The more I grow up, the more I don t like the world, what should I do?

Personally, I think the so-called sophistication is the most tiring! The older I get, the more I don't like the world! I can't learn it, and I don't want to learn it!

It's best to do simple things yourself! You don't have to think about the psychology of others everywhere, please for the sake of please, it's good to please well, and it's not easy to play a counterproductive role, and the gains outweigh the losses! So no matter who it is, work or life, keep the simplest and most kind heart, most people can still accept it!

Friends, life is a book, the world is just a way of dealing with people, if you know how to see through people, feelings, the world, this is your wisdom and ability, if you can't see through the people, feelings, the contradictions in the world and the shortcomings of others, it is also an opportunity to leave people face and correction, which is also your cultivation and wisdom. In our dealings with people, we must know how to see through first, and then do not explain thoroughly, and point to the point. Only in this way can we grasp the initiative and gain the first opportunity in the unspoken rules of human feelings, so as to advance and retreat freely.

Maybe sometimes in the process of conversation, embarrassing situations will often happen, sometimes we inadvertently say the wrong thing, so that the other party feels embarrassed, then look for a step, to make the other party happy to go on, is your highest wisdom.

It is recommended that you give yourself time to calm yourself first, so that you can gain the strength and courage to start again in the process of looking back at your heart. Some things will not happen if we avoid them, they will come after all, and some hurdles cannot be avoided, so climb over! The big deal is to get dirt, but there is no longer any fear to climb over.

After all, we don't want to live a life like this, after all, you have had enviable glory in the past. If you stop at the past, then you will not even forgive yourself when you look back on the past.

Then don't be reluctant, don't settle for the world! If people are sophisticated and go against their hearts, they would rather not go along with it, but they don't like it, but they insist on learning to slip the whiskers and shoot the horse, only to slap the horse's legs, and make themselves a joke in the eyes of others. High or low does not mean that you have to attribute all the way out to "human sophistication", and live yourself like a dog's tail grass, as soon as the wind comes, it will blow you down!

"Human feelings" must be grasped, and "sophistication" must be seen clearly. There is no escaping the sophistication of human feelings, and where there are people, there will be more or less sophistication. Don't blindly compare, you have your own personality, and people who don't have personality should not be able to see it!

When communicating, the attitude must be sincere. When talking, especially when the other party is talking, we must listen carefully, have no distractions, do not play with mobile phones, do not interrupt each other's words at will, maintain sincere gaze, do not wander, some people in the face of the people they care about, will hope that their performance meets the expectations of the other party, and even repeatedly think about how to reply next, this kind of mind wandering.

To be good at listening, the better a person is at listening, the more harmonious the relationship with others, because listening itself is a kind of praise for the other party, and you can listen patiently to the other person's conversation, which is equivalent to telling the other party that you are a person worthy of my respect. We must not only hear what the other person is saying, but also feel the hidden meaning behind his words. If the other person is asking you for help, be sure to find out if the other person really needs help

I am such a person, the more I grow up, the more things I need to face, and the more people are sophisticated, which will make me very tired. Sometimes when you have to face it, just accept it calmly!Try to be a little more sophisticated.

Put down your phone, uninstall games and shopping apps, force yourself to communicate with people, and slowly, it's fine, mainly to reduce the number of times you communicate and play with people.

In fact, not only you, but also me, have experienced too much, and I have taken these things lightly, and I feel that living my own life is true.

In the exchange, we should also give feedback in a timely manner, not perfunctory, and there should be a principle at this time: empathy. Be sure to stand in the other person's perspective and position, put yourself in the other person's shoes, don't blindly preach, understanding is more important than reasoning.

The more I grow up, the more I don't like the world, everyone will become like this, just let it be.

I also don't like the world, but I can't help it, I have to work like this.