I broke up with him a few days ago, and now that I m back, don t you think I m so stupid???

Updated on society 2024-05-23
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is a thorn in the heart, if it is a woman who says that she is reunited, the man will feel that this woman is very dependent on him and can't leave him! My girlfriend told me to break up, and then he begged me to get back together, and that's what I thought! Friend, you will be sad in the future, since he knows that you can't do without him, you will feel how he will treat you in the future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    OK. Do you think about why some divorced after getting married, and why do some remarry? It's because of feelings.

    And there will be friction between two people. So it's a sure thing. As long as there are feelings. As long as you still love each other. Then let's get along. He's right.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why break up (if the reason for the breakup hurts you badly, then you're stupid).

    If you love her and he loves you now, then it's worth it.

    If you love him and his heart is no longer yours, and you're not happy anymore, then even if the relationship stays, it's still unhappy, and it's going to hurt each other, and it's going to be even worse!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't think about the past! You can do it all over again! Nothing! Girls like to engage in this kind of line.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What to say without saying a breakup. Men are too skinny, and he has the same face when he says anything, which is really annoying sometimes. I think it's fun to be angry all day long.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Feelings can't stand such a toss.

    It is always said that if you break up, you will slowly get skinned.

    Advice to break up or something like that, no matter how angry you are.

    Don't say it lightly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you love, be more tolerant and less calculating!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You really can, don't give up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. My dear, you can say that, yes, I thought you would never leave me for the rest of your life, but I didn't expect you to give up very freely. Creation makes people.

    After being together for more than three years and breaking up for almost three months, my ex said that I suddenly said I'm sorry, I lost you, how should I reply.

    My dear, you can say that, yes, I thought you would never leave me for the rest of your life, but I didn't expect you to give up very freely. Creation makes people.

    Or you could say, yes, I used to think we could grow old together. I thought that you could rely on me for the rest of my life, but what I didn't expect was. It was you who gave me the wind and rain.

    I don't know why he cleverly said this to me It was 1:57 a.m. I suspect he was drunk And he has already deleted and blocked me, how can he send me a Zen wheel message that I can't read in the circle of friends.

    It should be a certain point, a certain event that touched him and reminded him of his memories with you.

    Forget it, although I still think about it, I can't believe it, maybe I was really drunk.

    My dear, can understand your feelings, after all, we have been together for three years, live your life well, I believe that if he really can't let go of you, he will contact you again.

    Well, since I separated from him, I slowly forgot about those unhappy things, I was no longer depressed, my weight was back, and my complexion was much better.

    Yes, instead of dwelling on these things, it is better to love yourself well and make yourself better and better.

    In this way, we can meet a better love.

    Hmmm. Why do I feel a little messed up?

    Chaos is normal dear, more in love with each other.

    After all. Sorry for the typo.

    I finally replied to the message, I said if you lose it, you will lose it, if you guess you have the heart, you will definitely find it back, and then he didn't reply to the message, I don't need to send an answer, I need to send another message.

    Of course not, my dear, if he wants to get it back, he'll reach out to you. I advise you not to be too proactive.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It seems that there is a big problem in your relationship that requires serious communication and reflection. From your description, we can see that your breakup and awkward relationship was brought up by you first, and now he often proposes to break up, which may mean that he is already feeling tired. He may already feel that you often let him let you go, making him feel stressed and burdened, so now he wants to end the relationship.

    In this case,It is recommended that you communicate carefully。First of all, you need to honestly reflect on your actions and attitudes, thinking about whether they are constantly making him feel tired and stressed. If yes, you need to admit your mistakes and try to change your behavior and attitude so that he can feel your change and effort.

    At the same time, you also need to show him your love and care, so that he knows that you really want to be with him and are willing to give for the sake of the relationship.

    You also need to listen to his thoughts and feelings, understand why he proposed to break up, and try to address his doubts and concerns。You can ask him what he thinks of your relationship, what problems he thinks you need to solve, and what he wants your future to look like. Through this communication, you can better understand his thoughts and feelings, while also expressing your own thoughts and desires, laying the foundation for the future of the relationship.

    You need to give him enough time and space to think and decide for himself。If he decides to end the relationship, you need to respect his decision and accept reality. If he is willing to stay with you, you need to take the relationship seriously and change yourself as much as possible to make the relationship healthier and better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, people are learning at any time, and when you are saying that you are breaking up and deepening the memory of the other person, the repeated actions and words will be absorbed. When the same scene or behavior occurs again, the other person will also take the initiative to do the same behavior and say the same thing.

    If the same thing happens often, just two people change sides, and both of them end up getting tired.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What's going on. There may be certain problems between you, and you may not have seriously addressed them, or he has given up on solving them. You can sit down and have a serious chat to see what is causing such tension in your relationship, and try to resolve these issues to make your relationship more stable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is because in the past he had to love you, he was reluctant to give up you, he was afraid of losing you, but now that your status has been reversed, you are afraid of losing him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Feng Shui takes turns. He's tired. I don't want to keep making ends after you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Shouting "the wolf is coming" every day, yesterday you shouted, today he shouted, but the wolf never came Knowing that you lied to him, he lied to you, this kind of game has been played for a long time, can you not be tired? ~~

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't look back after it, if you know today, why bother ...... in the first placeEven if you are barely together, it is not the same feeling as before.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello dear, in this case, there are several reasons. First, dear, it's hard to hear the scolding after breaking up, in this case, there is a kind of hatred in the heart of iron and steel, feeling that your approach is very disappointing to him, after marriage, he feels good for you, and if he is not angry, you may also not be angry.

    Second, dear, it's hard to hear the scolding after breaking up, in this case, it may be that the other party can't control his emotions for a while, and regrets it after marriage, and feels that he has wronged you, so after marriage, his emotions calmed down and came to you again.

    After breaking up, the scolding is very ugly, and he will come back to you What kind of psychology.

    Hello dear, in this case, there are several reasons. One, dear, it's hard to hear the scolding after breaking up, in this case, there is a kind of hatred in the heart of iron and steel, feeling that your approach is very disappointing to him, after marriage, he feels good for you, and he is not angry, and you may also accidentally collapse and get angry. Second, dear, it's hard to hear the scolding after breaking up, in this case, it may be that the other party can't control his love for a while, and regrets it after marriage, and feels that he has wronged you, so after marriage, his emotions calmed down and came to you again.

    Three, pro, it may be, the other party feels that there is no problem with scolding you, and you shouldn't hold a grudge later, so I will come to you later.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Hello subject, this is a psychological delusion of yours, because you like to reminisce and live in the past life......In life, everything is to look forward and move forward. When you break up, you can give yourself a more motivational, positive, and healthy lifestyle, such as fitness, **, focus and focus on learning a skill or art, or dedicate yourself to your career.

    In this way, life looks at money, goes to money, and breaks away from the past in time. Have good thoughts, don't do evil, good people, good things and good luck will come to you, break the obsession in terms of feelings, things should not be left in the past, the nature of the coming will come, and immerse yourself in the happiness of your own efforts and struggles.

    Why every time I agreed to a breakup, I thought it was good at the time, and then I regretted it a little and felt that he was actually not bad and wanted to redeem it, but when I didn't break up, I felt no.

    Hello subject, this is a psychological delusion of yours, because you like to reminisce and live in the past life......In life, everything is to look forward and move forward. When you break up, you can choose a more inspirational, positive, and healthy lifestyle for yourself, such as fitness, focusing on learning a technology or art, or dedicating yourself to your career. In this way, life looks at money, goes to money, and breaks away from the past in time.

    Have good thoughts, don't do evil, good people, good things and good luck will come to you, break the obsession in terms of feelings, things should not be left in the past, the coming will naturally come, and be immersed in the happiness and happiness of your own efforts and struggles.

    Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

    Hello first, you can set goals for yourself, break the obsession with the feelings that have been separated, things should not be left in the past, the past has passed, do not entangle the first boring omen, cultivate your own state of mind, all the good things in the world, all need to be matched with the beautiful person exciting, beautiful state of mind, so you need to adjust your state to the best third, since you have left, it is to break away, there is no tangled fourth, do not entangle, let alone entangle, there is no regret medicine in the world, There are only gas stations on the side of the road ahead.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. First of all, I don't know why your family is against it, but there must be a reason. Your family won't hurt you, you may be worried, you will solve your family's worries and fears, and get the support of your family, so that you will have no worries, you can boldly pursue and try, you can't catch up, and you try your best.

    If I propose a breakup and soon regret it, can I still be cheeky and chase her back?

    I think I can give it a try. What caused you to break up?

    It should be my parents' objection, and I have now obtained my parents' consent to lose her.

    Do the parents agree now? Agree that you should reconcile with your ex? If this problem is not solved, there will still be contradictions.

    There are 5 days of blindness, I am because of the opposition of my parents, at that time my parents disagreed very much, I moved out to live for a few days, my parents agreed, I broke up with her 5 days ago, Fu Shukong this matter because of the pressure and burden of Zichang at that time and did not tell her, I proposed to break up, I really have no face to chase her, but I regret it very much.

    You mentioned breaking up, and she didn't say anything?

    No need, just think clearly, after this time it's friends, that's what she said.

    Have you been dating for a long time? I felt like she was talking a little sad.

    I have feelings, and it has been 4 months.

    Then go and try it, under the fight, do you have a reason to break up with her? Or does she know?

    He knew but he didn't know, my family was against it, I was drinking every day, in my rented house, I felt very difficult at the time, and I proposed to break up.

    Why did the family object? If this female Yuxian child reconciles with you, she still can't get the blessing of your family, and she will still be bitter and bitter, and there will be contradictions at any time.

    Is the family's work done?

    First of all, I don't know why your family is against it, but there must be a reason. Your family won't harm you, you may be worried, you will solve your family's worries and get the support of your family, so that you will have no worries, you can boldly pursue and try, if you can't catch up, you will do your best. Jian Zichen.

    You tell me?

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