It s not fair to me, my heart is bleeding!

Do you think that if you are rich and handsome, she should be your private property? I'm sorry, but she has her right to autonomy. If you think she's an "endgame", then change it.

Unfair anymore? You love her, you want to be with her, it's not fair or unfair. Although we don't care about the past and only look to the future, we can't do it completely.

However, please don't have the same thoughts as you, because if you continue like this, you will become more and more depressed, and it will be an absolute threat to your feelings. It's normal to have a love experience and a sexual experience, everyone is an adult, I love her, I will tolerate everything about her, and if you don't love it, you should break up. Think of it that way.

Love the house and Wu, ask yourself, if you really love her, please cherish her ......If you feel unfair, then you ...... to tell her the reasons why you think it's unfairMore communication is the key ...... for you to solve problems

Wishing you happiness!

If you love her, you will tolerate her. No one has the right to change someone else's past, and you should face up to the reality.

I suddenly feel that you have to take a look at this article, it has also given me a lot of inspiration, Zhang Xiaoxian wrote, I hope you can figure it out.

Someday, you will give it up".

The woman said, "I really want to leave him, but I can't bear it every time." ”

Two people have been together for a long time, and it is not possible to break up at one time. obviously made up his mind to break up with him, but after separation, he was reluctant, and in less than a week, the two of them got back together. After getting back together for a while, I still couldn't stand him, and this time, I really made up my mind to break up.

After separation, I was reluctant. A month later, the two walked together again.

The woman said pessimistically: "Do you want to live like this for the rest of your life?" ”

Believe me, one time at last, you'll give up.

I can't bear him because I can't go over. There were happy days with him, and although it was not as good as it used to be, he used to be so good. How can you give up on him?

After leaving, he went back, because he could not go before he was promoted. After every quarrel, I used the happy days to forgive him. In the memory, he is good, so forget it.

Can't stand him, this time it's really going to leave him. However, because he was reluctant to go before, he was given another chance. Every time Xiaoran was dissatisfied with him, he used the happiest days to forgive him. In his memory, he once scored 100 points.

However, happy memories also run out one day. One day, you have to admit that those good days are gone forever and can no longer be used to forgive him. At this time, you will be willing.

It would be nice to stay in a different place.

I'm the same, falling in love with an impossible person, every time I want to leave, but I'm reluctant, leaving will only make you miss her (him) more, face it bravely!

I made a third party and cooled things out! I really want to scold you! Never mind. Save my word.

I think you should break up with him, there are many times in life when you need to be rational and not too emotional. You may feel that this relationship is the whole of your life now, but please note that you are only 20 years old, and there is still a long way to go, if the truth is as you said, I think the possibility of the two of you being together is almost zero, he does not want to divorce, and he refuses to part with you, so if it drags on like this, it will only be you who will suffer in the end, so it is better to let it go. Maybe when you look back at this relationship when you are 40 or 50 years old, you will feel that you are so naïve, and you will be dumbfounded and laugh at the original hesitation.

If you go on like this, it won't lead to anything, it's better for you to find someone who is the same age as you and has the conditions to live, really, women should know how to cherish themselves, don't always let men break your heart. You don't have to think about anything, such a man is unlikely to get divorced, besides, even if you are together, what about it, children are already something that cannot be abandoned in this life, love and life are different, love is love, life is life, and then the person who loves each other will wait until they get married, life will tend to be normal, simple, just live life, so, there is no need to pay for such a man's future, while he is still young, give up this relationship, and find another one.

Well, I think if he really loves you, you should understand him, he is a good father, but if he really loves his family, you should choose to quit, after all, he already has children and a wife, and he can't let go of them, so you should make a smart woman and find your own happiness again.

You've done a third party and you've cooled things out, so wake up quickly.

Can't you have room for her in your house? There is no place to live in the home of the first love, so what is the reaction of the parents in the other party's family? How can there be such parents?

If she behaves like this, it generally means that the other party's family has allowed the two to interact on the premise of marriage If she doesn't plan to marry someone else and still live in someone else's house like this Unless the boy's parents are not at home It's just that the boy agrees You are sober and sober Ask clearly, If she is really hesitant and doesn't know which of the two of you has strengths, you can give her a two days to consider, and after two days, there is no answer, then divide it, two days without an answer, but still living in someone's house, it means that my heart is still towards that boy This is my personal thought FYI.

That's not right, what kind of relationship is that, because friends, everyone is already married, even if she is a boy, it is inconvenient to go with that man's iron buddy, she has no place to live, and the man can be enthusiastic to help find a place You can lend her two or three hundred yuan first, and you can ask your wife to help arrange a convenient place for the girl to live The man deals with it like this, I think either he and his wife are not sensible, or the man is not authentic, and his wife is stupid, I think this girl is also an ignorant or not very authentic The way they dealt with this matter, I don't think this girl has a good idea, I don't know, I still have some illusions about this man, I think it's better to divide it, good girls have.

If you want to be reluctant And if you have a little money you can tell her I will subsidize you with 100 yuan a month You move out of his house You see her reaction If it is you who loves you in her heart If there is no ghost in her heart Her reaction must be happy I want to move out immediately If the reaction is weak or unwilling to move out Young man You can be sure that she has an idea in her heart At that time, you can decide whether to break up or not My opinion is not in favor of you being with her anyway.

The second floor analyzed it so right, he gave you the answer very seriously, and I was impressed by this responsible attitude.

Tell her if she doesn't have you in her heart.

Let's divide it.

Understand her, everyone has their own difficulties.

In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, it's just to escape from reality.

Love, no one can say clearly, love is also the hardest, I saw LZ's words, I was moved by your story.

In fact, when you meet him, the brilliance of your female mother's love has been enveloping him, so that he has not been able to grow up. This is also a big taboo for men.

After letting go, everything about him has nothing to do with you, but people are not grass and trees, and the feeling when they are together is so real and vivid. How can you give it up? Let it hurt, it will pass after all, once there is a crack in love, it can no longer be restored to its original state, poverty is not a problem, the question is whether that person has ambition, if there is, I believe that all parents in the world will agree.

As for whether he goes to find someone else or not, it's no longer a matter of concern for you, love him, just bless him.

Because you are people living in 2 worlds.

Everything is so different, even if you are together, your parents will strongly oppose it, and it is sad to have a relationship without the blessing of your parents.

It's like a tragedy that never ends... When you let go, you are born again, as the song says, "I thought you were the whole world."

But it was so far away that day, and after going around a circle, I realized that I had a farther horizon, and we were all right, just not suitable. ”

From Jolin Tsai's "The Taste of Lemongrass".

That's right, when you advance to different stages of life, you will have different feelings and understandings, and maybe many years later, when you think about this past, the choices you have made may represent your emotional impulsiveness and reason.

There are 2 choices that will lead to completely different life paths.

Okay, LZ, I hope you can slowly come out of this pain.

If you have the courage to face what you lose, you must also have the courage to face the next.

So, give yourself a quiet space to think about being a girl who not only has a beautiful appearance but also wisdom.

Because you are not dead, you still love him, so you will pay attention to him, after the lovers break up, if they can still be friends, it must be one party who is silently giving, and it is obvious that this person is you. You're still a more rational person, but you're also very emotional, so I suggest you go out for a walk or keep yourself busy. In addition, I also want to say that this man is not suitable for you, the man should not hurt a woman he loves like this, it will make him feel very useless, I think if he insists on not giving up on you, you can still be together now, but unfortunately he didn't insist, poverty is not terrible, what is terrible is that he has no courage to face it!

This pair of lovers should be able to do.

People live in pursuit of happiness. Including their own happiness, but also the happiness of their relatives and lovers. What's more, to live for the happiness of all mankind.

I know, maybe you will be confused, the reality is so cruel, how can there be happiness? Should people bow their heads under the eaves? Bow your head, feel uncomfortable, if you don't bow your head, you will die ugly.

First, I want to affirm that everyone has the ability to pursue happiness, both external and internal, and secondly, some objective circumstances are difficult to change, so sometimes we have to choose to change ourselves.

The pursuit of happiness can change one's attitude and focus on the beauty of life. See the value of suffering. You can also learn to give, feel the touch of others, and even pour a glass of water for the people you care about, you can make yourself happy.

Therefore, I believe that anyone who has a heart will definitely find happiness.

When people live in the world, there will definitely be contradictions with the environment, and there are only two choices, change the environment, or accept the environment.

There are many things that we can change, for example, we can't help but bow our heads under the eaves, so can we get out of the eaves and hold up our own world?

And what cannot be changed, or the cost of change is too great, we must learn to accept, to endure, to adapt. Human beings have been inherited for so many years, and what natural and man-made disasters have not been suffered, think about your ancestors, haven't you gone through a little suffering? Since they can do it, then you should be able to do it, after the storm is a rainbow, why bother yourself?

One last word for you.

If someone in the world bullies me, insults me, scolds me, insults me, and belittles me, I will endure him and let him do whatever he wants, and he will ignore him, and you will look at him in a few years. ”

No matter what major you are studying now, change to medical school right now, even if it is very troublesome, you have to study medicine, even if you are self-taught After this realization, she said, "No matter how I give me five years, I will heal you!" If I haven't fulfilled my promise after these 5 years, then I will end your life with my own hands!

Of course, I'm talking about something almost impossible! It's up to you!

Text her every day to tell her how much you value her, how much you care about her, say more encouraging words to her, and often tell her jokes.

You don't need to go into a long story, a few words of sincerity and encouragement can make a big difference.

Friend, although you are terminally ill, you must be strong, a better tomorrow is ahead, I believe that you can succeed.

If I were you, I would come to Beijing desperately, accompany her, give her confidence and encourage her, and look forward to a better future, because a good attitude is the most important thing for patients, maybe there will be miracles, and finally, I sincerely bless you

I really wish her to be able to **!

Admire her strength! I believe she can successfully overcome the difficulties!

Take the time to see such a strong friend!

What is your relationship?

Friend, confidant?

Hello girl.

A girl's heart can't be controlled.

But you still don't want to destroy the good of the family, don't be a third party, this will hurt you and their family a lot, and maybe the man is just playing, he is too rich, too insecure.

Since there is no love. Just leave ... BAD FOR YOU ...

Only those who love each other can be happy... If you think you can achieve ... If he is happy, you will be happy.

Even if you don't get married, you're willing to be with him. Then I can only say stupid woman. If you can't reach it.

Let's separate, this kind of person is not worth nostalgia. 4 years together. Say I haven't loved you ...

Do you still need to hesitate about this?