I choose to give up on a woman who has changed my mind, what should I do to comfort my wounded heart

Updated on society 2024-05-18
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hehe, it's you who give yourself your own troubles, people are like this, and if you can't get it, you will be more "loved" If it's too easy, you ignore it! In fact, you know very well that you may not love her as much as before, and you must have been sad before, maybe she will give it to you again, for such a person, you don't have to be like this! You should cherish the people around you, good horses don't eat back grass!

    Don't be eaten by others again! To truly love someone, you must understand and unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other party, not to ask for many of the other party; Be romantic, but don't waste it; Feel free to hold hands, but don't let go easily. If you love someone, you should love to eight points, and the remaining two points should be used to love yourself.

    Don't try to touch love with tears, because that's not love. Everything is fate, love what you love, there is heart and gold, there is love to have today, persistence is victory.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's very simple, if she changes her mind, you give up. After all, he is a person who does not love himself. You should live stronger and happier.

    She will know that leaving you is her loss. She is gone, so go find her own love and grasp her own love. As long as you are worthy of your conscience, you don't feel guilty about yourself.

    I wish you a happy soon.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    To be honest, I'm quite like you. I used to be like this, with an inferior self-esteem and cowardice, biased and extreme values, unable to handle things, and only knowing how to escape. Sometimes unwarranted sorrow, sometimes indifferent and ruthless, uncertain in the heart, and insomnia.

    Although you are asking how to get your girlfriend back, I would say that what you should do more is to change yourself. Your problem is already quite serious, but fortunately, you can still realize your mistake.

    Based on my experience, I think there are two ways to solve the problem, one is to adjust one's own heart, and the other is to improve the relationship with others. I know it's easier said than done, and the first thing to do about adjusting yourself is to shift your focus, preferably find something you're interested in, and then put your heart and soul into it, so that you don't have time to think about it, and maybe hone your character and values in the process. The second thing to do is to know yourself.

    Understanding oneself is something that must be done all life, and only by constantly reflecting and adjusting will the self continue to improve.

    It's really hard to improve relationships, I still have interpersonal barriers, and although I know what I'm doing, I find it hard to change. I think the landlord probably has a similar experience, the landlord should be relatively young, malleable, so I think the landlord has found himself in the current problem, must find ways to change. If the landlord is willing, you can express your confusion and obstacles to your girlfriend, and express your hope that you will work with her to change all this, although you may have broken her heart many times, but I think she still loves you in her heart, and I believe that she is willing to help you.

    I sincerely hope you are happy.

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