How do you get along and communicate with unreasonable elders?

Do your duty, what should be done, and then it doesn't matter if it doesn't matter, when the elderly need help, you can help with kindness, people are affectionate, moved, talk less, do more, a lot of things to adapt to it, if you get along more, maybe you can find a way to get along with him without contradictions, it may be tricky at the beginning, and then it will be natural to be good, just like starting a business, it is difficult to start at the beginning, it feels wrong, and then you touch the doorway naturally like a fish in water.

First of all, you have to have a good mentality, a mentality of playing games with characters with his characteristics, and don't have that kind of depressed and worrying mentality. Then, think carefully about the weaknesses of his personality and do what he likes, so that he has a good impression of you so that he does not reject you. Then let him respect you by letting him know at the right time that you sometimes need to rest in your own space and don't want to be bothered too much.

In fact, the easiest way to do it is to treat yourself as Wei Xiaobao in the Lu Ding Ji, and use Wei Xiaobao's way of dealing with him to deal with him, then everything is OK, and there may even be unexpected surprises.

I think it's good to be humble and not arrogant in everything, give in when you should give in, keep the bottom line if you shouldn't, and after a long time, he will know what kind of person you are.

A buddy in the dormitory is always used to collide with his father when he is young, his father is also the kind of typical machismo, he has been to our school, until one time he collided with his father after his father was stunned, where did he come from, why is his father unreasonable, he is no longer against each time, calm, parents are the fate of the previous life for a lifetime, patience and peace of mind can make the whole family harmonious.

To be polite, as a contemporary youth, this is a must. Secondly, if you know how to be polite and you are amiable, his old people and elders will naturally like you, and they will not be rude as you say, and be more tolerant and tolerant of them, they are old people after all.

The family treats him as air, ignores it, and does it himself! As long as you love me, be small. Grasp his key demands, let him understand the most obvious truths, let him know what he needs most and how to get it.

There is a principle in everything, and there is a bottom line in doing things and being a person. People have shortcomings, and vice versa. Therefore, it is easier to look at people and pay more attention to their merits, and to give more respect and understanding.

For these unreasonable elders, I think I can only choose to tolerate and understand them.

If you want to get along with such a person, it is not possible to be yourself, you have to constantly change yourself, become a Madahar, the prime minister can support the boat in his belly, become a person who has no thoughts of his own, is obedient, and becomes stupid, so that he will be happy with others and be happy himself!

It is recommended that you find an acquaintance to vent your emotions well, settle yourself and make yourself comfortable. And then we will talk about getting along.

Nowadays, there is such an idea in many rural areas, that is, they feel that many things are said that what adults say is right and must be followed. Unreasonable elders get along and communicate, in fact, don't say too much.

The thoughts of the elders may still be stuck in a long time ago, probably because of the limited vision, so there is no need to argue with them, just deal with the communication.

That is, you listen to everything he says, don't pay attention to what he says, you don't have to remember it.

Keep your bottom line, you are your own elders, you have to retreat when you should retreat, don't fight for winning or losing among your elders.

Don't be intimidated by the rudeness of the appearance, and let the other party know that you also have a temper and are not easy to mess with. In terms of physical endurance and resistance to blows, the elderly are not opponents, so what are you afraid of!

In daily life, there is occasionally a generation gap between the elders and the young.

When there are different opinions about clothing, fashion, etc., how should we deal with such a situation?

Express your opinions in a way that young people will accept.

Due to age differences and different concepts, it is very normal for elders to have different views on dress than young people. Nowadays, the social atmosphere of the Na people is more open than in the past, and the young people worship themselves and enjoy the freedom of dressing, and the elderly should try to slowly accept this change in attitude.

However, there are formal and solemn occasions where participants are still required to dress appropriately. "As an elder, you can be a little more tactful when expressing your opinions.

For example, you can point out 'The clothes you wore last time looked better.''or 'What kind of clothes do you wear to look better?''and try not to stress too much that 'the clothes are not good now.''。Convey your views in a way that is more acceptable to young people.

The two generations need to understand each other.

Each era will leave a unique imprint, the elders and the younger generations have different growth experiences, and there will naturally be differences in concepts, so young people should try to understand the ideas of their elders, and if they are attending formal gatherings, or in the presence of other relatives and elders, they should try to maintain a proper dress;

If it's a more intimate, casual gathering, it's okay to dress stylishly.

If an elder points out a dress problem in a formal setting, the young person can apologize to the elder and admit that he or she was negligent.

If it is a private hail of Kai, the young person can explain a little that he does not disrespect his elders, but regards them as intimate people, so he chooses clothes that he feels comfortable with.

The elders should learn to accept the new thinking of the young people, and the younger generations should also try to understand the ideas of the elders, and understand each other in order to maintain family harmony.

When communicating with unreasonable elders, Shou Shi can try to ensure that Qi Yulu has a peaceful and polite attitude, respect the elders, choose an appropriate tone when speaking, quietly avoid using indifferent words, and give the elders some consideration, which may be able to improve the relationship with each other.

I chose to remain silent because it didn't make sense.