

In a word, we are all young.

First of all, I want to tell you that when we grow up, we will face a lot of rejection. But refusal is methodical, there are things to refuse directly, sometimes indirectly, and sometimes there is a need for euphemistic refusal. It depends on the situation.

Here are a few ways you can do this:

1.If someone expresses affection for you and you have no feelings for him, you have to politely decline while trying to preserve the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party.

You can do this by complimenting the other person on their looks, character, or whatever. Then say the reasons why you can't accept it.

Of course, the reasons should be appropriate and try to be realistic. It is best to benefit each other, such as how you are not good, how you will suffer when we are together, etc. Put the bad side on your own.

This method is more suitable for the other party is a very particular person, he understands what you mean, he will not hate you anymore, and at the same time he himself maintains his own self-esteem.

2.If someone is always pestering you when you don't agree, then you have to resolutely refuse. This should not be a deterrent.

Because if you are not resolute enough, it will make the other party misunderstand and think that you are testing him, causing the other party to be pestering you all the time. To such people you can say: "I'm sorry, I really don't have feelings for you, please don't come to harass me again in the future, thank you."

This method is mainly suitable for some unconscious people.

3.Let me tell you again, if you reject a person, try to have less contact with the other party after refusal, you can distance yourself from him, deliberately stay away from him, and don't let him have any illusions about you. Especially when he asks you to hang out, you have to find a more reasonable reason to refuse.

The above is my summary, I hope it will be helpful to you.

Rejection must be direct. If you really don't want to be with him and can't be together, please make it clear.

If you refuse, keep your distance. Don't hope to keep your friendship after confessing, people who like you can't just treat you as an ordinary friend, and it's really cruel for you to keep this "friendship" like this.

Girls should not always think that they are smart, that they are decent, that they can do it.

What "you're a good person", "I don't want to associate with anyone for a while", "I just think you are my brother", "I think the friendship lasts longer", "I don't think I'm worthy of you" Don't use a word, it's too green tea. You use these words to make that guy still keep in touch with you, and even if you need it, he can help you without any conditions, it's not that he doesn't understand that you're refusing, it's that he knows that you're rejecting and still wants to move you through his own efforts. That's really not good.

1."Thank you for your kindness, but I have someone I like. ”

Although this sentence is concise but not degradable, say thank you and then tell him that he has someone he likes, when you smile and say this sentence to refuse the boy's confession, not only show your gratitude to the other party's love, take into account the boy's face, and at the same time simply decisive, the boy will be a little disappointed after hearing it, but it will not be too sad.

2."I'm sorry, but I don't plan to fall in love yet."

When you say this, it doesn't mean that you don't like him, it's just that you don't want to fall in love for your own reasons, so that the guy still has hope in his heart, so he won't be too sad. Since you say that you don't plan to fall in love for the time being, the guy will generally give up pursuing you for the time being, but he is likely to confess again in the future, but no one can say what will happen in the future (maybe you will like him in the future?). So let's think about it later.

3."It's a shame that you have a boyfriend, friendship is much longer than love. ”

This is a good example of a tactful refusal, when you say this sentence, it shows that you value the friendship between you, you like him, but not the kind of love between men and women, but it shows that he is still very important in your mind, although the boy can't be with you, but it's good to be able to get you as a friend.

If it is a good friend, you can refuse directly, he will understand you, but it is not ruled out that you will be emotionally attached to him in the future, if it is a stranger, in order to avoid hatred due to love, you should either say to him "If you really like me, you should use time to move me."

If you have an object, you can just say that you have an object. If not, and the other party doesn't know if you have a partner, you can tell a small lie and say that you have a partner. If you don't want to lie, first send a good person card to the other party, say how good he is, and then politely refuse, saying that it is not the type you like, and the two people are not suitable.

I will tell the boy decisively that it is not suitable, because I already have a person I like, and I will confess to him, so I will not agree to you.

Well, if a guy confesses to you, you can directly refuse, for example, if you feel that the person is not bad, you can be friends, then you may be friends, if you feel that the person is not good, then it is direct and rejected, he can be the one who is not suitable, or you are a good person or something, you can do it.

Look at what kind of relationship you have with this person, if you think he's still very good, and you want to be friends, then tell him that you just want to be friends with him, and then friends are longer, if it's nothing, just refuse.

Hello, this can be said directly, for example, sorry that you are not my type. I hope you can meet the right one for you soon. In fact, if you refuse, you can just express your thoughts, and you don't have to think about it so complicated.

I confessed to you, you can do a tactful refusal, or you can break it in person, refuse to swap.

Hello, the boy confessed to me, I told him directly: thank you for liking, I already have someone I like, I'm sorry, I wish you to find the right person as soon as possible.

I think it's okay to refuse a little more tactfully, that is, I don't want to fall in love now, or I think the two of you are not suitable, which are two better reasons.

When a girl rejects a boy's confession, she can humbly back down and send a good person card to the other party, and when the girl refuses, she can talk about her shortcomings. Then he euphemistically said that the two were not suitable, most of the boys were very good-looking, and in the face of the steps given by the girls, they would generally take advantage of the situation.

If you don't have the heart to be with this guy, then you will refuse directly, and direct rejection can make the other party understand your mind better than tactfulness or any way, and the other party will not continue to confess next time because of your directness.

The boy confesses to you, then if you really like the other person, you can promise her, if you don't have any good feelings for the other party, and really don't want to have any contact with the other party, then just refuse, don't hesitate.

You can just reject this boy, just say that you don't like this boy, you can just say it, I don't like you, I don't want to be with you, in this way, this boy won't pester you anymore.

If you don't have any thoughts about him, you can just reject him, just don't let him misunderstand. Tell him what is in your heart and let him die for you, so that it will not affect your life later in life. When faced with something you don't like, you must know how to say no, so that it will not bring trouble to your life.

Then you politely decline him and tell him thank you for liking me, but I don't think the two of us are suitable, we can only be ordinary friends, I hope you can find someone better than me to accompany you.

Maybe you can say something like: I'm sorry, I don't think we're a good fit, I think you're a good person, but I don't think I'm that blessed, maybe we're better suited to be friends, I'm really sorry.

First of all, if you like it or not, if you don't like to refuse, you must be direct, don't drag the mud and water, you can send a good person card, you can say that I don't have feelings for you, just say something like that, don't ink and euphemism, so that the other party will misunderstand.

If a guy confesses to me that he doesn't like him, I should say to him: I don't have any feelings for you, I hope you can find a partner who is more suitable for you.

To put it mildly, the two of us are not suitable and can be friends, but it is impossible to go further. I'm sorry.

The boy confessed to me, if he doesn't like me, he will, refuse, and I will firmly refuse not to give him a chance, because the long pain is not as good as the short pain, and the procrastination is still a lose-lose situation in the end, and it is better to make a break as soon as possible if we can't be together.

You can tell the other person that I don't think the two of us are suitable, and I don't have any intention of falling in love now, so it might be more appropriate to tell the guy your own opinion.

I politely rejected you from the beginning, I don't want to fall in love. It may be that I did something wrong, and I should reject you directly and not let you have any thoughts. Thank you for this time, I am very touched, there has never been a boy who has been so meticulous to me.

You're very attentive and warm, but I just don't like you.

You can say that we can't get out of the two of us because we don't have the right personalities, you can also say that you are too young, your mother doesn't agree, and you still need to study again, you can also say that I don't like it at all, don't come and tell me about it.

If you don't agree, be straightforward and tell him clearly that you can't. Indecisiveness can do a lot of harm.

Thank the other person for the recognition and like, but indicate the reason for not accepting, such as you are not the type I like or I already have someone I like.

1. Set the right mentality.

Before confessing, we should ** the possibility of failure. Even if we are rejected, it is not necessarily because of our own reasons, we must first adjust our mindset. Don't feel ashamed or embarrassed after your confession is rejected.

At least you have the courage to take this step, let the other person know what you think, don't be sad, don't do stupid things, because it's normal for confessions to be rejected.

2. You can ask the other party why.

The confession was rejected, affirming that the other party's state of affairs also had its own considerations. If you can, ask the other person why they are refusing so you can know if the other person is really impossible or because of something else. If it is due to other objective reasons, at least it means that you still have hope, and you can choose a suitable time to confess in the future.

If the other person may really have no feelings for you, at least there will be no regrets.

3. Don't bother each other for a while.

During the period of rejection of confession, each other needs to reorganize their emotions, so it is best not to contact and disturb each other during this time, and not to add trouble to each other. For the rejection of the confession, if she blindly contacts the other person, it will make the other person feel bored, so it will be difficult to attract or repent again. Give the other person some time and think about what else you need to make up for.

How to get a boy to repent in an ambiguous time and let the other person take the initiative to pursue you!

4. Enhance their own value.

Although the confession is rejected, to a certain extent, you also attract the attention of the other party, so if you want to recover, you should constantly keep improving your value and make yourself more attractive. If you don't improve yourself, no matter how many skills you confess, you may not get good results, love is to shake your own attraction, not some means, so the most important thing is to keep improving yourself to attract the attention of the other person.

Rejecting you doesn't mean you don't have a chance, it can only mean that I haven't felt your love for me, and I don't know whether I should agree to your pursuit or not.

So in this case, even if you refuse, you must stick to your heart and face it bravely. Persistent pursuit.

Just like when I was dating online, I unconsciously screened when I was in college, and I took a fancy to a girl's avatar, and I felt that this girl was quite individual, quiet and quiet, and very good-looking, and then I added her friends, and after agreeing, we talked a lot.

We insist on talking every day, and we have endless words every day, telling about our daily experiences, what did we eat today? What did you do today? Anyway, we've been talking, but it doesn't matter what we're talking about.

We met after 100 days of talking and had a lot of fun, she really looked like I liked. Wenwen is a quiet little girl who is very lively and cheerful, and shopping with her feels like the happiest thing in the world.

Sometimes I go to the beach with her, and everyone else looks at me with envy. Later, after a long time, we had to face a choice. She wanted me to go to her house and propose to her parents after I graduated, and wanted me to stay here, but I also have my own parents, and I can't stay away from my parents, 500 kilometers away.

I hesitated, she understood my heart, understood what I hesitated, she said what I didn't dare to say, and we parted because she didn't want to embarrass me.