Is such a boyfriend worth dating?

Updated on society 2024-05-04
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Uh....I've never met this kind of boy, and they all say that girls are a luxury for boys, but, your boyfriend is too stingy, I go out shopping with my girlfriend, eat or something, I usually buy it for her....Most boys are like that....I don't understand him, maybe his tutor just can't spend money casually...But he's also too cocky....I don't think such a boy can have a deep relationship, think about it, you can bear it now, wait until you get married? Married, he still only spends your money??? And besides, does he love you?

    You never brought it up....I don't think he really likes you (hehe, just a personal opinion, of course). You can talk to him, they are all students, how can they have so much money? If you don't repent, just break up!

    Finally, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It seems that you have misunderstood, in fact, this kind of boy is the legendary natural stupid, very slow to feelings of a type. It's not that he doesn't want to take the initiative to buy you something, it's that he simply doesn't realize that he should buy you something. If he continues like this, he may really develop a dependence mentality, which means that this may really continue in the future.

    This problem is easy to solve, you can simply say to him like a coquette, what I want, or what I want to eat, and he will take the initiative. Because you don't want to wake him up, that's why he doesn't realize it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your boyfriend is too careless, is it nice to be careless, to put it ugly, he may have always felt that you should spend money! This kind of man won't be considerate of you at all, what else can you do with it? Divide it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really love him. Tell him all your thoughts. Holding everything in your heart is not only uncomfortable, but it must have an impact on your feelings.

    If he loves you, he will change for you, and if he has any complaints, it must not love you enough. Confess it directly, he doesn't know that you are also holding it in vain.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can't say he's wrong, you can only say he's not right for you.

    LZ thinks I'm right, just send me your **, appreciate it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your behavior has made him form a kind of dependence, and even he has an indifferent attitude towards you, if you change now and suddenly don't pay, then the result may be to arouse his suspicion, and it is inevitable to break up in the end.

    In fact, 2 people need to learn to live together, and you still need to grasp this matter yourself!

    In fact, you should tell him about this matter directly, ask him why I pay for it, of course, the skill of the questioning determines the final result, think carefully, it is best to simulate it in your mind in advance, this is a good habit!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then say it, you say you want to make yourself feel cared for, you want him to care about you or something, just say it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In a word, you are just a passerby to him, and he will not think about anything at all, please relieve the child.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't know what the Russian side is used to, but if it's in China. That's the typical little white face**--

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Break up and pull I look down on these men the most How come I haven't met a woman like you hey ...I'm not in China like you either, hey.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not worth dating anymore.

    You are skeptical of this relationship, and subconsciously you already have the idea of giving up, but you don't admit it.

    Your boyfriend's attitude towards himself is far less than your attitude towards him. Compared to him, you are more motivated and willing to give. If a person doesn't give much and doesn't love enough, why bother dating.

    There are a lot of differences in personality between the two of you, and it will be difficult to get along for a long time, unless he learns to grow up and mature, and the most important thing is to take responsibility.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's really not worth it, this is a man who is not very motivated,

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you really love him, it's worth anything, as long as he doesn't go too far.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your boyfriend may be used to a pampered life and has been living under the protection of his parents, and it may be difficult for him to take on and face some practical problems independently, which needs to be experienced, grown and transformed. If you choose him, you have to be very determined and mentally prepared, and you really need to face and bear a lot of pressure in this process, and the results may not be as you think.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Emotional problems, others can only advise. You'd better go according to your own heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    What do you want him to do with such a man.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Understand and tolerate the prosperity of the career, love and be a good couple;

    The four members of the family celebrate together, and the garden of happiness is always spring.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, men's tolerance also depends on what it is, and it cannot be tolerant without principles.

    Second, you say that he is very gentle, which proves that he is still very good to you and loves you.

    Third, you say that he is ostensibly thinking about you, but in fact he is putting himself first. I think this may be your idea, or maybe in his heart, you are the first, but I don't want to explain too much, which creates a false impression for you.

    Fourth, a difference of 5 years is nothing. People are different.

    There are also those who are twenty or thirty years old and fall in love until they are old, and what is 5 years old.

    Fifth, your parents' opinion of him depends mostly on you, and if you love him very much, you will try to convince your parents. If even you are hesitant yourself, then your parents' opinion will naturally prevail. If you are an obedient girl, you don't need to ask for help here, just listen to your parents and solve the problem.

    Finally, I think that men and women should be tolerant when they get along, because everyone has their own personality, their own little temper, and even small problems, if they blindly care, or too much, it will affect the development of feelings. I think that as long as it is not a matter of principle, we should both have a tolerant and generous mind, see each other's strengths, and overcome our own shortcomings, so that the relationship can continue. Otherwise, you will not be able to adjust yourself well, and no one will be able to help you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What people eat, wear, shelter and travel is not for themselves.

    So the person who puts himself first is not only your boyfriend, but also ourselves. It's just a matter of severity.

    In addition, it is your own choice to associate with him, because he can bring you better feelings than others, and it is said that it is for the sake of it.

    Yourself, love someone, on the surface, is to love others, in fact, you are loving the feelings that others give you, you will associate if you feel good, and you will not associate if you feel bad, so you will divide and combine, and continue to stay with the feeling, so if you want to find a good partner, it often becomes.

    A very difficult thing to do.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    More than 90% of the love is closed as soon as possible once the parents oppose it. Of course, there are 10% because men are motivated and considerate of their women. And as you say, he will not tolerate you, nor will he take you into consideration in anything, and if you insist on marrying together, you will break the hearts of your parents.

    After the second marriage, you will definitely regret it. But isn't it too late by then? "Even if you love him very much, if it's not suitable, you have to throw him to someone who is suitable for him, and you find someone who is suitable for you" Think about it carefully, although it is love, it may also be your future dependence!!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Sometimes I make mistakes inexplicably", what does this sentence mean?

    If it's not a matter of "principle", be more tolerant of him, after all, it is also "fate" for the two to come together; Of course, if it is a matter of "principle", it stands to reason that not a single mistake should be made, let alone "sometimes" a mistake will be made. If that's the case, I suggest that it should be broken, "it should be broken, but it will be chaotic"!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Nothing"It is the word that I will put on my lips every day. But I've found that some people don't like people like me, and I think that's the kind of friend you're going to make. In fact, you can really not do this between good friends.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's good that he didn't do anything to be sorry for you, which shows that he is a man with affection and righteousness Cherish it! Don't overthink it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not that you haven't taken him into account, you should try to understand him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The first point is that not being tolerant is equal to being stingy, this kind of man is the most undesirable, and secondly, he considers your feelings on the surface, which is actually hypocrisy. This kind of man still forget it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    As long as he loves you, everything is not a problem.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's better to just hurt once, and it hurts even more when you have a child.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Other people's ideas are just auxiliary. It's up to you. Just keep going. If you don't want to, just go out at the next intersection. Think twice before you act.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You should have a good talk with him. Let him try to correct these things as much as possible. If it's the same as always, I don't think there's much to say.

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