What do I have to do with my boyfriend so that he doesn t hit me?

I always feel that whether you are right or wrong, you will always be wrong. Men shouldn't make women cry, and men shouldn't make women cry. No matter how bad he is in a bad mood, that's not a reason for him to hit you.

You should have clearly explained to him that if you keep doing this, you will only connive at him to be more presumptuous in the future, and keep beating you, and the more you go on, the more justified and taken for granted. You love him, but love is two people who respect each other, and he does both, which means that he doesn't respect you. If he loves you, you should know how to love you.

You have to explain to him that no matter how bad he is in a bad mood, but the premise is not to beat you, let him say it, solve the problem together, share it together, and do something he likes, so that everyone is happy.

It's not that you want to please him and tolerate him all the time.

Take 11,000,000 steps back and say: Divide, he will never be able to beat you.

I wish you happiness, I wish you happiness.

Are you really sure that you are in love? In what case, even if a woman says the wrong thing, a man should not hit a woman, not to mention that you are still a woman he loves, who would be willing to beat his beloved, if it is his habit to beat people, then you yourself have to think carefully You love him and accept everything from him, even if you are wronged. Or explain to him that his habit is not good, so that he should be, but you will inevitably have disputes in the process of persuading him, I hope you must be mentally prepared and have patience to persuade him.

All things go according to him, let this him. Don't bother him when he's angry.

What is love Love is to be able to beat your beloved, so if it is still called love, then I don't know who would dare to accept this kind of love.

I didn't get married before I got married....Wouldn't it be more terrible to get married...Let's consider breaking up...There are a lot of good men....Why bother with yourself...

If you love each other, they won't hit you.

A breakup won't hit you.

Call back, if he still beats you, break up, if you really love you, you still can beat you?

Summary. Hello, happy to answer your questions. For whatever reason, I don't think boys should hit girls. There are only 0 or countless times of domestic violence. It is advisable to talk about this matter. Hope it helps

Hello, happy to answer your questions. For whatever reason, I don't think boys should hit girls. There are only 0 or countless times of domestic violence. It is advisable to talk about this matter. Hope it helps

Haha, we're like this, I think my boyfriend can hit me, but he can't hit me for no reason, he must warn me before beating, for example, if he doesn't like me today, he has to tell me, and then let me go to the side, and then he will beat me when he sees me again, or I bought a pair of expensive high heels for more than 100 yuan behind his back, so he can beat me.

Then you think this is your way of getting along, although I don't agree with it, but I can understand it. Then it can only be the two of you who communicate together and make rules.

For example, two days ago, I bought a pair of high-heeled shoes for more than 100 yuan, thinking about shopping and wearing, he thought I was a loser, and he didn't tell him, he didn't like the shoes, he didn't think they were high enough, so he slapped me, made me admit my mistake, and then punished me, and I now know that I was wrong.

Well, if you feel that you have done something wrong and it has passed, then don't mention it again. There will be new things happening every day, don't let go of the past, how to free up your hands to embrace the beauty of tomorrow

I'm still a little unconvinced, in fact, do you say 100 yuan is expensive (we have a total of 3000 a month), and he wants me to buy 14 cm, I buy 12 cm, anyway, he asked me to return, and then I can't return it after wearing, I don't dare to tell him, and I want to borrow 100 yuan from my colleagues, you say you want to tell him.

Oh, it's a pity. 100 yuan is really not expensive, there is no need to borrow it from a colleague, otherwise you will not be able to pay it back. And you buy something because you like it, not because he likes it. There is also the suggestion that you can't save the source, so that everyone is good.

Let's talk to him, take the initiative to let him punish me, he shouldn't be too angry, at most give a few mouths, and squat in the corner of the house for a few nights.

Well, then I respect your decision.

Legal analysis: As long as it is a crime to hit someone, if it causes minor injuries to the other party, it can be punished according to the Public Security Punishment Law, and the beater can be fined and detained. If a minor injury or more is caused, the person shall be investigated for criminal responsibility under the criminal law and may be sentenced to imprisonment.

If you assault another person for intentional purposes, or intentionally injure another person's body, the other party must be assessed to have a slight injury or more before Xiaokuan may constitute a crime. Although it may not constitute a crime, it will be illegal and will be punished accordingly.

Legal basis: "Law of the People's Republic of China on Public Security Administration Punishments" Article 43 Whoever assaults another person or intentionally harms another person's body shall be detained for not less than 5 days but not more than 10 days and shall also be fined between 200 and 500 RMB; where the circumstances are more minor, they are to be detained for up to 5 days or fined up to 500 RMB. In any of the following circumstances, they are to be detained for between 10 and 15 days and fined between 500 and 1,000 RMB

ganging up to beat or injure others; Assaulting or injuring a disabled person, a pregnant woman, a person under the age of 14, or a person over the age of 60; Assaulting or injuring others multiple times, or assaulting or injuring multiple people at a time. The crime of assembling a crowd to fight refers to the act of forming a gang to fight out of personal vendetta, hegemony or other hooligan motives.

Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China Article 292 Those who assemble a crowd to fight shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention or controlled release for the ringleaders and others who actively participate, and those who actively participate shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years: where a crowd is gathered to fight multiple times; Gathering a crowd to brawl with a large number of people, a large scale, and a vile social impact; Gathering crowds to fight in public places or on major transportation routes, causing serious disorder in social order; Armed people gather to fight. Where a crowd is assembled to fight, causing serious injury or death, it is to be convicted and punished in accordance with the provisions of articles 234 and 232 of this Law.

Boyfriends are not allowed to be beaten.

You can persuade patiently, and girls should also know how to be tolerant. Your boyfriend is not your slave, you are not his parents, and he is not your child. You don't have the right to scold anyone.

Affection is nurtured and mutually respectful. Love is not scolded, feelings are not scolded, lovers should tolerate each other, respect and understand each other.

When there is unsatisfactory, you can patiently persuade you not to storm and thunder, otherwise, love is easy to lose, and love is difficult to find. When there is a problem between the two, they can communicate like Bi, many times the reason for the quarrel between men and women often comes from not knowing how to communicate, and some things can be solved with one sentence, but in the end they part ways.

The right way for couples to get along:

1. Respect each other

Couples should respect each other. Each of us will have some little secrets in our hearts, and even two people who are very close to each other cannot tell all their secrets to each other. Therefore, if you want this relationship to last for a long time, then both couples should not be forced to ask each other about their inner secrets, and they should not always check each other's mobile phones.

Be sure to leave some privacy for the other person.

2. Communicate more and think more about each other

Couples should think more about each other. During college, everyone didn't have much pressure from life, didn't need to shoulder the heavy responsibility of supporting their families, and didn't quite understand the taste of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Once you enter the society, the pressure from life will increase, and everyone will encounter some problems in work and life, so couples should also think more about each other when they return home.

3. Keep your promises

Some boys are like a type, love to brag, love to draw big cakes, and always say some bold words, such as "how to do it in the future", "how to wait for money", in fact, this kind of person is the easiest to make girls chill, because in the eyes of girls, since you have promised, you should do it, at least you have to take action, you don't even act, then girls will think that you are very unreliable.

What I'm going to say next is not aimed at you, and if it makes you feel uncomfortable, I recommend turning it off immediately.

First of all, it's not right for your boyfriend to hit you, but if you can put yourself in his shoes, then you understand why he's hitting you.

From your description of him, you can tell that your boyfriend loves you very much, and you know that very well. But because of your ex's affairs, he has a knot in his heart, and this knot is caused by you.

Let's give you an analysis of why.

First of all, you didn't let go of your ex. I don't know if it's because you love him too much, or if you don't have self-respect. For the same man ** three times, do you know what it means?

Not to mention harming the body, such behavior will directly affect future fertility, and you didn't tell him about it from beginning to end, but he found out by himself. Can you imagine how painful he was at that moment?

The second point, do you know that your ex is a scumbag and keeps his things, saying that it is because you see him pitiful? Do you want to block it when you post a circle of friends? Aren't you worried about being seen by your ex?

As for what you are worried about, you know best. Please stop kidding yourself!! How do you know he's really pitiful?

Even if it's really pitiful? Don't forget who caused you great pain. It's clear that you can't let go of this relationship.

What normal man who really loves you wouldn't be mad about it? I can tell you responsibly, yes. Besides, you're still a scumbag you can't let go.

The last point, and the point you are most concerned about, why did your boyfriend who has always loved you beat you? Because his pain has accumulated too much, your attitude, your approach, and his dedication to you directly lead to his collapse. I don't know if you recognize your selfishness, at least from these descriptions of yours, what I see is that your boyfriend blindly gives, and you just take it for granted.

Feelings are a matter between two people, the more you love him, the more he loves you, any unbalanced relationship will eventually break.

Finally my advice. If you really want to continue to live well with him, please adjust your mentality first. Who doesn't have a few big holes in their life?

Stepping over the past is growth. Let go of your past, cherish your present, let him see your changes, and the man who loves you will love you even more.

If you think you can't do it, then please let it go, at least get together and disperse.

I wish you happiness!