What makes you feel like you ve matured?

When my son called me daddy for the first time, I felt mature. In the past, when I was alone, I earned and spent as much as I wanted, and the whole family was not hungry when I fed each other, and I went to work for three days to fish and two days to dry the nets, and I never thought too much about it. Later, after getting married, although it was a little negative, it didn't cause much trouble to me, and I still went my own way, thinking about one out and one out of one.

Slowly my wife became pregnant with a child, and when I made money alone, I felt that life was not easy, and I no longer went to spend time drinking, and I went to the supermarket to buy things and began to look at **, not as naïve as before, and then after the child was born, I suddenly felt that I had grown up, and I had to earn money to afford the family's wealth, rice, oil and salt, and became no longer smiling, no longer going out to fool around with fox friends and dogs, going home on time every day, life became monotonous, two points and one line every day, and it was common for my wife and children to get up early and be greedy for darkness every dayI have to admit that I have matured, learning how to be a good husband, but also learning how to be a good father, the burden on my shoulders is heavier, and I am no longer as frivolous as before. ‍‍

Before I went to college, my parents had to worry about a lot of things, but after I left home, they completely let go of me, and I needed to make my own decisions about everything, and slowly I became mature.

It's my ex-girlfriend, she let me know that man, you have to fight for your career, give her a good family, and instantly feel mature.

When I was a child, I thought about something delicious! Delicious! Fun!

When I was a teenager, I thought about dressing well! Well fed! Well played!

After getting married and having children, although I still want to have fun, every time the family can't open the money, then I think of the burden and responsibility on my shoulders! At this time, I am slowly maturing! A person is only mature when he knows his responsibilities!

Knowing that doing something and not doing something is truly mature! ‍‍

Break up, no more naivety, no more dreams about him, no more contact with him! I learned to be silent, I learned to cover up my injuries with an innocent face! Now that I am mature, I love myself more, I really thank you for making me lose the courage to love!

You can't hold my without harming and continue to attack my weaknesses! After all, we know each other so well! I don't hate you, but it doesn't mean I can forgive! ‍‍

I think there are many things that can make me mature, for example, when you were in college, there were many times when you came to the journey where everyone was a stranger, in fact, only you could help yourself when you were strange, but at that time, I felt that I was very strong, and I really grew a lot along the way.

I feel that I am mature in my forties, when I was in my twenties, no one was convinced, and my parents' words were not taken to heart, I always felt that what they said was wrong, and slowly I got older and older year by year, and I felt that what the older generation said was quite right, and my restless heart gradually calmed down, and I was not in a hurry to make a decision, and I found that my temper was also calm, so people only gradually matured in their forties. ‍‍

After experiencing some failures and setbacks, I understand that life is not easy, and I understand the difficulty of my parents, and I will feel that I have matured.

When I fell down and had to get up on my own, when I had no money and couldn't ask my parents for it, when I realized that I couldn't go back to the past, I grew up, I matured, and I relied on myself for everything. ‍‍

When I was a child, I always lied to my parents that I had no money, and now I always lie to my parents that I still have money. When I was a child, I bought things outside and came home, and I always reported the price to my parents; Now when I buy something and go home, I always tell my parents that the price is very low; When I was a child, I was wronged outside and came home, always crying in front of my parents; Now that I've been wronged, I have to think of a way to keep smiling in front of my parents. ‍‍

After the first breakup, I felt that the whole world was taken away by her, and the atmosphere was depressing and almost suffocating. I didn't think about tea and dinner every day, and I passed the time by walking, and went to every place I had walked with him, and it wasn't until more than three months later that I recovered. At that time, the most common thing I said to myself every day was:

No matter how big the setbacks are, life still has to pass. ‍‍

On the day I was twenty years old, he broke up with me, and we saw each other for the last time at the subway station. I watched the moon for the longest time that night, and finally walked into a cake shop, crying and eating what should be the worst cake of my life, and then I went back. I grew up on this day, and it was the longest night I've ever had.

After that, every day was happier than that day. I want to tell him, thank you for leaving me, I'm fine now. ‍‍

When planning my sister's wedding, my parents would discuss with me what they had been unable to decide, and at that moment I felt that I had matured. It was also at that moment that I found out that my parents were old, and if I was immature again, how could I let my parents enjoy their old age in peace.

When you have your own family and your own children, you will understand what it means to be truly mature.

The pressure of life has made me more responsible, and I want to become better.

After getting married and having children, the pressure is even greater, and doing things is no longer up to temperament.

1. I won't lose my temper with my parents casually, I will remember their birthdays, and I will buy gifts for them on Father's Day and Mother's Day.

2. Seeing those who have lower education and lower ability than me, but are promoted faster than me, I will no longer complain every day, and spend that time on how to improve work efficiency, learn business ability and certification.

3. Learn to enjoy loneliness, I used to eat and watch movies and everything I wanted to find a partner, and I had to find someone to share a house if I rented a house. Now I find that I will not always be accompanied by someone on the road of growth, and I must always learn to live alone, and it is good to get used to it.

4. The messages of colleagues and leaders will not be replied in seconds, so that they feel that I am also busy with work at hand, and I also have time to buffer and think about the wording.

5. When deciding things, I will listen to the opinions of others, especially important decisions will be discussed with my parents.

6. Accept that I am an ordinary person, and a plain and down-to-earth life is suitable for me.

7. The body is the capital of the revolution, no matter how busy you are at work, you will find time to exercise, or run, or play basketball.

8. I feel that the elders are getting older faster than I imagined, and I will go to see them during the New Year's holidays, bring small gifts, one or two small red envelopes.

9. I feel very satisfied when I have two or three friends.