Is such a boyfriend worth paying? My boyfriend says he doesn t deserve me, I deserve better

Hello, the question you asked makes me feel that you are very wise, and in the same way, you are also very realistic and very good at thinking about your lifelong happiness, and it is true that the lifelong happiness of girls and what kind of person you want to marry are the most important things to you, isn't it?

You yourself have seen with your own eyes that he has changed a lot for you, but you must know that there can be no only love in life, because life is very realistic and cannot be compared with love, everything in life is sometimes cruel and helpless. Take the most realistic money as an example, if you don't have money, how do you live, do you have confidence in your future, maybe you will say, no money now is temporary, there will be in the future, but you have to consider that now you have no money, how should you live, live like a year, are you willing? Seeing that others are living a very happy life, don't you have a trace of envy, you also hope that you can live that happy and happy life with the person you love, this is what every girl looks forward to and yearns for when she talks about marriage, this is a matter of course!

However, your boyfriend has indeed changed a lot for you, but you have to ask yourself, are you confident in your future, does everything and his performance reassure you, do you feel safe with him, has he discussed your future with you, if not, it means that your boyfriend is not mature, thinks about the problem very one-sidedly, and does not give you a very reliable sense of security from reality, so how can you have confidence in your future, you say?

Many people say that girls should find a man who is a few years older than themselves, because such a man has his own career, and a mature man makes the girl feel very secure and responsible, so that you can stay with him with peace of mind, and he can also give you the future you want, mature men will know how to cherish you more, love you, and love you well, but I don't mean that young men are not good, but compared with mature men, there is still a gap of some distance!

Although he in the past cannot represent him in the future, but what you need is not only love, but also life, looking for love and happiness in the bits and pieces of life, I think that's what you want, isn't it?

If you really want to find a man who can give you a future, you can end this relationship that you can't give you and you want in the future, maybe it will be very painful, but there is no way, it may bring harm to your him, but for your lifelong happiness, you can't help it!

The above is purely a personal opinion, if there is any offense, please understand!

Love alone is not enough, but it can't be done without love. Let him become more mature, if he is still young, you might as well wait a while to see how far he can change for you, and give him a chance, after all, there are not many people who can love you and love these days. But if you already feel that he is tired of you, and you don't have the courage to continue in love, that's a different story.

It's really not enough, think about reality, after all, there is a lot of love that is defeated by reality. You can persuade him that there is no grass at the end of the world.

If you really like him, just do what you want, if you don't really like him, but because of some of his initiatives, then you can divide, because you don't like him at all, if you really like him, then you accept it, no matter how it will end in the future, it must be your own choice, and you have no regrets, if you don't figure it out now that you give up, then when you regret it later, you can only regret it.

He can go to die, s b one.

You keep saying that he loves you very much, but you don't say whether you love him or not.

I think if you really love him, then you have to stick to it and don't give up on a relationship easily!

All men in the world are the same. I said that I had played with a few women before. Leaving to cut your wrists doesn't mean anything. Because you can't assume that you guarantee him later. Maybe five years from now. Maybe in ten years, they won't change their minds.

Life is very practical, and the future is not just about feeling and having fun together. You still want children, and you have children's future. So..

All men in the world are the same.

I said that I had played with a few women before.

Leaving to cut your wrists doesn't mean anything.

Because you can't think about it.

Promise that he won't change his mind in the future.

Divide it, you live in life, you can't live in illusion forever.

TA is not interesting!!

Divide it, you live in life, you can't live in illusion forever.

It's not enough, you still have to live.

If only he could have a career.

It's such a blessing to have a boyfriend who is willing to give everything for you. In fact, there are really very few people like one who is willing to give everything for himself. But if you do meet it, you will be very happy.

When I was a student, I was lucky enough to meet one. Because we were all relatively simple when we were students, we might like someone and be willing to give everything for him. It's a very simple and pure feeling, I really like it, I like it very much.

If this kind of boy who is really willing to give everything for you is true, super super spoiled you, and very good to himself, he is comprehensive in all aspects, this experience is simply amazing! <>

What kind of experience is this? He will be very concerned about any of your expressions, any detail he will pay attention to, he will always care about your feelings, will also be when he is unhappy, will buy everything I want, when I want to say what kind of food, or something else, he will buy it for me without saying a word, when I feel unwell, he will also be the first to send care, is really in the eyes of the care, he is good to you, The liking for you is completely expressed in the action, and you can feel it completely. This feeling is really blissful.

But sometimes he will overcare about me, I feel that his love for me will become a burden, I will feel as if I am not as good as he is to me, good to him, and sometimes he will limit my freedom. But I understand him very well, he really likes me. <>

I really like him too, but the way I treat him is different from the way he treats me, he treats me so well that I feel like no matter what I do, it doesn't seem as good as he did for me. I feel that he is full of energy every day, and it seems that he has endless energy, and sometimes he even goes to work for the one I want, and there are indeed many things that move me when I get along with him, and I really feel very happy at that time.

Such an experience must be very happy, and I am very happy, because my boyfriend is very good to me, it will make me feel very happy, and at the same time, I will give everything for my boyfriend, only in this way can I make my love sweeter and more lasting.

It must be a happy and sweet experience. When there is a boy who is willing to give everything for you, he really likes you and really loves you, so you must cherish it and don't miss it.

It's going to be a very happy experience. How many women want to find a man who can pay for themselves wholeheartedly, because women feel that a man who is willing to pay for you is the one who loves you and is worth relying on.

If your boyfriend is willing to give everything for you to take care of you and understand you, I think love is the most satisfying and happiest for you, and everything you get in love will make you feel extremely happy and happy.

Of course, it is a very happy, very warm, very happy experience. It is very rare to have a boyfriend who is dedicated to you, and now I think it is a very happy thing to find such a boyfriend.

That must have been very blissful. The other person can give everything for you, will be happy when you are happy, and when you are unhappy, he will coax you. When you are troubled, he will enlighten you. Surely everyone wants to find such a boyfriend.

My boyfriend is willing to give everything for me, I should be full of emotion and satisfaction, but I also feel a little guilty, everyone is an individual, I don't want him to lose himself for me.

Therefore, some people do not believe in love and marriage. Especially for most women, this kind of thing. It's all an emotional act of self-giving.

I feel very happy, I feel that I have found a person who truly loves me, let myself be happy in the sweetness of love, look forward to a better tomorrow, and will be willing to pay for each other.

It will definitely be very happy, because no matter what you do, there is someone behind you who will support you silently. Companionship is an important factor in making love last.

This is a very happy experience, if when you are in love, your boyfriend can give everything for himself, then he will feel very happy and happy.

If I meet a boyfriend who is willing to give everything for me, I will feel very happy, because I feel that falling in love is meant to be paid by both parties.

Wow, for a month, your boyfriend who gave everything for you, of course, I was very happy in my heart, and it showed that this man really loved me.

It is a very happy experience, and you will feel very happy, and the relationship will be very sweet and happy.

If I meet such a boy, I should marry him, and he will love you very much.

Summary. However, if he is not in the above situation, he is not willing to spend money on you when he falls in love, then it will be even more difficult after marriage.

My boyfriend is reluctant to spend money on me, but he is very good to me in other aspects, is such a man worth marrying?

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My boyfriend is reluctant to spend money on me, but he is very good to me in other aspects, is such a man worth marrying?

Hello dear, I understand your current mood very well, please don't worry, according to your description, I don't think it's worth it. Of course, you also have to see why he is reluctant to spend money on you, if he is a very frugal person himself, and then he spends less, and rarely spends money on food and drink, but you.

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However, if he is not in the above situation, he is not willing to spend money on you when he falls in love, then it will be even more difficult after marriage.

I told him that there were a lot of mosquitoes, and then he asked me to go to the supermarket to see if there was a mosquito repellent, and after finding it, he asked me to pay for it myself, and he didn't want to buy me such a small mosquito repellent, although we had been in love for less than a month, but I already felt that he was not willing to spend money for me.

<>Honey, that's a bit too picky.

If you are just together and don't want to bother with you, then it may be even more difficult in the future.

And a small mosquito repellent is not expensive, my dear, so what do you mean by saying that he is good to you in other aspects? <>

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Summary. Dear, my boyfriend said he didn't deserve me, I deserved better. Your boyfriend thinks you're really good, you have done a lot for him, and he sees it in his eyes, but he may not have given all his love to you, and he feels guilty in his heart and doesn't deserve your good.

My boyfriend says he doesn't deserve me, I deserve better

Dear, my boyfriend said he didn't deserve me, I deserved better. Your boyfriend thinks you're really good, you have done a lot for him, and he sees it in his eyes, but he may not have given all his love to you, and he feels guilty in his heart and doesn't deserve your good.

When two people are together, the love they give may not be reciprocated. But as long as you love each other, you can give your boyfriend a little more confidence.

Since he knew that I was good, why didn't he give me all his love.

And pretend to love me and sleep with me.

If he cares in words and behaves in his daily life, he loves you. That means he has given all his love to you.

He just wasn't confident enough and felt like you were really good and a little unworthy of your feelings.

I really don't want to say it, I'm sad.

He may just be testing your feelings.

So what if it's all divided now.

Did you mention the breakup? Or is it him?

He doesn't care about me, he doesn't love me that much, I say how he treats me, he says I'm really angry, I talk about breaking up.

And then he agreed? When was it said? How long has it been?

He agreed to divide it, and he said that he was not worthy of my effort, but that I deserved better, and that's all.

When you say those things, you should hope that he can love you well. When he says that you do it, it may be that he thinks that it is not bad for you, but that you have to find something by yourself. Then you were angry and said that you broke up.

If you still want to be together, you can only apologize.