What if a boy confesses to you but can t bear to refuse

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't like him, say no: If he's vulnerable, then tactfully say no or hint. If he is not so fragile, just make it clear to him that since he doesn't like him, don't delay him, and give him a chance to like others If he doesn't know whether he likes it or not, then politely refuse and say that it's okay to be friends or friends first?

    It can also be not positive, it is okay to drag, not to make a clear statement, but to leave him hope.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you can't bear it, it proves that you have a good impression of him, give him a chance, be a friend and develop slowly, hehe, it's good to be happy and comfortable, don't let yourself regret being unhappy, one more friend and one more chance, what do you say?? Hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Happiness waits for no one Happiness is to rely on yourself to fight for it If you like her, you should be brave enough to confess Don't pay attention to other people's opinions Don't care about success or not Try your best to have a clear conscience If she doesn't accept it, then you have to rely on time After all, time is the best ** person Can smooth out the surface trauma of the heart to 1 and 2 clean In fact, love is waiting Waiting for her to understand Waiting for her to return Because you really like her

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't bear to show that you still have some feelings for him. But it's better to be clear. It can also be said that I don't want to talk about it at the moment.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't like people, even if you can't bear it, you have to politely refuse, so that it will not be difficult for everyone to do it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Refuse.,If you don't like it.,There's no need to hurt him.。。

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What about me! I'm not going to turn him down and then, see if he's really good to me?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is recommended to think carefully before deciding whether to chase down, or to have a long mind, if you like you, the attitude is not like this. Confession to boys does not refuse or accept the following situations:

    1. This man actually likes you a little, but he also likes other girls and wants you to be a spare tire.

    2. This man is thinking about whether you are a good fit.

    3. He actually wants to reject you, but in order not to hurt the girl's face, he doesn't want to say it.

    Topics to talk about with boys.

    1. Don't talk about topics that are too serious or meaningless.

    Because the two of you don't know each other very well, too serious topics will only ruin the atmosphere of your chat, so don't choose. There are also a lot of nonsensical topics that are not suitable for discussion, because you will also spoil the atmosphere.

    2. If you haven't known him for a long time, don't talk about his family background.

    It is not very good for unfamiliar people to talk about family background, because the family background was not created by the man himself, but left by his parents. A lot of men don't like to talk about this topic. If you are curious about this aspect, it will make the guy think that you are very vain, and it will also make the man feel that you have no confidence in him, and you are not chatting with him to want to fall in love with him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, if he also has feelings for you, he also likes you, you confess, he will not reject you, nor will he accept you, you can continue to chase, but don't be too proactive, let him know that you like him, let him feel that you have a good impression of him, if he doesn't like you, you have to let go, don't bother him again. If he likes you, he will give you a clear answer. If he doesn't like you, then you just let it go and don't bother him anymore.

    I hope you are happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Rejection must be direct, don't agree if you don't want to agree, you can talk about the type you like, tell him that you don't like him, it's not a bad thing to reject others, it's good for both people to do so.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, being confessed by a boy that he doesn't want to agree or refuse, then don't promise her anything, if there is no promise, there is no promise, there is no refusal.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Being confessed by a boy, the attitude you should have is clear. Don't be vague, promise, refuse to say directly, like you there is no mistake, but if you don't like it, don't hurt people, everyone should be respected.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    was confessed by a boy, since he didn't want to agree, and he didn't want to refuse, what kind of idea is this, are you embarrassed to agree, you can get along with friends first and treat each other sincerely.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When love does not come, I look forward to love, and when love comes, I doubt love, this is the inner activity of most girls with more delicate minds.

    Because I didn't know each other very well for a short time, I didn't know much about each other at first, and at first I chatted occasionally because I was an ordinary friend, and I would feel panicked when I suddenly wanted to be promoted to a relationship, but in fact, I didn't resist each other in my heart, but I had a lot of uncertainty in my heart, I may not know if the boy really likes him, I may want to know if I will like him, maybe your own personality is slow to heat.

    type, it still takes some time to reach the relationship of that couple, so how do we express that we can make the other party wait and keep the other party from leaving, and we can neither refuse nor fully accept it.

    You can reply to the other party first and say that you are still friends for the time being, and friends can also interact with each other, leave a line for yourself first, don't say too absolutely, and you can't be sure if you will be together in the future, and then tell him that you are a slow heating type, and want to be friends first to get along with him, and tell him that you still have a trace of good feelings, but don't show too much. You can also reply and think about it, in fact, it shows that there is still hope, it is to give yourself a chance, and it also shows that you are not the kind of girl who is easy to catch up with casually, and you can also enhance your personal value, and the other party will also understand that you still have a chance.

    You can also tell the other party that you can't promise you for the time being, and then it depends on your performance, so that you can satisfy your psychology that you don't want to reject the other party, and you can really see whether the other party is really good to you, if he really likes you during this period, he will also try to show his best side, you can also observe the other party, kill two birds with one stone, this is also a way to silently give the other party a chance.

    If you get along for a long time and the test is almost the same, don't let the other party wait too long, no one will wait for you all the time, don't miss a good relationship because of this, the relationship has no time to wait for you to think clearly, wait for you to understand your mind, wait for you to understand him thoroughly, is there still the need to be together, there is no freshness, love is the best when you are ignorant, love is a process of understanding, you can try it if you feel it, Not every relationship has to be perfect.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Being confessed by a boy, you can't be ambiguous, you either agree, you don't refuse, you don't let the boy misunderstand, don't delay the boy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can tell him directly, and now I haven't thought about it. Or maybe it's in the learning phase right now. We can be friends first. Take your time so he understands what you mean.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, if a guy confesses to you, you don't want to agree or refuse, in fact, it's better to use the traditional way of refusal, for example, you are a good person, but we are not suitable.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can reply to him: give me a little time, and I'll reply after I think it through.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you like him, you agree, don't miss the opportunity. Hate him, reject him, don't be smart, let him have illusions, cause trouble, and harm yourself. I really can't make up my mind, so I told him clearly that I will reply to you after I think about it carefully.

    Don't take his benefits, take advantage of him, and finally tell him that it's not your dish at all, and doing so will cause a lot of disaster.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Confessing to a boy, unlike being an actor, unlike refusing to choose 1 of 2 trains, others are impolite and bad behavior.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Being confessed by a boy, you don't want to agree, and you don't want to refuse, so what do you want? Keep hanging him, go to find the one you like better, and wait until you can't find the right one, and then go back and choose him? If you don't like it, just say it, there's no need to do it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello. That's what's wrong with you. Do you want to use him as a spare tire? If you don't like him, just reject him. If you are indecisive, it is easy for him to get hurt emotionally when the time comes.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Be decisive about this kind of thing. Either refuse or agree. Ignorance may have adverse consequences for you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You shouldn't do that, either refuse, disagree, be ambiguous, and be irresponsible to yourself or boys.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    <> if you don't like it, try to see if you can accept it, and if you can't accept it, say it bluntly.

    If there is someone you like, you can refuse it as soon as possible.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's not good, you fish for others, when people can't see it, that like will turn into other emotions.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you confess that you don't want to say yes and don't want to refuse, then you can say give you a little time to think about it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It would be good to ask him directly if he would like to be a spare tire, anyway, he will know later.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Since I don't want to say no again, I can only be with him as a friend forever.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    A boy confesses that he doesn't want to respond, and he doesn't want to refuse. If you feel like you don't want to get along with each other, you can get along with each other and treat each other sincerely.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    1. Gain his trust at all costs, and then find an opportunity to fall into the next stone: since it is to deal with villains, don't use ordinary people's thinking to deal with it, otherwise it will always be the person who holds ordinary people's thinking. Then we can first gain the trust of the villain at all costs, which should not be difficult, just follow him to the flames, we can achieve our goal, and then find an opportunity to fall into the well, and do not let him have a chance to fight back.

    The premise is not to take the initiative to provoke the villain, and when provoked by the villain, do not make a contrasting move at the first time, and never let the villain feel that you have the intention of retaliating against him.

    2. Win over the united front of colleagues as much as possible, and isolate the villain so that he has nothing to do: everyone treats the villain, basically with the attitude that everyone gets and is punished. So when you are entangled by the villain, you might as well win over more people, establish a united front, and adopt a consistent external approach to isolate the villain so that he has nothing to do.

    After all, the number of villains is far less than the number of gentlemen, so the practical tactics of crowds are also a good way to deal with villains in the workplace. The best way is to directly find the victim who has been entangled by the villain, which is easy to resonate with the villain's boredom, and it is more conducive to the establishment of a united front against the villain.

    3. Directly use a violent temper to decisively scold back, and start first from the momentum: when you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it anymore, just go back. What are the consequences and no consequences, let's go along with the anger of being entangled by the villain first.

    So, how to be short-tempered, the villain is reckless, you are more freewheeling, you must be the first to strike in the momentum, and finally to slap him once, so that he is afraid of not daring to entangle you again. It should be noted that you must always have control over your emotions, although you are losing your temper with the villain, you should also pay attention to the weaknesses exposed by the tantrum being caught by the villain as a handle, it is not cost-effective.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    was confessed by a boy, and he didn't want to agree or refuse. Then you can do it without him, do cold treatment.

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