I went on a blind date a few days ago, and now the woman is too realistic! It s very tangled, wow!

Reality is reality, but I don't like girls who are too realistic, like this, I suggest you don't pay too much attention to it, because after getting married, there may be earth-shaking changes.

I think she's too snobbish, if you continue with her, she won't agree to you if you don't have a material basis, not to mention that she's rejecting you now. She pursues materialism, romance and fantasy. And what you want is life, your trajectories are different, why force it?

You don't have to have a car, but at least you don't want to take a motorcycle, he doesn't refuse you, but he has rejected you euphemistically, don't you have to pick you up** to be considered a refusal! Don't get in touch, it's impossible, she doesn't like you, but it's okay to be friends.

Love is built on material things, and if you want to live a happier life than the person you love, you have to work hard to make money!

A woman like this, don't continue, what should you do if it hurts in the end, know someone who can't stand emotional hurt, find a girl who loves you, if you love you, you won't mind if you have a house or a car, I guess your fate hasn't arrived yet.

Such a woman will not be sincere to you, so it is not worth your effort, don't take it to heart,

Changed to a side three-wheeled motorcycle, which is very stylish.

She's waiting for you to give her a reason not to have a house or a car.

Let's end it, there will be no good results if such a woman asks for it.

Hehe. It's reality that forces people to be realistic.

Reasons for combing] The reasons why young people nowadays resist blind dates may be as follows:

1.The concept of marriage and love is open and free, and he is more inclined to choose the object he likes, rather than a marriage arranged by family and society.

2.Lack of necessary topics and comfort during the blind date process is easy to produce embarrassment and pressure, affecting one's image and mood.

3.The mismatch and unfairness of the conditions in the blind date market, the feeling of being offended and insulted when encountering condescending or coercive ambiguous objects.

4.I don't want to be chased to the shelves, the blind date process is monitored throughout the process, and I have to be asked from time to time how I feel, and I don't have the right to dismantle the bridge and privacy.

Case Description] Case 1: A girl met the son of a brigade rioteau riche, and the other party disrespected her and asked her to be his nanny.

Case 2: A boy participates in a networking activity, and the other girl is cold and unwilling to communicate.

Case 3: A boy said that many girls in the blind date market look at the conditions, not the feelings.

These cases all reflect the dissatisfaction and aversion of some young people to blind dates.

The reason why blind date is difficult is mainly due to the following reasons:

1.Social changes: In modern society, people's ideas and lifestyles have undergone great changes, and many people pay more attention to self-realization and the pursuit of personal value than before. This trend has led to a lower success rate for blind dates.

2.Lack of access to information: Many people prefer to trust their feelings when choosing a partner rather than through channels such as blind date platforms. This will lead to the lack of effective information support for blind dates, which will affect the effectiveness of matching.

3.Expectations are too high: Some people have too high expectations about their partner's appearance, height, income, etc., and it is easy to turn the blind date into a "mate selection game", rather than a blind date in the sense of the real thing.

In such an environment, it is difficult for even people with good conditions to achieve a certain advantage.

4.Mentality: In the process of blind date, some people have too high expectations for themselves, and will appear too nervous or deliberately express themselves in the blind date, resulting in a bad impression on the other party.

At the same time, there are also some people who are prone to inferiority complex or discouragement after the blind date fails, which will affect the next blind date.

Therefore, in order to improve the success rate of blind dates, we need to work hard in various aspects, such as enhancing our ability to obtain information, relaxing the expectation of our partners, adjusting our mentality, etc., and gradually changing our personal behaviors and habits to improve the effect of blind dates.

I think that since it's a blind date, it's basically for the purpose of getting married.

You have a crush on her, but you also have to know if she also has a crush on you. Therefore, this work must be done well, otherwise it will cause her trouble, and it will also make the introducer dare not introduce you next time.

First of all, you can try to send a message or chat online, and do some text communication. If she is cooperative and positive, then it means that she also has a crush on you. At the same time, the communication of words can give us some in-depth understanding, and at the same time, you can tell her your own most real thoughts (especially about the future vision) through words, and guide her to express her plans and ideas.

This is very important, and having resonance will make you less conflicted in the future. It will also make the other party feel that you are a down-to-earth and reliable person.

Then slowly, when you are all more idle, give her a fixed ** and care about her.

At the same time, at the right time, such as after a few days of chatting, try to ask her out.

These actions, although not explicitly stated, have been clearly expressed. At the same time, it also saves a lot of embarrassment and trouble. It also allows you not to make a wrong decision and become an irresponsible person when you don't fully understand her.

You can't be in a hurry, step by step, and you can't just look at your appearance, you have to get along for a while, and it's not too late to confess, so as not to hurt your feelings.

If the two choose to go on a blind date, it generally means that both parties can accept the blind date. Express directly by asking her if she can continue to develop into a relationship of lovers, and if she says no, there is nothing to be embarrassed about.

Fainting Since it's a blind date, it's direct.

Take the initiative to invite, if the other party politely refuses because of reserve, then you should invite multiple times. If the other person is cold and explicitly refuses, it may be that the other person does not have a good impression of you. In fact, the first feeling of blind date is very important, if you really like it, you have to work harder to chase it with practical actions.

Ask her out for dinner more and cultivate your feelings, don't be too anxious, hehe.

Start with friends and don't be in a hurry to say love.

Acquaintance-friends-more contact-dating-see the effect-if you don't hate you-about 10 times, it is estimated that it can be out 8 times, about 10 times out of 1-3-4 times, no play. Nowadays, many women are snobbish, have cars, and have houses. Don't wait to see if you belong to this ranks, pure hand.

If you feel good, reach out, starting with a friend. You also see if she is interested in you too. If you text her and don't answer it, it's boring for you.

Men should take the initiative, and if they feel good, they should seize the time to contact.

Ask her out, and then make friends first, and then I think it's really good, and I'll talk about it.