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Instead of thinking that you are doing this as a sign of a coward and a person who can't help him, I also think that you should really help your friends ask if you can get a discount. Now there are countless fitness clubs and various classes in Beijing, the competition is very fierce, you pull four students for them at once, which is something they can't do themselves, not to mention that their class fees and training fees are actually huge profits, you go to say that not only will not be rejected by them, in their eyes it is also a very cost-effective deal, and you can also get the admiration and trust of friends, why not do it.

Your mother's words are not wrong, parents are actually selfless to their own children, and they will definitely not be able to treat other people's children as their own, so you don't have to blame your mother too much, if you really want to blame yourself, you can't take a firm position. You can have another solution to this matter, you can ask your coach for the classmate's preferential things, but you also promised your mother that you don't have to do it, pretend to agree with your mother's approach and then go home and tell your mother that the coach can't add classes, but the coach is very attentive to me, better than others, you say this Mom will also be happy, although her idea has not been realized, but she just wants you to learn more real skills, since the coach has added to your blue eyes, then the purpose is also disguised to be satisfied, So mom won't really annoy you, and your classmates can also get discounts. But you know your mother's hard work and temper, but you still try to solve it, but you don't add the class, you offend your mother, you don't ask about your classmates, and your classmates don't seem to be so righteous, they all mess up, and you still complain and get angry, and let yourself have questions about whether it's useless for yourself.

But since this is already the case, there is no need to compete too much with yourself, your mother is purely worried about your future life, and you will have many opportunities to prove that you are not bad in the future, and your mother will slowly let go. Tomorrow, when the classmates go, they will fight with the coach again in front of the classmates, no matter whether they can discount or not, the classmates will not think that you are perfunctory to them, and the matter can be handled like this, so don't worry too much.

But what I want to say is another thing, from this matter you can see that you are a more contradictory person, the personality is sometimes easy to entangle, and your mother is relatively strong, you will slowly grow up and graduate from the society, maybe your mother is a better businessman, this is worth learning, but many times, if you want to achieve a career, you must have your own way of thinking about things and thinking, you must be decisive and persistent. If you want to be a happy social person, sometimes you have to learn to say no to opinions that seem to be beneficial to you but require you to go against your will, and know how to choose and reject. In this way, it will be less tangled and depressed.

There will always be positive and negative poles in life, and if you want to choose wealth or live happily, it may be where you need to learn more.

Having said all this, I hope it will be beneficial to you. Best wishes!

Friends to accompany you to practice is to help you, and then from them as a profit for yourself is a little inappropriate, to explain to friends, the discount is to return to them.

Well, support you ......

Your mother said that completely shows that she is planning for your future and has begun to cultivate your way of survival, she is also for your good, and it is not easy to be a mother, so you should communicate with her calmly! ...

The adults' ideas are very strange, in fact, they are very selfish, although it is for our good, but we just want to play with our classmates, and we are happy.

1. It is difficult to be a man with a truth, but it is easy to be a man with a lie.

2. If you practice in good times, you will never become a Buddha.

3. It is difficult to be a man who has never been poor, and he will never be innocent without being beaten.

4. It is difficult to be a good person, and the bottom line is all floating clouds in the workplace.

5. To be honest, being a man can be as cheap as you are in the orange steak hall, and it is rare to be really round.

6. It's really hard to be a man, if you have a good temper, you will say that you are cowardly, and if you have a bad temper, you will say that you are rushing.

7. The art of teaching this Bixue is not about the ability to teach, but about motivating, awakening, and encouraging.

8. For the first time as a man, I have worked very hard, but it is really difficult to be a man.

It's really tiring to do things (Wuhan Jiao Chengsong).

Summary. Shanglian: It's hard to be a person, but everyone is still being a person.

Downlink: Life is sad, but everyone is living.

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Shanglian: It's hard to be a person, but everyone is still being a person. Downlink: Life is sad, but everyone is living.

People learn from the old.

People have an end to learning from the old, and there is no end to learning.

Analyze to see how to do the best, and then do it, dare to be responsible for yourself, learn knowledge, summarize lessons and lessons, think more, have your own opinions, have your own thinking and perception, treat people with sincerity, only sincerity can last for a long time, penetrate people's hearts.

It's hard to be a good person, but we still have to be a good person. ”

After experiencing such great grief and the subsequent toss, I still have a good heart, I don't know how Mr. Lin did it. Perhaps, because he was originally a kind person.

In this world, being a good person is never easy.

Remember Valjean in Les Misérables? He was sentenced for stealing a piece of bread to satisfy his hunger, he was burdened with a lifelong responsibility for saving a strange woman, he gave up his hard-earned life because he didn't want innocents to take the blame for himself, he raised his daughter but didn't get understanding, and he didn't get gratitude for saving his descendants.

After being redeemed by the priest, Valjean became a good person in the true sense of the word, and everything he did and every choice he made was in line with heaven and goodness. But as a result, he continued to encounter tragic fate, and was constantly forced by fate until the end of his life.

If this is the price of being a good person, this is the fate of being a good person, are you willing to accept it?

The so-called "Les Miserables" is a world where good people are hard to do.

Now is no longer the era of Hugo's pen, the modern economy is developed, science and technology are prosperous, and the living standards of human beings have been greatly improved, especially in recent decades, China's economic development has attracted the attention of the world, and it is necessary to achieve the great rejuvenation of the nation.

But even in times like these, being a good person is still not an easy task.

To be a good person, you can't help but speak up when you encounter injustice in society, you can't help but lend a hand when you see someone in difficulty, you want to make changes when you see unreasonable phenomena, and you want to make a better world when you find an unsatisfactory world.

And all this, needless to say, everyone knows, is difficult and comes at a cost.

Yes, being a good person is hard and costly. However, if you give up doing it because of the difficulty and because of the high cost, then when you encounter injustice, there will be no one to speak up, and when you encounter difficulties, no one will lend a hand, and the unreasonable phenomenon will become more and more common, and there will be more and more dissatisfaction.

So, Mr. Lin is right. It's hard to be a good person, but we still have to be a good person. ”

It's hard to be a person, and it's even harder to be a good person! Especially in modern society, it is so difficult to be a man, and it is too deep and shallow! Certainty is important!

Just keep a normal mind! Treat everyone with sincerity and sincerity, and I believe that it will be affirmed by others! It would be nice to have a clear conscience!

In fact, it is not difficult, because the loss of good people is temporary, and when you meet good people who do good deeds like you, you will find you. Although it is difficult to be a good person, but your conscience does not allow you to be a bad person, whether you are understood or misunderstood by others, as long as you are worthy of your conscience, you will not have any regrets. What do you say, friend?

I wish you a safe life!

In general, we usually refer to people who do good deeds as good people and people who do bad things as bad people.

However, things are often complicated, and in our lives, there are many examples of good people doing bad things, and although bad people do good things, it is not uncommon. Therefore, strictly speaking, doing good or bad deeds cannot be used as a criterion for judging a person whether they are good or bad.

It's harder to be a bad person, and others hate you and have a bad conscience.

After all, there is too much pain to endure that should not be endured (a).

Friend, please don't be too sad, although it is difficult to be a good person, but your conscience does not allow you to be a bad person, whether you are understood or misunderstood by others, as long as you are worthy of your conscience, you will not have any regrets. What do you say, friend?

I wish you a safe life!

Everyone sighs that it is difficult to be a man. Come to think of it, it's so hard to be a human being! Whether the economic conditions are good or bad, whether the working environment is good or bad, whether the family situation is harmonious, whether the individual is healthy, these problems are already difficult to deal with, and what is even more annoying and difficult to deal with is the endless interpersonal relationships.

In reality, how many people with lofty ideals are not overwhelmed by the burden of life, but are dizzy and anxious all day long in the whirlpool of interpersonal relationships.

I often see some philosophical quotes, aphorisms, and mottos:

Go your own way and let others say go! ”

People, don't live for others to see, live for yourself. ”

People, to maintain the independence of life, to live their own personality! Be independent! ”…

How well to say! Who can not admit that these are wise quotes? However, if you put these statements into real life, you will find that this is all wishful thinking, and the truth is not so simple.

It's like learning to swim in dry land, where theories are the truth, but when you jump into the water, all theories lose their effectiveness, and all that's left is to flutter around in the water involuntarily.

It is not difficult for people to abide by the laws and regulations of the country in the world, but the difficult thing is that they cannot get rid of the various unspoken rules of dealing with people who are at a loss. Because it makes people not deep, shallow, advanced, retreat, participate, get rid of, and it is difficult to be a person inside and out. It makes you involuntarily follow your feelings to the abyss of life.

Mr. Lu Xun also said with great emotion that he was "making a literary network, resisting the world and violating the world." It seems that the "world situation" is difficult to disobey! "Resisting the world" is more dangerous.

No matter how powerful a person is, he doesn't dare to rashly resist the unspoken rules of these human affairs.

It is difficult to be a man, and it is difficult to "do". "Do" means "perform". It's not that you want to "do" (perform), nor do you "do" (perform) for yourself, but "do" (perform) for others, it is the situation that forces you to do it, and it is "doing" (acting) for others to see.

Naturally, if it is done for others to see, it is necessary to allow others to judge and make irresponsible remarks. Therefore, the quality of a person is not up to oneself, but depends on the evaluation of others. However, the people around us are very different, good and bad, and besides, each person's position, viewpoint, method, standard, and quality are different, so the evaluation of people is also different.

It's impossible for everyone to give a perfect score. It's good to be a man who can give the world a "pass".