How can you not mind your boyfriend s past?

If I don't mind that it's not normal, I will also mind my boyfriend's past, and even if he is my husband now, I will still think about his past when I don't know it.

I feel like any woman has the right to think that way, because you care about him, so you care about his past. But if this kind of care only affects your emotions at a certain time, I don't think it matters, a normal woman will be a little uncomfortable when she hears her ex-girlfriend.

I think time is very important, and you are now invisibly comparing the time you spend together with the time they are together, but time and feelings are sometimes not proportional. On the contrary, I think you should slowly reduce her influence on you as time goes by, and finally when you really don't care so much, your relationship will also reach the most stable time.

As a woman, it's very tiring, I want to open up a little bit of everything, be kind to myself, and a bad mood can easily affect my body. Hopefully, you'll be able to come out of this shadow soon. After all, he's with you now.

If your boyfriend is genuinely good to you, then to some extent, it is completely possible not to recommend that your boyfriend's past be honest with your boyfriend and try to communicate with your boyfriend, so that your boyfriend can understand your true inner thoughts.

This matter requires the efforts of both of you, first of all, you must draw a line from the boyfriend's side and never have any more contacts, otherwise it will hurt your feelings very much. On the other hand, you also have to let go of this burden mentally, after all, it is in the past tense.

The boyfriend's past, as a girlfriend, will definitely mind, if you don't want to suggest, then through the tempering of life and communication with the other party, open the knot, so that both parties don't mind each other's past, in order to deal with this relationship well!

To love someone is to learn to accept his past and create the future with him. If you really like him, don't dwell on his past, you can think like this: I came a little late, come early, his past and future will be mine.

Let him pass in the past, as long as the present is good, everyone will make mistakes.

If you really love him and want to live happily with him, you won't mind anymore, you will only care about how happy you are in the future. Cherish the happiness of being together!

In fact, you also have to look at yourself, you have to understand that the past is all in the past, and you must cherish the present.

I think it's better to ask less about my boyfriend's past, the past is gone, and the things that have passed away can never come back, so why bother.

Love him now, and he will be worthy of your love in the future.

Most lovers care about each other's past, and what you have to solve now is how to accept his past.

My husband and I also mention each other's exes when we are in a relationship, and I also have some minds about his first love. Because when he mentions his first love, he always shows a kind of regret. Maybe it's a pity that I wasn't brave enough at the time, so I lost this lover.

But I myself know that the past is the past, and if you meet this person at a very late hour, you can't mind that he has a past, because the past has made him who he is now. Because I have experienced regrets, I know how to cherish them more. And I'm trying to make myself less mindfulWill try to avoid talking about his past.

In fact, sometimes some things are in the past, but if you always dwell on these things of these people, it will make these people stay in his heart and his life for a longer time. You might as well treat it as an ordinary past, where you don't mention him and the other person doesn't mention him anymore.

Of course, if you really can't adjust yourself to such emotions, then you must tell the other person that you mind. Maybe it's because you love each other too much, or because you feel that you've suffered a loss, so there's no way not to care. But it's not your girlfriend's fault.

The best way to do things in the past is to forget him. If you really can't forget, separate yourself, otherwise there will always be a knot between you.

<> do you care about their past and why?

If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart. When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy.

Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

If you don't care about the other half's past, it depends on the person, you also know that everyone is different, and they think differently, if they have not been married and have been married to talk, the immature will feel that they have suffered a loss;

Why do you want to find a mature person who has been married (men may think so, but women don't like uncles a little bit now)?

Before knowing or having ideas, they will first understand each other, feel that the other party is not suitable for them, whether there is resistance from the two families, how others will see them, whether they really like each other, etc.;

If the other party has children, whether they are willing to raise them, whether they can accept them, etc.;

If both parties have been divorced, have experienced marriage and know what life is, and their personalities are more compatible, it will be easier to accept what the other party wants;

Yes! It is recommended to calm down, get along well if you like each other, talk more about the present, and plan more for your future;

When you think about him, you get upset when you're with your ex; However, ask him if he loves you now? Is it still ambiguous with your ex?

If he loves you now and breaks off from his ex, you just manage this relationship well, don't keep thinking about the past, it doesn't matter how good or bad he and his ex were before, just like when you and your ex were together!

If he has a few pasts, maybe you don't care about his past, but essentially care about him as a person!

He's got a few pasts, he doesn't give you a sense of security, he's better off with a few exes than they ended up parting, and I'm afraid you won't be the same. It depends on what you know about this person, if he is reliable and down-to-earth, he will go on;

If you don't even have the least sense of security, you still need time to get along;

Well, so what?

If you love each other, increase your attractiveness and be more confident;

At least believe that your future is bright, and if you doubt it, you won't go far. If there is indeed a problem with the man's character, you communicate with him and let him change it, and it would be good to change it;

If you are still messing with flowers and grass everywhere, this mountain looks at that mountain is high, and it is not worth entrusting for life, then love yourself well and make yourself better!

I wouldn't mind.

If you love someone, you have to accept his past, either tolerate it, or you can only let go of this relationship, and there is no other choice.

What is the point of people looking forward, and always looking back? Who hasn't been in the past?

If the two Yu Lian Sakura decide to go back together, the other party's past is not important, the important thing is that the person he loves now is you.

Since you have decided to be with him, you have to accept his past, the past things that none of us can change, only the future and tomorrow can be changed. As long as he is good to you now, everything can start again, at the beginning of people, sex is not good. You treat each other with sincerity and believe that he is the same.

In fact, everyone has a past, no matter what it was before, it can't be changed, and now mind his past, or because his performance doesn't make you completely reassured, but it also shows that there is his weight in your heart, but as for the status quo that you can't accept, you have to think about it yourself, what kind of other party you want more.

If you care a lot about patting his past, then the relationship between you will be very hard, after all, everyone will have their own past, and you should care about your present and future.