How did a former friend become like this now? Is it my reason?

Looking at this experience of yours, I am really emotional. Well, it's very similar to my experience. Especially this paragraph:

She is now with the people she used to hate every day, and she is very happy, and he will do whatever they want! The same does not pull. People sometimes count her down, and let him do what he can, but he is very happy!

I was okay with him a few days ago, often talking and playing, and walking together when I went home. I'm more introverted, so my relationship with my teammates isn't very good, but it's okay. "It's really sad.

I don't know your friends, so I don't know how to judge. I just think that the reason why she ignored you may need you to ask her yourself, communicate, and then speculate on your own.

If she's a wall-to-wall plant, then she'll probably hang out with people who are more adept or more adept, so much so that it's possible to ignore introverts like you. But you can't change your opinion of someone else just because of a word, don't you?

Friendship is a complex thing. I'm also a bit of an introvert, like you. I also used to have a good friend with whom I used to be, and it was really good.

I did a lot of things with her, and at that time I even felt that she was the best person in the whole school with me. But then she casually misunderstood me, sneered at me, told others how I was, and had a good relationship with another person she had said she hated before. It's really not a taste in my heart.

Later, we reconciled, and she said she would compensate me. But then I slowly realized that maybe she wasn't sincere from the beginning. Because probably none of her many friends would be as faithful to her as I was.

So I can cherish it or throw it away. Now I am tepid with her, because I feel that this friendship is not worth it. But now that I think of the good days in the past, I am still sad and regretful.

I say so much, just to tell you that friendship is really real and fake. Some things and some feelings cannot be concluded by someone else's words or two sentences. If you think your friendship with her is genuine, go talk to her.

It might be helpful to know what she thinks.

Human nature is inherently good. Sincerely, the gold and stone are open.

In addition to your friend's reasons, you also have to try to impress her with your sincerity.

If you are a friend, you can't see it without danger, maybe your life is too dull. Why bother with mediocrity.

Recognize that different experiences are fickle, and different experiences make different people.

I used to think that I was a good friend, but now we have settled in different cities, I thought we might be estranged because of the distance, but fortunately no, our relationship is still as close as it used to be, although we may not be able to play together from time to time like when we were single, but fortunately, at least we are still very close to each other, and we will occasionally go out on vacation together, I think I am content to have such a friend in this life.

When I was young, I always felt that it was right to have more friends, and it was easy to walk with more friends, but then I found that many times it is not that you have a lot of friends, and you think that you are friends, and people really treat you as friends. You can still be the soul partner of the other party.

The distance between us before is indeed far away, but we are still like before, everything to say to each other, there will never be a situation where you don't know what to say, and there are any troubles, you don't need to say much, the other party can understand, it is the kind of other party as soon as you listen to your voice, you understand how you feel, we always complain to each other, although it is true that we are married far away, but the distance can not hinder the intimate relationship between us, I think this is probably the knowing.

Friends don't care much, many times we can tell the people around us that we are good friends, but in fact, you also know in your own heart, whether you are good friends or not, whether the other party has entered your heart, and who is the person you really think is a good friend, why do you have such a feeling You know, because knowing, real friends, and those friends who drink and meat are different, and we are knowing, so we are still close.

Now they are all very good, and now my relationship with them is also very cordial, and the relationship is also very strong, our interests and hobbies are still very same, and the relationship is also very sweet.

It's still very good, they're still with me, we're still very good friends, very close.

Now I have a very good life, I am married, and my life is relatively happy and relatively plain.

They are all married and have children. I have a small family of my own. Life is getting more and more flavorful, but it's no longer as green as it was at the beginning.

Uninvited, gone. I thought about it, but I was afraid that they would stay away from me, so I first said that I wanted to stay away, or "run away".From junior high school to university, about eight years. We were five people.

Some of my friends are gone, some of my friends have gone abroad, some of my friends have stopped contacting, and some of my friends have become my creditors......

Therefore, friends may not be for life, and it is possible to get off early!

My former good friend has gone to study in another city, and I am still in the same place, although the world is different, but the affection is still there, I wish him success in his studies and a good life!

We were very good friends a long time ago, but as time goes by, our friendship fades, and now we may vaguely remember the names of good friends, as well as some things.

Now my good friends, my personality has not changed, I am still very good, we can still talk about the world, and time has not changed our character.

They're all drifting away, aren't they? Because the city where I studied and the experience of each other are different, there are many fewer common topics, and there is no topic for conversation. So the feelings are slowly estranged.

Signature: Your change is too cold Do you have a cheeky face?

Log: We used to be so good friends. But people are always fickle.

I don't know how thick your face is, but it hurts to see your disguised face.

When you finally lose face, our friendship is over. But I miss you so much.

Have you ever missed me? No, you don't.

You betrayed me, and you don't take our friendship seriously. What's in it for you to do that.

Do you think it's honorable to hang out with a bunch of hooligan boys, isn't it amazing?

When you bully someone, have you ever thought that you will also be bullied one day?

If you don't feel guilty, I don't have anything to say, I can only say that your cheeks are invincible.

The heart of a good friend is cold Friends have changed and become unacceptable to you.

It's written casually, but I would like to remind you that you have to take a look at "Don't be angry".

Face the reality too with a good heart, no matter how it changes, no matter how evil it becomes, but as long as you don't do it, you are right, you are right, and evil is always invincible.

If you want to help it, your strength is not enough, you can only turn to his family for help. That's the best way to go. Hope it helps.

The same goes for a good friend of mine. But the boys in my class were all hooligans. Are you really worth caring about your friends? My good friend always misunderstood me and her ex-boyfriend and was very angry.

、Past you、We are fine。 Now you, we ... Woo woo, can you be the same as before?

I can't listen to you when I tell you big things. I don't know how to say it. If you really don't listen to my advice.

I don't know what it will be like for you in the future. Woooooooo

The troubles of a helpless teenager.。。

How old is the landlord?

Lovers who originally loved each other, in the face of a breakup, may have unavoidable reasons, or have unspeakable reasons and still want to be a pair of friends after the breakup, wouldn't they bring everything in the past back to their lives? Why bother? Of course, I don't approve of breaking up and becoming enemies and enemies, slandering each other, and wanting to kill each other.

When you see your former lover living happier than you, will you be jealous? When the former lover is excited to bring the new lover to make an introduction, even if you pretend not to care, but the taste in your heart ......

Why do you bother to find a yellow lotus to chew yourself? If the life of your former lover is not happy, your old love plus compassion will definitely think a lot ......After all, you used to be lovers in love, and you also used to have a good love life, in the face of the frustration and confusion of your former lovers, will you lend a helping hand? Will you fall into that emotional vortex again?

In the end, everyone has a new half, you continue to be friends with the old love, what will the new Tongzhu lover think in his heart, the lotus root is broken? The new love must be dissatisfied in his heart, and what is even more terrifying is that in the suspicion and debate, a geometric relationship is generated. Of course, there are some successes, but it always sounds like there is a slight embarrassment.

has never been unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup? Looking at your former lover, kissing me and me with others, and rejoicing, you will definitely have a ......Why bother making your own drama for yourself and for them? If you've already broken up, why do you want to deliberately maintain a relationship that borders on friendship?

It's better to seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away, and welcome the royal wheel to take on a new life.

If you break up, why bother to be friends again? Otherwise, what a breakup.

Ice iá 2008-07-23 19:02 Report.

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Everyone in the world is changing

I also agree with you when you say that it is absolutely imitative of Nafa now, too.

I can't say no, no.

1. You'd better set up a principle for making friends, because human nature is like a hedgehog that must keep a certain distance, too hot if it's close, and too cold when it's far away: the core circle of friends, the better circle of friends, and the ordinary circle of friends.

2. The most core friends should be like-minded and share weal and woe, such friends can not be too many, at most two or three people are enough, too many are chaotic. And to long-term communication, not far-fetched, some friends on the road of communication, closer and closer, to cherish, and sincere to keep, it is best to develop into lifelong friends. Of course, if a person does not have such friends, life is also very lonely and sad.

Some friends are getting farther and farther away, indicating that they are less like-minded and can go with him.

3. A better friend should be a good friend, who can get along as a partner, and this kind of friend is basically like-minded, but in some major matters, it may only be to support you, and not to help in interests. You have to understand this, too, because you yourself don't have the energy to help these friends materially. If you do this, people will do the same, and in the long run, then you will develop into the most core friends.

4. For the ordinary circle of friends, you can treat each other sincerely, but don't expect too much. Most friends can only be acquaintances, neighbors, classmates, and classmates. Say hello when you meet, you can wave if you can't hear it, and if you have something to do, of course, you have to help!

5. Look at who you and the above classmates can develop to what situation? If it is a good friend or an ordinary friend, it is normal for people not to actively participate in your activities, and you should not be distressed, which means that your friendship has developed in general, and you can watch from a distance and not be profane. Please refer to it.