A person who does not want to speak, is his fate destined to be tragic

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is no communication without words

    You need to communicate with people at work, study, family, and social, and if you don't communicate, I don't think you'll be miserable, but you'll be lonely、、、

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The highest level of being a human being is: to say what needs to be said.

    The highest state of being a human being is: don't say what you shouldn't say.

    A person who doesn't want to talk can't be the highest, but he does the highest.

    I don't know if you can understand what I mean? A person who speaks little rarely hurts others, and the ones who hurt others the most are those who are sharp and toothy.

    I think a person who is enemies everywhere would be more miserable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you have enough knowledge and experience and choose the right career, then the trait of not wanting to talk can help you succeed! Is it destined to be happy, no.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Fate is on your own, if you don't work hard, yours will eventually be taken away by others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How do you know that it is destined to be tragic?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're wrong, just like me, I never knew what luck was, but I wasn't defeated by fate, I didn't resist, I ignored it, and faced it with happiness, so that it wasn't necessarily miserable.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is a person's tragic fate destined to be miserable for a lifetime? No!

    But if you don't work hard to accumulate virtue and change your life, then you are doomed to be miserable for a lifetime.

    Destiny is predestined:

    1. is accurate, but not entirely accurate.

    Your fate can be calculated accurately, because your fate today is the result of your actions in your previous life and your previous life, and your actions in your previous life, the cause of your previous life, and the result of this life. Therefore, the fate of man at birth is determined.

    The calculation of fate and the change of fate are based on the law of cause and effect. That is: sow melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans. What you sow, what you reap. Your fate can be calculated accurately because you planted causes in your previous life, so the effect of this life can be deduced.

    2. Not entirely accurate. It's because you can accumulate merit from now on, in the right way, and your future destiny will gradually improve, and this can be done.

    But this process of changing one's life is not so easy, it requires a big price to pay, and it also requires the accumulation of time, and there is no quick fix.

    It is recommended that you read: "The Four Teachings of Lifan" and the lectures, also called "Life and Self-reliance".

    It tells the story of Mr. Fan's life from destiny to change and indeed change. The book also details how to change one's life, and the focus of this method is to change one's mindset, so as to change one's words and deeds, accumulate merits, and change quantitatively to qualitatively.

    The Four Precepts of the Pure Sky and the Lectures of the Old Master of the Pure Space.

    Yu Jingyi's Encounter with the God of the Stove" and the lecture notes of the Master of Clearance.

    The Trick of Transforming Destiny" by Khenpo Yeshe Phuntsok also talks about the above two things.

    Taishang Induction Chapter" is a classic of cause and effect, only about 1200 words, every word is beautiful, and it is very clear and clear that heaven and misfortune are good and evil.

    Follow the above.

    Have faith that if you plant good causes and accumulate good fortune from now on, your life will definitely get better and better in the future. But if you don't do it, you will definitely not be able to change your life, and you can only let the hand of fate dominate your life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Different lives are chosen by themselves, dare to do, learn, summarize, think more, have their own opinions, do well, dare to be responsible for themselves, grasp well, and continue to do, so that you will have a good life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why? Friends believe in themselves, be optimistic, life will not be bad, don't always think that you are miserable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Part is innate, while most is acquired. The day after tomorrow is your destiny in this life.

    It should not be predestined before you start your life, but when you start your life journey, the road is paved for you, because everyone will have different encounters, different circumstances. By the time you realize that there are places that can be done better, it's too late. But time won't let you change it!

    I believe that fate is already predestined, but since we don't know what our fate will be in the future, it is better to do a good job in the present? Perhaps it was fateful to think so.

    Maybe. No, man's destiny is created by his own hands, you must know that human hands can change everything, even if it is impossible.

    I don't think so, because if life is predestined, then he is not destined for you to ask this question, because it will fall into an endless loop.

    Destined for you to ask this question, destined for you to ask this question.

    Destined to be destined for you to ask this question.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Illness comes from the mouth, disaster comes from the mouth, and conversation is an art, which is not easy to teach. I can only give you two pieces of advice. The first is to find a book related to eloquence, which is available on the Internet, just pick one, read it repeatedly, and ponder it repeatedly.

    The second is to observe the people around you, see what they say and do, and then think carefully and reflect. I have three times a day, and after a long time, it will be fine.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You are unsociable, simple, straightforward, much better than those who are full of hypocrisy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's good to be emotional, but people's lives are not always so smooth, and it's the same for love, it's always good to meet the right person at the right time. Since this is already the case, why always linger in your heart, reliving the pain is hurting yourself after all, people say that they forget their merits and never forget their grievances. Let her go, there is not much point in hurting each other.

    It is a blessing to be one step higher in life, and to be lenient with others. Today you don't care about her deception, maybe tomorrow your true princess will come.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's good that you value your feelings like this, but you have to see people's hearts clearly. so as not to take too much damage.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's that she doesn't know how to appreciate you, you're a baby

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It can be made into a device. Work in jobs that involve little interaction with people. Such as software writing, ** creation, cooking.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    They may not be good at communicating, but they may be gifted in some ways and different from ordinary people.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Destiny is in your own hands'Only one's own change is the most important.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not necessarily everyone's future is immeasurable.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    3 points of life, 7 points of luck, what do you say? But man will win the day, and the thing is man-made...

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Blind belief and blind unbelief are both unscientific, and the question of fate depends on what angle of analysis, and.

    There are also issues of local and global considerations.

    1. To illustrate with a simple example, if you don't believe in fate, you certainly don't believe in fortune telling, but you can't completely deny fortune telling. The five elements and gossip on which fortune-telling is based These things evolved from the ancient Chinese Book of Changes, and fortune-telling is just a small branch of the Book of Changes, and you won't believe it when you say another branch of the Book of Changes, which is our ancient Chinese medicine. I don't know much about the young Chinese medicine who graduated from medical school now, if the Chinese medicine in the past did not understand the I Ching, it was equivalent to graduating from medical school.

    If you completely deny fortune-telling, and some Chinese now oppose Chinese medicine, it is not equivalent to a complete denial of China's earliest intellectual doctrine, that is, a denial of Chinese culture.

    Among them, when it comes to the development of physics, the world's top physicists have been divided into many schools, each of which has its own theories: there are multiple cosmological theories: the universe is divided into infinite universes, and consciousness: the changes in the universe exist because people observe, and if people do not observe, there will be no universe

    Human knowledge is limited, knowledge is unlimited

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's really hard to say, sometimes fate is really not in our own hands, for example, you don't even know if someone is tossing a coin to decide your fate. There is a saying in our country that one life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four accumulations of yin and virtue, and five reading, I think the best way to live may be to master what you can master, and let what you can't master naturally. Actually, fate is determined from the moment we are born, isn't it?

    Be a man or a woman, who is your own parents......None of this is our own choice, is it? It's predestined, isn't it? Accepting what can't be changed, changing what can be changed, this may be the best attitude towards life.

    Talk a lot of persuasion, don't mind, it doesn't seem worth arguing with your parents about this, right?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't know, I think 99% of people think so, it's really hard to say, look at yourself, I believe the landlord will also have this idea, hehe.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I believe that destiny has its own destiny.

    Especially love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's completely predestined, don't waste your efforts.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You think you have your destiny in your hands, but in fact it is fate that has mastered you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I especially despise those who are ignorant!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think 5 points of heaven are destined 5 points can change fate a little bit by feng shui conditioning.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is no fate, only man-made.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The Buddha said: Life is created by oneself, and each other is born from the heart, as the so-called heart does not move, everything does not move, and the heart does not change, and all things do not change.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I've had that idea before. Then I learned that we shouldn't believe in fate! Fate is in our own hands, and I will not envy those rich second generations.

    Strive to be yourself, one step at a time, and have no regrets! Sometimes difficulties make life. Dear, you should look at it with a normal heart.

    There are many people in this world who are better than you, and there are many people who are worse than you, do you have to waste time dwelling on this matter so much?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It is estimated that this life is determined according to past lives.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    My lord, there must be something strange about this!

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