My family is against me being with my boyfriend who has no money now 10

Why do you have to get married now? If you want to live a good life, it is best to start a business first and then start a family, and then form a marriage after you have a certain material foundation, so that the marriage is fulfilling and secure. If you get married early when you don't have any foundation, and you worry about such and such practical problems all day after marriage, then this marriage is very dangerous.

You can talk to your family and ask them to give you a certain amount of time, three years of observation, and if your boyfriend is mixed up, then the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge. If he still can't achieve anything, then you don't have to wait for him any longer. A boy with a stable job must have a stable relationship with you?

After marriage, there is no possibility of emotional change. Why do you use the money you have from your family for a down payment and then work for the rest of your life to pay it out? Why don't you think about the bitter and then the sweet way, and now rush to put yourself in a heavy shackle, just so that I have a house in front of me?

100,000 yuan, it is possible to buy a house directly after three years of starting your own business. At that time, the family will still care about you to find a capable husband to rest assured? It is no longer a problem for you to support yourself, at that time you are most concerned about your feelings, and the economy is no longer a burden on you.

At that time, our sisters pursued sincere feelings.

I don't know which city you're in, his parents can give you 100,000 yuan to buy a house, and it's okay to make a down payment After all, it's all over, and the money for our marriage down payment is all saved by ourselves My parents gave 10,000 yuan, although it's not much, after all, the parents are also doing their best, and it's also a great help to us Now we have just bought a house As long as the two of them work well, the loan will be repaid slowly Everything is unpredictable It is not necessary for you to marry a rich person without feelings Who can guarantee that you will be happy What do you want to be happy, you still have to find it yourself.

If you love your boyfriend very much, don't listen to your family, otherwise you will sell yourself.

I'm inexperienced and can't say that your love isn't sincere. It can only be said that the reality is too cruel.

How to do it. I don't know. It's up to you to decide.

There is also the path you choose, and you have to finish it on your knees.

My '92 years of thinking was very traditional.

Break up How to live without money.

It's a very realistic thing that you'll know after you get married.

It is quite normal for husbands and wives to quarrel over these things.

Slowly the relationship broke down and thus parted ways.

I've heard and seen a lot of this kind of thing.

If you don't believe it, the bitter fruit will follow the marriage.

Nowadays, people are very wealth-oriented and light on righteousness.

Tell your boyfriend to touch them with filial piety!!

Ay! Me too, what to do!

The post-80s generation is also a generation that cannot resist fate.

I don't know, the marriage of two families.

The family conditions of the man are too good, and the family condition of the woman is average, and this situation has the following possibilities: First, for the man, the family condition of the woman's maiden family is also an important condition for marriage.

After all, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid of marrying the wrong wife. The man doesn't want to put all the pressure on himself; Worried that the other party's family will increase the burden on him, the man will not consider getting married in this case. Second:

If the boy is capable enough to handle the relationship between the family of origin and you, and the boy is tolerant, understanding and trusting of each other, the man is willing to consider getting married. On the contrary, if his communication skills are not strong, he doesn't feel hurt if the stick doesn't hit him, Ma Bao Nan can't do without his parents, and his parents are a community of interests, and he doesn't have enough sense of independence, and the last two people will definitely not be able to walk together.

2. The family conditions of women are too good, and the family conditions of men are average, and this situation has the following possibilities:

First: The woman with a good family did not look down on the man, and the man was not discouraged because of his poor family conditions, and the two people tolerate, understand and trust each other, and may be able to come together.

Second: If the woman's family is really good to you, and the two families do not dislike each other, the man should work harder and maybe be together.

Third: It depends on whether the boy can work hard and change the economic conditions. It depends on whether the girl can let go of her good feelings about herself, not to measure her feelings by economic conditions, but also to see whether the relationship between the two people is compatible, able to grow together, share the wind and rain, and support each other.

This depends on whether you and your boyfriend get along or not, if you get along, it's suitable to continue, and if you don't get along, it's not suitable to continue.

1.You're right, because the future is on your own, not on your family's conditions. So you want your boyfriend to do something, but your boyfriend keeps changing jobs, which makes you feel lost.

So you are a little confused about this relationship, you don't know how to choose, the more confused you are, the more you have to ask yourself how the relationship with your boyfriend is, if the relationship is okay, and you can accept everything about him, then it is suitable to continue. If you can't accept it, then it's not suitable to continue, because you can't barely be happy.

2.It's up to you to decide, how do you feel with him? Can it get along?

Only you know this best. If he feels that he can get along, he continues. After all, you don't need to worry about money at all in your married life.

In fact, there is no need to be so ambitious, although it is very important to rely on yourself, but there is a lot of money that cannot be spent, and there is less need to actively make money, money is not enough, and if there is no shortage, money is useless. So if you can get along emotionally, then it's appropriate to continue. If it doesn't get along, then it's not suitable to continue.

In short, whether you and your boyfriend are suitable to continue depends on how your relationship is? If the relationship is deep, then it is suitable to be together, because the family conditions are superior, and you can struggle for many years less in the future. If you don't get along with him, then everything is a problem and it's not suitable to continue.

I don't think it's actually suitable to continue to be together, because he is not self-motivated, no matter how much he says, no matter how rich he is, it is his family's money, not your family's money.

A: Don't think about the money of your boyfriend's parents, you have to rely on your own feelings. The money of your boyfriend's parents is not necessarily yours, don't want to marry into a wealthy family and be blessed.

If you don't particularly like your boyfriend, but he is in good condition, you can also tolerate him, his work is very ordinary, but his family can give him some subsidies, if your boyfriend does not have many shortcomings, you can also accept him, as long as you still have feelings for him. His family's money will definitely be spent on his boyfriend, but it may not be necessary to give you flowers, because after you get married, his parents will definitely give some money, but it will be used on his son and may not be used on you, if your boyfriend is not strong and the salary is not high, it is difficult to get promoted, because he has been spoiled, and he will not work his own.

Personally, I think that in this case, whether the two of you should be together, first of all, should be combined with the importance you attach to this relationship, on the other hand, the important basis for determining whether the two of you are together is not that your friend does not know that God is not working well, but in the process of getting along with you, whether you can tolerate your boyfriend's attitude towards you, if you really can't stand his attitude of control over you, Then I personally think that it is meaningless to be reluctant to be together in such a relationship.

It depends on what you choose. If you think that your boyfriend is not as motivated and poor as you, then it means that you don't approve of him, and you don't like his person, but his family. So the important thing is to know your heart when you choose.

I think the two sides had a lot of trouble before they got married, and even more so after they got married, so it's best not to be together.

Judging by your description, since your boyfriend is very good to you, and the family is quite rich, although your boyfriend is very poor at the moment, but in the future when you get married, his parents will probably subsidize you.

If you want to be a man, your family is rich and wants to be a man, you are self-motivated and capable, such people are rare, and if you have him, you may not be able to look down on you. You can either find a phoenix man, the family is poor, and he can earn money by himself. Either the family conditions are good, and the self is average.

There is no perfect perfection in the world, and it is not your turn, everyone is a good man, including his family is also very picky, and you also want to find a woman with good conditions and strong ability, right?

I understand, the family has money, but the child is very poor, I can only say that this boy's tutoring is very strict, and the boy is also very able to restrain himself, he should be a promising young man, this kind of person is worthy of your trust, can you give one.

As you said, the situation should mainly depend on whether you love him, whether he loves you, and whether the run-in between you can be conducive to the development of your relationship!

Use. Because money is earned, as long as you and your boyfriend work together, you will be happy in the future.

I think if you really love your boyfriend, you should fight with him, and if you don't really love him, you can choose not to fight with him.

If you and he want to start a family, they need to work together. You can't reach out to your family anymore and ask for money, it's a family of the two of you.

Whatever you want! You don't want to be anyone.

Even if no one wants to, he alone may struggle for better.

Ask questions with your brain! If you have money, you don't have to struggle, right?

When it comes to marriage, the first thing we consider is bank loans, housing loans, car loans, and the necessary expenses for marriage. Most of the girls with good conditions are married, and the remaining girls are always looking for rich and handsome boys, but on the way to find them, they have also become older youths. The original family is not a choice, and it is not his fault that the family is poor. This cannot be taken as an original sin denying your happiness.

I think as long as my boyfriend is self-motivated, then I think I can definitely get married. How many children from poor families have changed the level of themselves and their families through their own efforts. As long as he has the ability, confidence and determination to struggle, he will definitely support you for a piece of the sky.

If your boyfriend's parents are relatively poor, but they are honest and kind, and can cherish you as a daughter-in-law, then you can get along with the old man after marriage. If the other party's parents are bitter and mean, and they have a small belly and chicken intestines, then after marriage, just the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can annoy you to death, what happiness can you talk about. When a woman marries, she must see whether the other party's parents and parents are compatible, otherwise there will always be endless conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law whether the family is poor or rich, and finally affect the relationship between husband and wife.

No matter how deep the love is, it can't resist endless contradictions. If two people really like each other and cherish each other, then when they reach the age of talking about marriage, they still face marriage problems correctly, put their feelings first in the face of each other, and then work together to build a beautiful Garden of Eden after marriage.

After all, there are still relatively few princesses and princes who are rich and handsome or ideal, and at the same time, I also wish the single friends who pass by to meet him in life one day earlier, achieve each other, and be happy on the road to marriage. Falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. If the in-laws are not in harmony, then the problem is not only the mother-in-law but also the object, the qualified object is to say good things about their own object in front of their parents, and say good things about their parents in front of their own objects, and strive to maintain this relationship to establish a good relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In the end, the importance of your mother-in-law may be a shadow of the subject's attitude towards you.

At this time, you can see if your boyfriend is self-motivated and responsible, if your boyfriend is very good, even if he has no money in the family, you can choose to be with him.

Marriage is just a formality, as long as you have true love and get a certificate to register, it is also considered marriage. In the future, when you create wealth with your own hands, it will not be too late to make up the wedding. Foreign children are divorced from their parents at the age of eighteen, and their independent life is generally held when they can afford to hold a wedding, isn't it also very happy?

No, there is no money at home, and you have to be with him when you get married, because money is not everything, money can be earned by two people together, as long as there is affection, everything else is a small problem.

If your boyfriend's family doesn't have any money, you don't want to be with him, because you can't bear this kind of relationship, and you don't want to put your feelings into a life without material things.

Your boyfriend's family has no money, so when you met him, didn't you know his home conditions? I'm going to get married, and at this point, you don't care about his financial conditions anymore, I think it's a little late.

If you are very poor, you will not be happy even if you get married, because there are too many places involved in marriage, so think about whether you still need to go with him.

It's up to the two of you. If he really loves you and is super good to you, it is also possible to consider being together, and the two of them work together to make money.

Yes. Because each of us can't choose our original family by ourselves, as long as we work hard and are excellent, we can be together.