Parents Are Getting Divorced Why Are Parents Getting Divorced?

Oh, my God.. Your dad is horrible! Divorce decisively, it doesn't matter how much property you and your mother can get, the most important thing now is that you two should leave him as soon as possible and start your life again in another place! Come on, I wish you all happiness!

Find a good lawyer to help you and your mother, as well as the Women's Federation, the Association for the Care of the Next Generation, when your father says threatening words and commits domestic violence, you can quietly record and video as evidence, report 110 in case of crisis, and keep your mobile phone unblocked.

Go to a law firm near you for a specific consultation, the consultation fee is not too expensive, and some are charged by the hour.

If there is no emotion, divorce is also a relief.

Hmmm·· My parents were going to get divorced a few days ago.

I advise if you are patient.

You can tell them some emotional truths.

For example, it has been difficult for them to be together for so many years.

Or, just yourself, so that you can have a warm and happy family.

Let them not get a divorce.

Tell them how much you miss this home.

How much I love them.

Parents are generally impressed.

Or well. Ask relatives for help.

There's nothing you can't talk about between adults.

I don't know the specific situation of your family, so I can only say so much.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

I wish you a happy home! ~

I wish your parents a speedy reconciliation! Uranium!

Friends and parents often quarrel at home, and every day they either drop things or point at each other's noses and scold.

In the past, she would pretend to know how to please her parents, but what she got was criticism full of complaints:

I don't divorce your dad, it's not for you, can you save me worry every day, just supporting you is enough to upset me......”

These parents probably never realize that the birth of a child will not bring a consolidated effect to this already fragmented family relationship.

Instead, it has become a card in their hands, and every time "for you" puts a shackle on the child.

Over time, the child's personality will become more and more sensitive, and he will always put himself in a full sense of guilt.

When I was helping in a counseling facility, I met a young boy whose parents were married because they were married, and there was no affection between them.

After running in for a while, they found that they still couldn't get together, so they wanted to end the marriage, but at this time, the little boy's mother found out that she was pregnant.

For the sake of the child, the two chose to continue to live together, but there is no common word between the two people at all, and every day except silence is a quarrel.

This lasted for almost six years, and then the boy's father had someone outside, and every time he came home, he would beat his wife and the boy.

According to the little boy himself, he was beaten by his father for the first time when he was just over four years old, and has been beaten regularly since then. Although his mother would protect the little boy, every time there was only mother and son left in the house, his mother would push him away and complain

If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have lived this kind of life. If it weren't for you, I would have divorced him a long time ago. ”

This is the kind of thing that the mother would often say to the little boy. Therefore, as a result, the little boy often blames himself for his psychological problems, and even when it is serious, he will punish himself in a way.

You see, a child who is not yet 6 years old begins to doubt life, and he even thinks that it is his own existence that makes his mother so sad.

But is the problem really in this child? Not. Because of his parents' marriage, they were destined not to be happy from the beginning, they just got married for the sake of getting married, and after running in for a while, they couldn't get along together.

At that time, even if I found out that I was pregnant, there was no need to forcibly tie up and live with someone who was not compatible with me, because that kind of life could be seen at a glance, and there was no happiness at all.

Who said that if you give your children enough warmth and enough love, you must make your marriage survive? If you are strong enough, you can also give your child enough warmth and love.

Parents often criticize and fight their children, so that teenagers do not enjoy the love of father, mother, and the warmth of family, and some only have fear, worry, and disappointment. Children who grow up in such families are often introverted, withdrawn and inferior, and they are afraid to tell their parents the truth for fear of being beaten and scolded for it.

Think about it, for example, if you have a special aversion to a thing or thing, but this food or thing is dangling in front of you every day, what will happen to your body and mind in the long run?!

It will definitely be worse than death, emotional collapse, or distorted personality, serious physical health problems, such a marriage partner, bring you negative energy of emotion, is it necessary to exist So, if parents feel Chun Cong broke up, just follow their meaning.